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phoenix834
Looking for Dom/switch F

Hello! My name is Logan and I’m looking for a F dom/switch! Would love to talk first and get to know you to see if we connect! Looking for someone caring, honest, and someone I have things in common with! Feel free to message!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Phoenix
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primmy
Looking to for a dom play partner

I’m a submissive/little looking to be dominated! open to most kinks!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Gainesville
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SubbyBoy19
M 19 looking to serve

I’m new to being a sub but I’ve always dreamed of it.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Sebring
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JoShinri
Boring Saturday

Looking around for a sub couple or switch female to help with primal play for my pet. She is in need of multiple hands ***ing her to eruption. +++++if you’re a rigging
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Cosby
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subtitles
40 M4F slim built black men

I’m a handsome black man looking for a female willing to take him in. I can be a sort of live-in housekeeper.

We can be FWB… I’m great a giving massages and open minded about any whims you way have… I can be your sub or dom.. I’m also open to slave/master role play. Let me know..
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 20km around Canada Lachine
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Subtome666
Submissive Wanted

Dom Male looking to find a Sub. Into many kinks, loads of experience, I just have to find my canvass.
Always wanted a couple, or female, would consider femme males.

Hit me up if you wanna chat more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 70km around UK Broadmayne
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IsaacClarke
Tickle ***r

Looking for a dominant female(s) who’d be willing to tickle *** an athletic body, and doesn’t mind seeing a huge cock (9 inches)

I’ll share pics once we match and talk a bit! I have other sub kinks besides being tickled.. so hopefully we align
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 50km around USA Westfield
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Dakota_355
Looking for a mommy or daddy dom

Hihi I’m looking for a mommy or daddy dom to love and take care of me. I love to chat amd talk about my special interests. Someone who doesn’t mind watching cartoons or gaming with me. I love sleep calls. Someone who is also into ddlg or mdlg
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 500km around Canada Moncton
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MisterAdore
Obedient Dom Switch

Obedient switch here looking to cream my lips onto yours for submission. It better get down my throat. Open for discussion females only. DM for more
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 25km around USA Jacksonville
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KingDom68
Looking for sub to please me

Looking for sub to dominate, use, reprimand and be satisfied by.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 60 years ● 50km around UK Tamworth
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UB1
Male Slave/Submissive seeking a Fulltime Mistress

Hello there I am a male slave/submissive seeking a Mistress Goddess for a fulltime live in relationship if you are a mistress seeking the same thing then let's talk please?
BDSM Play Partner ● UK London
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myersm2
Sub looking to learn.

Hi all. I am new to this lifestyle but am eager to find someone who I can learn from and who I can satisfy. I’d love to meet up and have a chat and then we can see where it goes.
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around USA Gainesville
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SubSiggi
Sub

Small spoon looking for big spoon for some fun and playful 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Norway Stavanger
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RyGuy80
Looking for a beautiful Sub in the Pensacola!

I’m Ryan a local musician and singer and a dominant looking for some fun with a sub in the Pensacola Florida area!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 75 years ● 25km around USA Pensacola
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Lilbabyprincess
Looking to explore with a secondary dom

My intrests are growing my curiosity is growing as well. But the things i wanna try are out of daddys comfort zone but he wants me to explore and be the best good girl i can be. So if you are dominant and experianced and thinknyou can teach me the things I wanna learn dm me
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 50 years USA Louisville
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Stormlord23
Dom looking for sub North east england

Hi i am looking for a female sub, within driving distance but i can also accommodate, for long term relationship.

Looking to chat first and get to know each other before jumping into anything.

I like would to explore kinks in a safe environment for both of us, i would of course look after your physical and mental needs after play scenes.

After we got to know each other if you did come to me then i would make sure that you are looked after when in my care.

If you would like to chat then please drop me a message and we can talk about what this could look like for us
BDSM Play Partner ● 31 to 48 years ● 25km around UK Sunderland
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TheRedSub
New here

Hi I'm new here and to this in general, I'm looking for a female Dom to help me explore and try new kinks.
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 30 years ● 80km around USA Arlington
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jasonbourne
Tonight

Looking for a partner. Preferably dom. But sub is cool too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around USA Oak Park
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subfire92
Sub needing a goddess

I’m a man that has to be in charge throughout my life. I’m looking for someone to own and control me. Let me submit to you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Independence
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Subby352
Looking for a real Dom near St. Pete Fl

Looking for a LTR with a mistress to live the lifestyle in a D/s dynamic. Looking for my collar, message me and find out more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Saint Petersburg
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TonyTheDiaperTeehn
Looking for a daddy/dom, I'm on the !younger! side

I want someone that's into ABDL and on the older side
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 80 years ● 50km around USA Kearns
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JohnnySmith12435
Looking for some slaves 🤭😋😘

I'm a Dom lol. Does anyone wanna be my little puppet 🤭😋
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Elizabeth North
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subboy2317
Sub looking to serve 🧎‍♂️

Obedient boy with little limits looking to please and serve
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Warley
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.