Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.

Hey there, I'm a 29 year old Korean, standing at 5'10" with brown eyes and dark hair, currently weighing 189 pounds and actively working on it by going to the gym 5 days a week/having 10k+ steps a day.
I've been in BDSM 11 years, I seek a balance between non-sexual and sexual dynamics, exploring shared kinks, and cherishing our time together beyond the intimate moments. In a relationship, I look to build a firm foundation which will be made as we get to know one another. There will be no rushing, my priority is knowing that you feel safe and comfortable.
Outside of my dominant role, I work as a pharmacy tech who's studying for nursing. In my free time I relax by watching films like Stranger Things, 1899, Gravity Falls, Adventure Tales, many animes and many more. I also PC game, playing games like League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldur's Gate 3, outdoor ventures, cooking, and spending quality time with friends. Don't worry, oppa will carry you in League.
As a Dominant, I'm strict, there are times when I will be soft when needed. My goal is for you to fully submit to me. Another goal of mine is help you become the best version of yourself. An example of this is if you're not drinking enough water or eating enough. I will task you to send me pictures of the water you're drinking or you eating enough at a certain time. If you’re not looking to better yourself and just want to just submit to someone like the good little slut you are, that’s fine too. I will task you send me a picture of your tits or pussy, also write on yourself if you’re comfortable with that. In moments where discipline is necessary, it will be used to accordingly. In moments where it's long distance and I can't use physical discipline, I wont use the silent treatment as a punishment. I’ll be using discipline such as edging for a week, writing a certain number of lines of what she did wrong, performing chores while wearing clothing that is either uncomfortable or distracting, wearing a specific outfit for the day.
When given a command, I expect you to follow them. Your obedience will be rewarded with pleasure and affectionate affirmations like, "What a good girl you are". Affirmation will also be used in bed of course, "What a good little slut you are." After a tiring day at work, if I tell you to get on your knees and leave your mouth open, I expect to do so. You’ll be rewarded me grabbing a bundle of your hair and face fucking you, making you take every inch of me before I cum either inside your throat or over your face. When I tell you to get on the bed on all fours naked, I will reward you by bounding your hands behind you, fucking you vigorously before pushing myself as deep as possible, filling you with a hot stream of cum. When I’m sitting behind you, fingering you as I breathe heated breathes onto the back of your neck, I expect you to hold in your cum till you’re given permission to cum. When I tell you to hold back your orgasm, I want you to give it your all. With me, you won't have boring sex, you will have great sex.
After our sessions together, aftercare will be given essentially. Aftercare includes cuddling up together and catching our breathes. Using affirmation of how much of a great job you did, helping each other clean up one another, talking about what we did great and something we'd like to try next time. I schedule one or two video sessions per week, where I can provide commands and direct your actions as I please.
My kinks are:
• BDSM
• CNC
• Cock warming
• Creampies
• Cunnilingus
• Dominance
• Degrading
• Orgasm denial
• Praise play
• Sadist
• Spanking
My limits are:
play
• Leaving permanent marks (Like branding, I don't mind tattoos)
• Piercing skins with foreign objects (Not piercings)
s
• Toilet play
• Watersport
What you can expect from me, someone who:
• Is affectionate, dependable, empathetic genuine, humorful, intelligent, loyal, patient, perceptive, respectful and understanding
• That will check up on you on a daily basis, communicating with you and genuinely care for how you are doing.
• Will be committed in building a structure with you, a foundation to make every moment of our time together that much more meaningful.
• Will be there for you.
• That won't push you, unless it's for your benefits and you want to be pushed.
• Will give you all my attention when we are together.
• Will gladly and repeatedly give affirmation when it is needed.
• Has a physical love language, cuddling, hugging, kissing, and of course spanking.
What I'm searching for, someone who's:
• Inexperienced or experienced
• Goes to the gym/has an active life style. (This is preferred and not required)
• Looking to communicate
• Seeking a mono relationship
• Both local and long distance connections are welcomed.
If you decide to reach out, tell me about yourself. What you look like or a picture of yourself, I will send one too of myself. Your age, name, location, interests, hobbies, desires in a Dominant/lifestyle, as well as your kinks and limits. I will not be responding to 1 sentence responses.

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