Kinky women in Canada

I am Naomi, I really love praise and pet names. I am looking for someone to dominate me, tower over me, and make me feel like an absolute princess. I cant do a soft dom because i can be a huge brat. I beed someone who can keep a firm mind and not be swayed by my begging out of punishments. I’m not looking for no master/slave. And I’m not about to be your black fetish so don’t even try.

Experienced kinkster with a soft spot for pet/little dynamics and am a curious rope bunny. I may start off a little shy, but give me a minute and I’m all about good conversation, laughs, and genuine connections. Unsolicited pics? Bold choice. I’ll be sending them back with a doodle and a rating, so proceed at your own risk. Pet names and honorifics are a “by invitation only” situation, so let’s earn those first. Here for friendship, good vibes, and seeing where things go. Not chasing anything, but not closing the door either if the chemistry’s right. Mutual respect and enthusiastic consent? That’s the real turn-on.

IF YOU DO NOT READ MY BIO YOU WILL BE BLOCKED. I am LaeLi, not Lae not Li, LaeLi. LaeLi Heart is the full name, don’t act chummy by giving me a nickname when I don’t know you. Into cute emos, or blonde white hunks with chiseled jaws. I don’t like beards. and don’t like pushy forward men. If you are not the above, I will not care about you cause you are wasting my time, I don’t like my time wasted, call me names for having standards? You will be blocked and reported. AND NO I AM NOT INTO *** STUFF. Don’t ever: Call me ma’am, it’s really disrespectful to call people this as it makes them feel old. It’s a term of respect for people OLDER than 40. Tell me how to react or what to do or “Don’t let x bother you” I can do what I want, I’m a big girl. Be a creep in the first dm you send. I like people who have manners. Ask to meet up (I will decide) Ask for real life information Push me to far out of my comfort zone. I’m stubborn and will block. Stalk me. Tell me to “simmer down” it is seriously rude.

A sexually adventurous human who works in the sex industry! Looking for new connections, friends, and co-stars! :) @KlutzKitten

Hello! I'm Kitty. I'm a femme, pansexual queer. I function under ENM, and am open to a monogamous relationship with someone, should we be the right fit. A masochistic, service oriented, hedonistic lover of blasphemy. Experimental, playful, and passionate. I'm looking forward to meeting some kinky folks and making friends in this community. I love me some pervy nerds. I am not a Domme, please do not address me as such. Additionally, I am not interested in long distance arrangements and I am not currently playing solo with any couples. Thank you!

About me, i am just a pet puppy with a service sub and slave side, ive been in the life style as a submissive for 15 years. i am currently looking for a Dominant to help guide, nurture and be strict with me with rules, structure, and so much more, while i offer my submission and servitude in return. i can be a little bit of achaos gremlin, but its all in fun and im a respectful playful brat at times but i am such a good girl! DO NOT message it if Your only going to try to get off in its messages or meet up for a hook up, it is not about that. YOU WILL be ignored. Poly not mono. ➷Likes: gags, bondage, wax, eye contact and s***ch restrictions, Verbal ***, ***, Spankings, Flogging, writing erotica, mental bondage, 24/7 TPE. domestic while *** are around. Sexual when they are away or sleeping. Pet play Orgasm control and denial, CNC, Bathroom Control, choking, breathe play, collars and leashes, cages(need one) And more just the top of my head. ➷Curious about: Hypno, Fireplay, and even tho ove done it its been over 10 years, get back into electro play ➷Limits: Ask.

Hey, it’s Jess! I am 5’3, Capricorn, thick body type. People who know me know that I’m very down to earth and kind hearted but can have a sassy attitude. I’m confident and classy. I like to always have positive energy and have good judgement on energy around me. I enjoy beach days, music, reading, hikes and adventures, collect stones/crystals and into tarot cards. I’m the type of lady who also isn’t afraid of taking risks and chances. Im also very hard working in my career that I very much enjoy. Always working to build a life that I don’t need a vacation from and goals. I can appreciate a man who is passionate about certain aspects of his life, has intelligence and humor. I like a man who is territorial over me but still shows kindness and compassion. I value men who are confident about themselves and what they want, have decent communication skills, trustworthy and have similar life goals and values. Bonus points if you have ink 😍…. I’m usually submissive or a switch however my true desire that I’m wanting to explore is finding a partner with whom I can deeply explore my dominant side, driven by a desire for control and ownership also practicing discipline, but also to foster a meaningful connection rooted in mindset, trust, and mutual growth. I value vulnerability, honesty, and respect as the cornerstones of any profound relationship, creating a safe space where both of us can be our authentic selves. While I’m eager to embrace my dominance, I also find that with the right man someone who embodies strength, understanding, and openness I can naturally slip into a more submissive role, allowing for a dynamic, fluid connection that honours both our needs and desires. I love meeting and getting to know new people however I will not post an exposed photo on my profile or send to just anyone. I’m a lady with class and that needs to be respectfully earned!

I am a polite, well-mannered, sexy and lonely woman. I am a creative, communicative and open person. I smile a lot and can encourage my friends with positive words. I prefer to resolve conflicts calmly. I believe that all disagreements can be resolved through dialogue. I am the perfect Russian bride. I would like to meet a man who needs a serious relationship

I want a man who’ll go down on me after he’s filled me full of his cum. The thought of you passionately kissing me after you’ve eaten my pussy (that’s full of your cum) makes me fucking sweat.

Hi, I'm CJ. I like it rough, and use me as a rag doll, I'd come for more. I am submissive, tell me what to do and I'll do it for you. Want to use me with your friends, the more the merrier 😉

Naughty whore into masochist

I’m a confident and experienced Mistress who enjoys control, respect, and obedience. I love exploring desires, pushing limits, and creating unforgettable experiences. I know my worth, and I expect to be treated accordingly. What I’m Here For I’m here for genuine subs who understand what it means to submit, not time-wasters. If you crave structure, discipline, and pleasure under control, you’ll find exactly what you’re looking for with me.

I am a happily married woman. We have an open marriage and he is fully aware and consensual of my activities. I have a full life of family, work, community service, and my athletic pursuits. Any person that I choose to play with must complement my life and add value to it. I seek to explore the depths of my sexual nature. I like variety and fun, light and dark passions. Good conversation is a must. You need to capture my intellectual interest and make me laugh to keep my attention. I like to read, watch movies, play outside. I run, practice yoga, hike in the summer, and dance. Interested? Send me a message, shoot your shot. Be respectful and remember I am a person first.

If you want a reply specifically message me exactly what youd do to me if we were alone. Dig deep. Life's to short for bad sex tell me your fantasy, if it lines up accordingly we shall see!

first account got deleted.. sensitive Sally didnt like my response. bubbly person.. the right chemistry can bring out that naughty side. Chocolate ONLY, SORRY GUYS.. I HAVE A TYPE AND ITS WHAT I PREFER. :) previously known as lil_demon69

New here curious in the truest sense. Leaning more towards connecting with WOMEN on here with the exception of a few males. I’m fascinated by people: how they think, what draws them in, and what’s happening beneath the surface. I enjoy conversations with both men and women, especially when they drift into imagination, fantasy, and the unspoken. I’m intrigued by what people picture in their minds while they’re talking, when there kissing, when there touching themselves watching what they watch, who they imagine, what traits they’re projecting, and what stories are quietly unfolding. I’m particularly drawn to the deeper layers: desires people hesitate to name, curiosities they’re unsure how to voice, and thoughts that feel safer to explore in conversation than anywhere else. I value openness, nuance, and the kind of dialogue with strangers on here where honesty feels possible without pressure and maybe clarity will arise for you. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll learn something from me too. I’m also very good at offering a female perspective especially when it comes to understanding women. I’m keen on unpacking behaviors, dynamics, and emotional undercurrents, and I’m often told I’m good at explaining why people respond the way they do, particularly in relational and sexual contexts. I’m open to exploring the sexual side of your world the world your scared to share publicly and privately through conversation and shared curiosity, the porn you watch.. If you’re comfortable, I enjoy being sent photos or videos and talking about what they stir up for you. What draws you in? Do they remind you of someone specific, or embody a dynamic you crave? Is there a sense of submission, control, or vulnerability that resonates in yourself, or in the same or opposite sex? I’m interested not just in the image, but in what it unlocks. Same sex porn? Send me what got you off, tell me about why it makes you zing. Or do you simply watch just for a quick release, when you’re stressed or feeling lonely, I like to talk about it and maybe, get off reading your words. I enjoy erotic content and fantasy, but I’m intentional about it mindful of how it can affect connection and relationships, so I keep it in balance. But I wan to know what makes you feel those tingles, I want to see what you see. But only if you ask first. Maybe you’ll get a video I’ve watched and ask you to record something for me, to know what i watch got you there I come from a long-term relationship background and I’m approaching this space thoughtfully. Right now, I’m here to explore, read profiles, understand different perspectives, and gather inspiration for myself and for the way people express desire and identity. No photos for now conversation first. I like knowing that you’re not imagining me exactly. Curiosity, consent, and presence matter more to me than rushing anything.

I am a Princess.. with a capital P! :) Yes I know this is a LONG profile, I use my profile as a filter. Suck it up and read, or don't bother me. I am not looking for sexting or long distance. My chat is short in order to see if we have compatible service hours. No point in connecting in long expressive chat, then we meet and realize there is no chemistry. It's not about looks but energy etc. I am hunting for local submissives only... real life face to face REGULAR service. NO MEET AND BEAT. I have a VERY busy life and you need to be responsible for keeping communication going. If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. Business and in and out of the country, things get hectic. I am seeking service oriented subs who are not looking for sex. In my home, warehouse, etc. Wanting to please me and make me smile, who enjoys CFnm. Your body type is not important. Your vulnerability is. When in Mexico I seek a sub who speaks English and can help me learn the culture, language, translating, shopping locations etc. In Canada, available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. Must be 35 yo or older. In Mexico I have alot more available hours. I am open to any age due to the size of the community, as long as you are mature. I do have some interest in chastity. Knowing I am in control of your orgasms is exciting. Not into Mommy or AB play. If you are looking for hot kinky sexual play, negative psychological treatment or hard sadistic play, you will not be suitable. I have been active as a switch for over 25 years.. and still find new things. It's amazing. I enjoy rituals and rules but not high protocol. I am a toy addict and truly love to test my toys on flesh that begs for my touch. If you like simple touch, soft to medium intensity, floggers and my special baby (check my photos)... you may suit my needs. My favourite is my violet wand ? I am aware electrical can be scary and I will walk you through it slowly. I have given seminars on the safe use of violet wands in the past... and I will respect your safe word. Google violet wand BEFORE you message me. First and foremost, I expect to be entertained and get attention. First meeting... you will buy me lunch/dinner, we have a conversation, and then, you go will home. If we both want to get to know each other more, the next 1 or 2 dinner dates are discussing particular interests and limits. Then we will plan a play session. If that works out for both of us, future private play and service would be in my home or warehouse. I am in committed 24 year kinky marriage and not seeking a relationship. Just casual play partner friends. You will be serving me, not my husband. I own multiple businesses and am doing well. I require your body, submissive nature and your brains not your *** BUT you must have disposable income so I won't feel bad when you buy me dinner, purchase personal toys for yourself, etc. Oh and chocolate covered strawberries or candy apples occasionally. I seek a sub that benefits my life. Whatever talents you have, I can find a way to apply them in my personal and business life. Massage, computer, handyman, organizing, cooking, physical work, pedicures, detailed work, IT, online sales, mechanic, information gathering, house help, etc .. my personal assistant to use and ***. Your talents define the service I request. You are to make my life easier...what talents or training do you have? I am a warm and caring person yet I have a fun soft sadistic side. I am not a hard cold Domme who thinks you are worthless. In fact, I seek a strong confident syb who loves to serve. I will smile happily as I tease and *** you. As long as you try hard to please me and finish your tasks with care, you will find me patient and kind. If you misbehave on purpose I will not "punish" you, I will send you home. I seek a sub who craves to please, not a brat who needs an excuse to be beat. I DO NOT like to repeat myself. Read my profile as I get annoyed if you ask me something stated in it. If we do not connect as D/s private play partners, I can always use a foot massage, chat, servant or play partner at an event. I do not chat online... my life is too busy. I love newbies who are nervous and just want to experience a few things. If you see me at an event, feel free to drop by and chat. Compatibility, good service and hygiene matter to me more than body type. Sorry but you need to be 30+ years to apply to be my boy. If under 30, come serve me at events and I might play with you. Message me with more than just a "Hello" or I will ignore you. Do NOT ask me for kik, whatsapp, messenger etc. If I meet and like you, then you will get easier ways to contact me. Read my PickyPrincess Posts. Do you dare to dip a toe in? ? And congrats... you made it to the end of my book lol

I'm a 45 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 38-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

I am a kind, sociable and caring woman. I am not a conflict person. I am a calm and cheerful woman with a good sense of humor. The most important for me in my life is my family. I value high morals and family values. I am an honest, generous and life loving person.

I am a short chubby lady that likes to be used. enjoy roleplaying cnc *** themes that have elements of *** and ***.

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, kindness, and laughter. I believe in building a relationship based on trust, respect, and support for each other’s dreams. I’m seeking a partner who’s not afraid of real conversations, enjoys both simple moments and adventures, and is ready for something meaningful and lasting. At this stage of life, I’m not looking for games but for someone who’s sincere, caring, and ready to grow together

Hi, I’m Anna, a curious and open minded submissive exploring the kink world. While I have some experience, I’m always eager to learn and grow. I’m drawn to power exchange, impact play and so on. But above all, I value, trust, communication, and mutual respect.

Finnish/French Canadian background; with a love of CNC and rope play. I'll usually try anything once ;). I have a career and a life, my work is unpredictable and busy so I am not constantly available. If you're willing to take your time with me, I can afford you the same courtesy.

I love hunting, reading, photography, and listening to music Don't bother me if you are just here to mess around

I am a woman of ambition, depth, and unwavering standards. My dominance is rooted in psychology—control, structure, and the transformative power of discipline. I seek a submissive who understands that submission is an honor, not a performance. You should be emotionally intelligent, consistent, and genuinely devoted to serving a leader who values growth and authenticity. I am not here for casual conversations, empty promises, or those who confuse fantasy with reality. If you approach me, do so with intention, respect, and a clear understanding of what it means to submit to a strong, purposeful woman.

If you want a reply specifically message me exactly what youd do to me if we were alone. Dig deep. Life's to short for bad sex tell me your fantasy, if it lines up accordingly we shall see!

I want a man who’ll go down on me after he’s filled me full of his cum. The thought of you passionately kissing me after you’ve eaten my pussy (that’s full of your cum) makes me fucking sweat.

I’m looking for sex partners with nsa Casual hookups and free love no relation whatsoever only if u want to

I love being eaten out and fingered. Come play with my bountiful breasts. Who knows, maybe we can do more. I've always wanted to take a Japanese rope bondage class. I would love being spoiled.

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

I'm an overall kinky geeky woman. I am polyamorous and live with two nesting partners. I seek solo, possibly with my fiancée but that's not priority now. I'm a sub-leaning switch. I'll try to detail more soon. Feel free to ask questions. I'm looking local only.

first account got deleted.. sensitive Sally didnt like my response. bubbly person.. the right chemistry can bring out that naughty side. Chocolate ONLY, SORRY GUYS.. I HAVE A TYPE AND ITS WHAT I PREFER. :) previously known as lil_demon69

Looking to discover new kinks, currently love being dominated and love toys, open to any age just looking for someone who knows what they’re doing to show me a good time

i dont like old men (im 19, if youre over 35 i dont want you) date idea: we go on a date to a casino and you give me 🤑🤑 and with the 🤑🤑🤑 i win back we go to a cute adult shop and we pick out a cute outfit for me

Hey there, I’m looking for those who love and enjoy anal only and want to experiment with it ❤️ Tell me about how you’d treat that hole and i’ll become your obedient anal slave 😈

I am Naomi, I really love praise and pet names. I am looking for someone to dominate me, tower over me, and make me feel like an absolute princess. I cant do a soft dom because i can be a huge brat. I beed someone who can keep a firm mind and not be swayed by my begging out of punishments. I’m not looking for no master/slave. And I’m not about to be your black fetish so don’t even try.

Hi love BDSM and cnc I live in Edmonton Alberta and am 18 also I love electricity play and out door play it's so fun

A sexually adventurous human who works in the sex industry! Looking for new connections, friends, and co-stars! :) @KlutzKitten

Hi there 😊 I'm a funloving kind hearted honest and passionate girl , so really need to find someone with the same energy ... love to play love to laugh and just need someone too do that with . New to this kind of platform , but not totally a newbie lol I know what i like and what I don't .. I'm a lover not a fighter .. so take it easy on me for the first little bit here 😉 A true solid connection based on trust and protection of each other is where true intimacy lies ...that's when we can really have fun ... so looking for that for sure ,,, live half time in Lethbridge AB and half time Yahk BC. have my shit together and paid for ... so need someone's who's stable and secure in life as well .

magnetic personality with a dope vibe xx anything you want to know ask 🔥

A smart, funny, laid back, sophisticated gentle lady, that plays well with others. Invested some time for me. And I really like me. Good communicator and usually have an opinion, not that I always feel compelled to share it. I can describe myself pretty easily and how others see me, but I'll leave that up to you. I'm not trying to take you away from your life, just hopefully enhance it

I'm an experienced and eager slave/submissive, looking to serve the right, experienced Master/Dominant. Ideally seeking a long term, monogamish relationship where kink deepens our connection & love. Make no mistake, I'm kinky as fuck. I am interested in long term power exchange where I submit outside the bedroom to deepen pleasure & connection. I long please my Master & experience delicious subspace. I love long sessions/scenes involving bondage, dirty talk, intense impact play, roll play, edging, teasing & punishment/***. I am open to some public play. Definitely open to play parties & flogging demos.

Hello! I’m here looking for discreet hookups! I’m a bit shy but I love sex and I have a few fantasies I want to make happen :3 Not looking for anything long term but if we vibe right then who knows

Currently with a cuck. Down to talk about anything ask me anything you want to know. Open to roleplay and sexting or talking about your fantasies. Message me with no limits. I'll fuck you and your friends

half sweetheart, half temptation. I laugh easily, flirt shamelessly, and lean I a little too close when im interested. If you want someone fun and flirty then you've found me.

Haiii! I’m Ally!! and I’m a soft little (Little age: 2-4) brat with a playful streak. I’m sweet, affectionate, and cuddly… until I get comfortable, then my teasing side shows up. I’ll pout just to see if you’ll correct me or throw a tiny bit of sass just to get your attention. I’m into agere, gentle guidance, and that warm Daddy Dom energy that’s patient but still knows how to lead when I need it. If you like someone cute, a little mischievous, and secretly craving structure, you’ll definitely enjoy me. 💗 🎀 A Little About Me 🎀 I’m 90 pounds and 5’6. I love spending my time gaming, coloring, and watching my favorite shows. My Little Pony is my comfort show, so be nice about it… or don’t, I kind of like the attention. I’m a virgin!! I’m also obsessed with dressing up cute, whether it’s cozy outfits or something with bows. I’m playful, creative :D Ps, if you think you can handle a brat like me you will have to rethink that hehe 🙃 you Wanna tease me in public? 🦄💗 Add my ***: Allywuh

I enjoy watching a man soften under my voice. That split second when he goes from stubborn to obedient… that’s the moment I own him. add me on 1nsta honeyvaleriax

I like sex... a lot, more than most I think and I have an unusually high drive that not many can keep up with. That being said, I wont fuck just anybody! Before anyone gets in my pants, they need to first get into my head, make me think, make me laugh. My time is precious and I dont have time for bed hoppers or vapid interactions. I like to keep things casual while also having connection. Friendship and actually enjoying each others company and having interest beyond sex is as important to me as physical attraction, chemistry and sexual compatibility. The goal is to find something that is somewhere between friends and lovers with the only commitment being to honesty, respect, consideration and appreciation. I am definitely drawn to cougar/cub dynamics with guys and bestie with benefits with the girlies but if the chemistry is right, I can be open to many different dynamics. If you call yourself a "dom" and you expect me to submit, then I'm probably not the girl for you. I also dont expect anyone to just freely submit to me either. I believe that submission is something that should be earned and should only be placed into capable hands. I am the most capable person I know but you dont have to take my word for it, I'm quite confident that it will be seen and experienced by whomever I might share my time with. As far as everything else about me, I work from home and make my own schedule. I have what some might call a free spirit, I'm a party girl that forgot to grow up, I paved my own path, I found the cheat codes necessary to live a life not stifled by societal norms and expectations... basically I do what I want. I love music, comedy, art, astrology, ***s, baseball and growing green things and really too much to name. I like philosophical conversations with intelligent people and I have zero patience for stupidity, ignorance and far left dissonance.