As Bella Bunny, I carry a secret confession deep in my heart, one that’s shaped me as a 60-year-old sissy from Mission Viejo, CA. It’s about my neighbor—let’s call him James—a man whose family has been intertwined with ours for years. Our families were close, sharing barbecues, holiday gatherings, and lazy afternoons by the coast, walking the trails I’ve always loved. James was a fixture in my life, a charismatic soul with a laugh that filled the room, and I never imagined he’d awaken something hidden within me.

It started five years ago, almost innocently, though looking back, I see the slow burn of his seduction. One evening, after a family cookout with classic rock humming from the stereo, he pulled me aside with a mischievous grin. He showed me photos on his phone—intimate, private shots of his wife pleasing him in ways I’d never considered. My pulse quickened, a mix of shock and curiosity stirring in me. He didn’t push at first, just let those images linger in my mind, planting a seed. Over months, those moments became a ritual—quiet chats where he’d share more, his voice low and teasing, drawing me into his world.

I resisted at first, my life with my wife and family a comfortable shield, but James was patient. He’d catch my eye during our family outings, a knowing look that made my stomach flip. One night, after a few drinks and the kids off playing, he invited me to his garage under the pretense of showing me a car project. There, with the door barely cracked, he guided my hand, and I found myself tasting him for the first time. The rush was overwhelming—guilt tangled with a thrill I couldn’t name. That was just the beginning. Over time, he encouraged me to try on his wife’s silky panties, the fabric hugging me in a way that felt both foreign and right. Each step—oral play, dressing up, surrendering to his lead—unfolded over years, a dance of trust and desire.

The pinnacle came one humid evening, the air thick with secrecy. In his bedroom, with classic rock still a faint echo from a distant speaker, he took me fully, my body yielding as his bottom. It was my first true dive into submission, a moment that birthed Bella Bunny, my sissy self. I learned the power of letting go, the joy of pleasing him, and the ache of keeping it hidden from my wife, who remained oblivious. Our families continued their closeness, oblivious to the intimate bond we’d forged in shadows.

Then, a few months ago, James moved away—new job, new city, a clean break. The void he left is palpable. I miss his laughter at our gatherings, the way he’d brush my arm during a coastal walk, the secret glances that promised more. Without him, I feel adrift, my sissy desires simmering beneath the surface, unfulfilled. I’ve started exploring this side of me here, discreetly, longing to reconnect with that thrill. SoCal’s kink scene calls to me, but my heart still aches for James, the man who opened this door. I hope to find someone new to guide Bella Bunny, but a part of me will always miss him.

BDSM Play Partner5km around USA Irvine

Hi there,

I’m a 20-year-old sub (she/her), soft but spirited, curious and creative, with a wild little heart that craves calm hands and steady presence. I’m looking for an older Daddy Dom (25+), someone emotionally intelligent, secure in himself, and deeply interested in building a long-term connection rooted in mutual trust, care, structure, and slow-burn romance.

💌 About me:
I’m feminine, nurturing, and playful—a mix of soft giggles and deep conversations. I love creative things like junk journaling and makeup artistry, and I’m the kind of girl who wants to sit at your feet while coloring and listening to music while you read or work. I find safety in gentle dominance and melt for patient discipline, consistency, and affectionate authority. Bonus points if you’re a little poetic or philosophical—I like a man who thinks deeply and leads softly but firmly.

🌹 What I’m looking for:
I want a dynamic that feels like home. One where I can submit not out of ***, but because I choose to give myself to someone who’s earned it. I’m not looking for casual play or a fantasy inbox dom—I want something real. Age difference is part of the appeal, but maturity, emotional availability, and integrity matter more.

You:

35+ (I’m open to older)

Calm, communicative, protective

Able to offer structure and support without being controlling

Looking for a romantic, long-term D/s dynamic

Ideally monogamous or seriously emotionally focused


Me:

Emotionally honest and loyal

Playful, caring, intuitive

Naturally submissive with bratty tendencies when I’m comfy

Looking for structure, consistency, and emotional depth


If this speaks to you, tell me about yourself—not just what you want from a sub, but what you want for a relationship. Let’s co-create something soft, steady, and sensual—one ritual at a time.


Stella

BDSM Play Partner25 to 50 years ● 55km around USA Atlantic Beach

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