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devils_puppy18
Sub needing domination

Looking for a Dom,master,owner,ECT in Missouri please read my profile to see if we would be a fit
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 46 years ● 35km around USA Montgomery City
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Dombullhumiliator
Musician seeking sexy kinky Play Partner

Musician/drummer/Beatmaker/photographer/Video Artist/content creator looking for a sexy fit female that can match my energy and drive.I identify as a dominant/hedonist.I get off on providing pleasure and orgasm control almost always d .I need to see how many orgasms you can have.Experienced in rope bondage.A very nice collection of new toys and apparel.Looking for a sexy kinky female into primal, impact, play, bondage, bdsm.Ballgags,butt plugs hogtied,throated .I shoot and Can provide you a gigantic facial treatment I have a kink for dressing subs up in sexy cosplays and fucking in character.I would love to find a local female to create with.I love art and preferably looking for someone that's a lady on the streets kink nasty in the streets
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Bryn Mawr
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mullingar62426
Looking for mistress ireland

Looking for a Irish mistress to teach a male sub only new into it but obedient and willing to learn
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 220km around Ireland Coralstown
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Femboinick-1004
Looking for Dom or master

I am looking for either a real or online Dom/master to talk with and to be used bye
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 50km around Australia Campbelltown
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DaddyDom1066
One submissive female FWB required in Columbus, OH

I am seeking a kind, intelligent submissive woman in the Columbus area. I’d prefer the arrangement to be long-term. Most of my experience is with being a Daddy, but I’d be pleased to step beyond that role. I am compassionate and honest. If you’re interested in exploring the D/s world with me, please contact me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 65km around USA Columbus
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DaddyDom1066
Sub in Columbus area required

I’d like to meet one submissive FWB for adult fun. Romance possible with the right person. Most of my experience is with being a Daddy Dom. But I’d be willing to step beyond that. I have my own place and I live alone, so I can host if you like!

Check out my profile. Anything else, just ask. I’m open and easy going. 🥰
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 55km around USA Columbus
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BikerGal
Seeking DOM Woman

Seeking a DOM woman to play with. Let's see where things lead! 😁
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 55 years ● 100km around Canada Sault Ste Marie
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phoenix950
Looking for a dom who wants a sub in Phoenix ,AZ

Dom couple would be wonderful. But also open to single Dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 115km around USA Phoenix
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MasterReid
General4Training

Looking for a woman who is new and desires to be a submissive, Daddy Dom can be an interesting to me as well.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 300km around USA Fort Myers
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slavebanana
LF MOMMY

Just lf dom in hong kong
i will be ur slave forever 😳
I poor as hell
18+ age i don't want get in jail
Mumjmumum
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 20km around China New Territories
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slaveslut123
Sub slave

Strict, cruel mistress that will control and use me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 170km around USA Lewis Center
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LondonSoftDom4You
BBC SOFT DOM LOOKING FOR HIS SUB

I’m looking for MY babygirl,Please feel free to take a look at my profile and if you’re interested send me a SPANK and I’ll take it from there😌I’m looking for someone who wants to be treated like my princess but used like my personal fucktoy 🥹😈 anyone interested ?
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada London
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LondonSoftDom4You
BBC SOFT DOM LOOKING FOR HIS BABYGIRL👀

I’m looking for MY babygirl, someone loyal and ready to serve and be loved, cared for and always appreciated ☺️Please feel free to take a look at my profile and if you’re interested send me a SPANK and I’ll take it from there😌I’m looking for someone who wants to be treated like my princess but used like my personal fucktoy 🥹😈 anyone interested ?
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada London
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Sexybri19861
Looking for a permanent owner 24/7

I am a 38 yr old female seeking owner to train me as his permanent 24/7 TPE slave.
BDSM Play Partner ● 45 to 60 years USA Hudson
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mrLeatherhead
Looking for online friends into kink.

I've been into kink for just about 30 years,
in the past when all over the place and met some great people.
sadly over time most have moved on and sadly that leaves a void that is seemingly impossible to fill, finding online freinds to chat to, general kink, ideas, tbh almost anything.....

Also would consider play partners top or bottom, male or female.
looking for a dominant play partner to help me explore my sub/bottom side. into bondage and much more. always happy to explore as well.
looking for a sub/bottom to help them explore their fantasies.
i live in grimsby/cleethorpes north east lincolnshire, so ideally local ish or somewhere i can get to without too much hassle.
im also on fetlife:
user: Mr_Leatherhead
any questions, just ask. feel free to drop a message.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 55 years ● 100km around UK Cleethorpes
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Onyxmaster
Looking for an online sub

I am an experienced Master who is looking for an online boy to train/play with.
You need to be 40 or under, slim to slim/average and have a desire to serve, learn and be horny!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years Australia Adelaide
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Bigdog-2822
Dom looking for a pet

I want to meet a nice submissive girl who’s will be my pet that I can care for and discipline
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 130km around Australia Brisbane
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SomethingKinky118
Seeking to explore, learn, have some fun and meet

I'm a Dom Leaning Switch about 4ish years into my BDSM journey.
I'm looking to find my person but I'm ok with having some fun along the way
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around UK Milton Keynes
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dfwfetfinder
Looking for a kinky/dom woman

I wanna meet a dominant woman who takes control in the bed room inwanna experience the whole sub dom lifestyle
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Carrollton
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nickster27
Good boy searching for mommy domme

Lookin for a mommy dom to care and mold me into one of her own good boys, willing to learnlots of things cause I'm still new xd
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 25km around USA College Station
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ianready2
Male switch for gentle dom or little sub

I'm a sub-leaning switch looking for an occasional play partner. I like mild , handcuffs, blindfolds, light bondage, and role-playing. I'm open to a wide variety of scenes and play and exploring new fetishes. I'm very physical and love massages (giving and receiving) and cuddling. Based on my age I'm also well suited to being Daddy or the older guy seduced and used but can equally be your boy toy.

As a sub I'm particularly turned on by JOI, CEI, pussy eating and worship, facesitting, handjobs, edging, milking and shaved pussy.

As a Dom I'm a big caregiver, as well as enjoying roping and restraints, tease and denial.

I'm fun, love to laugh, considerate and honest. I’m a young 72 in mind, body and spirit. Have a beard and mustache, am a non-smoker, DDF, and vaccinated. In a loving but sexless marriage.

My hard limits are smothering, major CBT or whipping, other heavy , cutting, bleeding.

Here's my top bdsmtest.org role results:
83% Caregiver
78% Slave
78% Degradee
48% Rope
48% Pet
40% Brat
35% Master/Mistress
35% Degrader
35% Little

No , male doms, other pay services.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 75 years ● 25km around USA Skokie
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groovedude45521
Looking for F dom

I am looking for a Dommy mommy to tell me to do all the things I really want to explore this side of myself and have a good time.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 500km around USA Evansville
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saint-louis368
Sissy needing Mommy/Mistress

I’m looking for a femdom to own me and train me to be an obedient sub :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Northwest Plaza
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Sheluvsyou
18 Yr old young stud sub wanting older woman to te

Someone who’s kind is all <3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 71 years ● 140km around USA Anaheim
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.