Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me.
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✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷
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I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴
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✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst".
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✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me.
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I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side.
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✨ Inherent beliefs I live by:
At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions.
Every experience is an opportunity to learn.
Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things.
Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity.
Prioritising your life partner.
Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐
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✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness.
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Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too.
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✨ What I'm looking for:
Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection.
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✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄
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If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others.
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