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givemetime
LF Domme

Heya, I’m a sub looking to serve, be a submissive for a domme/mistress. I want to be disciplined and put into service. I listen well. Feel free to reach out to me.
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guava7676
18m looking for older women

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KirRuby16
Training

Looking for a dom to train me into a good sub, and widen my knowledge:) just give me a text if interested x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 500km around UK Ormskirk
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deleted1234509876
Looking for in person

Dom/sub
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Wolfy2099
Looking for a long-term Sub partner

Im looking for a long-term partner to be my constant tease/sub/pet/toy/slave. My partner will need to match my frequency and be kinky as well. CNC and Breeding kink is a must. Birth control is required
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 30 years ● 105km around USA Wake Forest
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JayJocobs
Trans male looking for dom

Just out here looking for someone who can keep up with me. And keep me in my place?!
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Stingo
Seeking friends with benefits that can host daytim

I'm attracted to all types of women. Mature and bbw are definitely exciting. It is not about your shape, size, or look but rather your sexuality and sexual desires. I get pleasure from both giving and receiving, exploring and discovering hidden lusts that unlock all we both would have to offer
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FriendofMara
I really want a nice dom

I'm a little sub who really really wants someone to own and control me while being kind, loving, and make me feel safe
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA New York
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jdtendy
Looking for a dom!

New sub here! Looking to connect with an experienced dom who is willing to help me explore my likes and dislikes in kink. Not looking to meet, text only. Message me! (Trans male)
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 50 years ● 500km around Canada Toronto
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Anallovingswitch
Looking for a Domme around Colchester

I'm a sub male who is looking for a local Domme to meet up with and explore kinks and fetishes. I'm really into anal training, cbt (although not heavy as I'm not into ***) and worshipping holes feet etc or whatever is asked.
BDSM Play Partner ● 100km around UK Braintree
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dazeddmutt
Looking for a dom open to a long-term dynamic!

I'm a transman (ftm), 20, chubby! I'm looking for a dom with similar kinks as mine to possibly start a fwb kinky dynamic with! (or, at least some kinky friends!) message me for more info to see if we're compatible!!
BDSM Play Partner ● at least 19 years ● 100km around USA Columbus
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AbdnDom
Dom male wants a sub female - Aberdeenshire

Dom man wanting a female sub to use & . Ideally a masochist, slut, slave & degradee or any of these. I will take control of her and will punish any misbehaviour firmly. Happy with long term ownership or perhaps 24/7 arrangement.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 54 years ● 125km around UK Aberdeen
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Jazzman45
Young dom looking for a slut to tie up and degrade

I may be young and not too experienced, but I need a girl who wants me to humiliate and degrade her to her limit 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 50km around UK Wear Valley
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ProfessorDubya1
Daddy looking for a baby girl/sub

I miss having a baby girl sub. Someone safe enough to love, to play with, to get rough and dirty and soft and gushy and all in-between with. I crave the connection. I despise the catfish in these apps. It's an abomination.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 46 years ● 160km around USA Lampasas
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tonguelasher65
Just an old man wanna kinky play

An obedient sub
Shorter than 5:7:… slim figure.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 61 years ● 500km around USA Mount Vernon
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SC176
DOM looking for Partner for SLAVE play

Dom is looking for SUB for SLAVE play.
Sub must be willing to be bound and blindfolded as their body is freely explored.

Will be gentle at first, then get rougher as we get more comfortable with each other.

Female inquiry only.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 95km around UK Bury St Edmunds
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Ex0ticrst
Anyone looking for a dom ?

I’m practically open for anything , degrading , praising , ddlg , as long as we can talk about it then we’re off to a good start sweetheart
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Houston
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bikinkyguy79
Kinky bi sub looking

I'm looking for a dominant to use me any which way thst you see fit I'm a very obedient and open to trying anything once because how would I know if I like it or not if I haven't even tried it yet
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Montréal
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huntington389897
In need of misstress

I want female dom for many things
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Burke
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Goodbicpl
Still looking for a genuine experienced Dom for ki

Hi all,

Owing to limited success, let downs and the masses of subs and wannabes that message us….. we’re still looking for an experienced Dom male to join us for fun.

Please get in touch but please do read the profile first.
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 59 years ● 165km around UK Bury
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subboylittle
I’m a little and sub

I want a mummy dom to take care of me and baby me but also be able to dominate me and treat me like their pretty toy hehe. I’m 18 years old and want a mummy .
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around UK Daventry
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slaveboy420666
I'm 30years old sub looking for my Dom mistress I

I'm 30years old sub looking for my Dom mistress I need someone to take complete control love Rick and Morty also 420 frendly and love to trip as well 🍄 please only message if u want a man that will give you his all no games ride or die
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Napanee
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slutwifetara
Sub looking for Dom

I am a sexy submissive looking for a male or female Dom/Domme or both to serve.
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.