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Hazza4H
Looking for older female dom to teach me

I'm new to bdsm and everything, so I want someone with a bit of experience to help me get my foot in the door. I haven't got a mode of transport.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 160km around UK Exeter
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SeveredCuriosity
Looking for a loving and caring mommy dom!

What the title says! It's an aspect of my kink life that I've always wanted to explore but never get the chance to. I have a sub, and I love her with all my heart, but sometimes I wanna be pampered too! I want someone soft, affectionate, attentive, and who wants to take care of and help me rather than take control.
I want someone I can love softly. Someone I can trust to take care of everything and let me rest for a little bit.
Maybe I need a better mom figure, maybe I'm tired, maybe I just need help with feeling in control, or adversely, like someone has control of me. I probably just need therapy, but this is cheaper and way more fun!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Choctaw
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Biosapian
Looking for friends & fun in the Daytona/Volusia a

Hey there,

I'm a pleasure dom in daytona beach looking for other like minded kinky people who wanna chat, hang out, and potentially become friends with or without benefits. I'm a big time nerd, foodie, and thrift shopper. Kink wise, I enjoy a little bit of everything, but am partial to domming, love bbws and couples, and trying new things. Hoping to find others into some of the same stuff both in and outside the bedroom. Feel free to check out my page and shoot me a DM if you wanna chat and get to know each other.

Peace ✌️
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Daytona Beach
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weymouth-and591265
Looking for meet up?

New sub looking for dom free use if wanted
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 65km around UK Weymouth and Portland
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kinksub1220
Looking for a man that can take control in the bed

I and looking if a relationship with a Dom!!
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 34 years ● 40km around UK Aylesbury Vale
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brokentoaster
Looking for a submissive

Hello to all. I’m looking for a sub currently. I’m married in an open relationship, but my wife is not my submissive.
I’m looking for someone who would be interested in having a Dom.
I figure I can keep this add brief , so if you have any questions, feel free to message me.
I’m an open book.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 170km around USA Charleston
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weymouth-and591265
Free use pet

New sub looking for dom in a pet im a girl but wanna be boy looking for meet
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 85km around UK Weymouth and Portland
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kaRaMeLthicKneZZ
Seeking well hung dominant men

Seeking kinky minded dominant men for play NSA..
THICK CURVY women welcome .. 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Elmhurst
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Max_White
Ready to serve my goddess

Miss Naomi is willing to take contol of sub, slave and switch on kik Naomikate61
BDSM Play Partner ● at least 21 years ● in Netherlands Heerhugowaard
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lookingforadom420
Any ladies want to have some fun?

I am looking for a Dom female to tie me up, whip me, then take it from there. Let's hang out. 420 friendly
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 55 years ● 55km around USA Rochester
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Azael
I'm a switch/submissive looking for a dom or sub

Hi, I'm Anthony I am super into anal play or rather recieving a strap on. I am a switch and have an oral fixation meaning I'm good with my tongue and if you arent satisfied im willing to learn. I can play the role of Dom if needed and id love to meet you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 35 years ● 50km around USA New Richmond
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newcastle-upon67426
Sub male

Looking for a mistress
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 135km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne
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jakew123
M sub 21 lookin for F dom

i’m looking for some who is willing to be dominant with me online, if you’re local we can talk further!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Elginburg
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ocpig
LF fwb dom

Hello, seeking a dominant who is down to have a fwb. Message me what you’re into. I am a bbw latina
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Huntington Beach
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PillowPrincess0420
Looking for long-term dom

I'm looking for a long-term dom to use me how ever u see fit. If ur interested hit me up
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 205km around USA Conover
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pjjgfdgn
Subs please

Looking for a sub that would like to explore masochism and cbd
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Baltimore
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Leah8847
Seeking fro someone real

Wasn't here for any game or drama just be real and no dirty talk yes the website was for a sex dirty talk but wasn't here for that seeking for an honest man someone caring understanding faithful
BDSM Play Partner ● 500km around USA Gusher
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gratefulsub81
Seeking a Mistress to Guide and Grow in a Sub/Dom

Hello, I’m a curious and open-minded individual looking to connect with a confident, experienced Mistress who can guide me in exploring a sub/Dom dynamic, either in real life or online. I’m eager to learn, grow, and build a meaningful connection rooted in trust, respect, and mutual fulfillment within this lifestyle.

I’m drawn to the intensity and depth of a sub/Dom relationship and want to dedicate myself to pleasing my Mistress while embracing my submissive side. At the same time, I value balance and hope to maintain my vanilla life, making time for the things I love while ensuring my commitment to this dynamic remains strong.

If you’re a Mistress who values communication, balance, and a devoted sub ready to learn, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s explore where this journey can take us while keeping the spark alive in both our worlds.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Sandy
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babygrimsworld
Diaper boy

Mommy or daddy dom in Va, Dc, Md area looking for a sub that wants a real relationship. No *** and just all good vibes. Lmk!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Arlington
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weymouth-and591265
Looking for dom

New sub looking for dom to help train me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around UK Weymouth and Portland
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Dilf-420
Looking a sub daddy is lonely

Daddy looking for his sub looking to have fun with a woman that loves giving head
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 25km around USA Springfield
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sadistdomnerd
Looking for a sub that’s wants to be used 24/7

I ideally want someone that is into cnc,ddlg,freeuse,somo,anal and ***
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 39 years ● 135km around UK Muckamore
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RichDan
Dom Gentlemen seeking Sub

Wanting to fulfill some fantasies you might have! Tell me everything you want and let’s see if we can make it happen
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 37 years ● 250km around USA Bennington
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Svt2546
Dom looking for his sub

Dom/Daddy looking for his babygirl.
50 years old, professional, moderate experience as Dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 60 years ● 100km around USA Suffolk
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.