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bordenz
TORONTO

New to the space looking for a sub but I’m open to exploring. Let’s have some funπŸ˜›
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around Canada North York
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Seravatwfc
Male sub searching for female domme in Collingwood

Looking for a female domme to serve, prefer ongoing. Kinks include: bondage, ***, worship, anal play, impact play, etc.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 70km around Canada Collingwood
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doncaster520755
Inexperienced trans girl looking for someone

I am a little bit of a switch but very heavily lean submissively so I need either a dom/domme or heavy leaning dom/domme. Anyone can message but I do have a slight preference for either older men or anyone fem presenting :3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 175km around UK Doncaster
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SoCalChar
Switch seeking partner

Fit, attractive guy seeks kink minded couples to date and serve
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WillowInWonderland
πŸŒ™πŸ–€ Seeking My One & Only Daddy Dom πŸ–€πŸŒ™

(Adult + monogamous + dark whimsy)

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I’m a cozy, whimsical mix of
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😈 bratty mischief
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Looking for a Daddy who is:
πŸ–€ Monogamous
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πŸ–€ Comfortable guiding a playful adult little
πŸ–€ Values loyalty, affection, and real connection

I’m not here for casual play, poly, or passing time.
I’m here for my person β€”
someone who wants to build something safe, deep, and magical with me. πŸ•―οΈπŸ’«

If you’re a Daddy who enjoys soft chaos, spooky cuteness, and a girl with a glowing heart and a mischievous pout…
come say hello. πŸ–€πŸ§ΈπŸŒ™
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dillpickle87
Looking for a Dom to serve

Looking for a Dom to serve any way possible
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 80km around USA Hamilton
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Angel004
Sub looking for domme

Where can I find a dominant woman that’s Wants to treat me like a dog and use me πŸ§ŽπŸ»β€β™‚οΈ
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Cleveland
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PYT25
Looking for a pleasure/Daddy Dom

Hey people of Fet!
I recently parted ways with my Dom of 1year. And I’m really wanting to find another Dom that’s compatible with my style of play. I’m enjoy more sensual and sensory play! If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message. I’m looking for someone who is consistent and has experience.
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Shakdaddy75
Need a dom

Seeking a dominant, busty BBW
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MasterB0659
Where are all the active players?

Looking for a sub/slave for a partnership or just a scene.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 150km around USA Norwich
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ChubbyBoy730
Want to serve a dom

Ready for fun and party. Want to obey and serve and my limits tested
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 25km around UK Oldham
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sephsmuth
Looking for sub near Philly

Trying to find someone for a long term submissive relationship. Must be into cock worship and like thick cocks. I will please you as you please me, so reach out if you’re ready to submit!
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 40 years ● 290km around USA Cherry Hill
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jtr4jtr4
18 m dom looking for fun

Hey I'm fit and looking for fun I'm pretty much down for any kink you have and I know shibari as well if you like that
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Alexmat
Searching for dom to satisfy

Sub looking to serve
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leadmeplease_90
New but wanting to learn

I’m new to this and know I’m a sub but I’m really wanting to know to what extent
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Redcar and Cleveland
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doormat9226
Sub

Hi I’m a widow look for some NSA fun
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MissRedd
Looking for my mistress

seeking a confident, dominant woman for online-only fun I love strong energy, clear direction, and a playful power dynamic.
If you’re a bold, commanding woman who enjoys taking the lead, message me. πŸ’‹
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.