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EastgateDom
Are you the sub I seek?

I seek a naturally submissive woman that the everyday world sees as a strong, independent, smart and sassy ... She needs a man in her life that allows her to come home and be the woman she desires and needs to be to fulfill her inner desires.
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 75 years ● 50km around USA Owensville
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Dread_monster13
Looking for my future Master

Hi!

I'm an English speaking, bbw curvy, dreadlocked, alternative submissive, in an open relationship :)

I enjoy spanking, bondage, power play and being made to do all manner of filthy things.

I'm hoping to meet someone with the goal to having a long term Dom/Master who I can meet up with a few times a month.
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 65 years ● 75km around Netherlands Alkmaar
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roobat
Feet worship

23 Fit male, looking to worship a females feet. Also like being a sub but also a Dom. Older women preferred as I have massive thing for cougars but otherwise don’t Mind. Message me if your interested!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 75km around UK Eastleigh
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Billywill
Dom looking for female sub

Looking for a female sub to dominate in Essex or Suffolk. Happy to cuck your husband or boyfriend if required. Hoping to make this a long term thing. Experienced in domination, to any level. Message me to find out more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 50km around UK Colchester
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SirDebonair67
Gentleman Dom

Friends in the lifestyle
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 59 years ● 165km around UK Gomersal
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Nightflyer_13
Seeking Female BDSM Playmate

Need playmates to have fun with and maybe long term relationship . I’m an amateur at rope, but learning to become a rigger. i enjoy seeing a woman orgasm in front of me and would like to explore more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 100km around USA Irvine
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Raybo
Good looking sub looking for Dominant Woman

Let me prove myself
BDSM Play Partner ● 46 to 80 years ● 155km around USA Fair Oaks
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DomkingIII
Any subs out there? Long term

I’m looking for subs with some, little or no experience that want to learn the art of being a sub and who want to test their limits and submit body and mind.
Enjoy tradition d/s activities, role play, tie and tease, spanking, reward and punishment.
Strict but fair 😉
48 not 45 won’t let me change it
Looking for regular sessions ideally within 50 miles of Leicester area although Manchester, Coventry and Cambridge is also a regular place for me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 50 years ● 100km around UK Leicester
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Steve_Bull
Subslut training

Skilled princess and brat tamer.
Looking to train up a new subslut.

Experienced Dom looking for Service Subs.
I will make you cum until you can't handle any more.

Kinks include :
Bondage
CNC
Free use
Orgasm control
Impact play

Breath play
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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 75km around UK Cambridge
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FeZter
Sub looking for Non financial Mistress, 1 owner

Looking for a non fianacail Mistress,.
I'm loyal, trustworthy and honest, slightly green but willing to learn and please. Scammers and fakes need no apply, as you will be rumbled
I'm daft not stupid.....
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around UK Wigan
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DavoJH
Any submissives interested in a dom/daddy?

Experienced dom looking for submissive. Can train so experience not required. Just message me to find out more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 36 years ● 35km around UK Aggborough
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FeZter
Looking for Mistress

_ I am a Switch, but looking for a Non Financial Mistress for my sub side at the moment...I'm a Loyal Sub, and will do everything I can to make my Mistress pleased, I have had some expirance but still slightly green / novice,
Want to be pushed by a firm yet fair Mistress

Scammers and fakes need not apply I've got your number lol_
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 55 years ● 200km around UK Wigan
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Shellshock
Sub switch and ploy

Hello i have been around the edge of the seen for years
Looking for a domme/switch
Who like bdsm but all so sex of all kinds.
Would like to think there local so can attend munchs/events togever
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 60 years ● 300km around UK Nether Langwith
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ThinGuy
Available for Webcam Sex and pics.

I am 64 years old bi male who has a Dom. My Dom Master has allowed me to do online strips etc for people. I would be glad of any chats or sauciness. Feel free to chat on anything you like... My door is open. Thanks
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 70 years UK London
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Darkwolfct
Seeking sub.

Couple seeks f*** sub to join us for regular play, altogether and individually.
Meet first of course for mutual vetting, over a drink or cuppa!
Will replying Yes , No or maybe to messages.
No men!.
Must have a authenticated Photo.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 45 years ● 100km around UK Poole
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eva_nice-8146
Allow me to serve you.

Hi, my names Eva (or whatever you decide to call me)
New to this so I'm looking for friends and individuals for an LTR or similar.


Looking to be a sub sissy rope bunny for the right person.

Cant accomodate but can travel or hotel.
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around UK Stockport
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shibaru
Dom and Shibari enthousiaste

I am looking for a sub (no string attached or serious relationship). I am quite into Shibari and I also searching a ropes partner
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around Canada Montréal
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SubBarry0
Single male sub in need of training

Seeking experienced, firm, assertive, authoritative Domme to fully take charge of me and make me behave. I enjoy bondage, being humiliated, controlled, ***d, spanked, pegged, giving oral, queening and being teased.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 60 years ● 200km around UK London
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Nicholas80s
I'M DOM / DADDY DOM

I'm here looking and searching for someone that can carry a conversation... My partner in crime...
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 42 years ● 160km around USA Fort Worth
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Little_Miss_Kit
Lactating Switch

1) Lactation lovers (experienced nursers only)

2) Gentle Daddy/Mommy Dom(me) who enjoys ANR

3) A TPE sub (little/kitten/puppy) or slave (masochist preferably) who want LTR with the longterm goal of live in.

DE/MD/VA/NJ/PA region.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 70 years ● 5km around USA Dover
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Eastbourneguy
Sub wanted

Hi, I am looking for an experienced sub to explore an extreme roleplay
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 51 years ● 130km around UK Willingdon
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beardbellyandtattos
Looking for a Sub

This will be my very first time doing this!

Looking for a female sub that is willing to have a strictly online relationship for the time being.

I'm in a relationship, I love and respect my wife
I'm wanting to experience a DOM/SUB relationship.
This is for me mainly about exploring and a healing experience.
I'm a respectful, well educated and sophisticated artist.
Succesful and polite.

Looking for powerful women wanting to get dominated and be told what to do.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years USA Berkeley
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radley148
Looking for daddy Dom

Hey Iam looking for a daddy Dom to teach me tame me and push me to my limits
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 55 years ● 25km around UK Radley
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DevilCent
Daddy Dom en France

Si à la lecture de mon profil, tu nous trouves des points communs, tu sais ou me trouver !
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years France Lyon
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.