Keywords: Free use, service sub, couples, recurring/ steady playmates
An oddly specific fantasy I would love to fullfill in real life:
You = a couple (mf, mm, ff, or polycule, or friends, anything works as long as we all vibe) preferably older than me, social clean respectful and above all adventurous. You love to get indulged, being in control, pampering someone who makes you feel like they deserve to be pampered in whatever way that feels natural to you.
Me = A bit of a slut. Feminine, submissive people pleaser. I want to feel exhaustingly, suffocatingly desired, and I am willing to tease&please to make it happen. I want to have an extended, relaxed free use session maybe for one weekend or so, where I am your house keeper gardener cook cleaner service girl sex object. I want to be casually used without necessarily being addressed beyond simple instructions. Maybe I am wearing headphones and can't even hear. I will cook all meals for you, perform light house work as requested, perhaps even entertain your guests, all in platform stilettos, apron, tiny tiny skirt, a collar & chain, possibly some amount of restraints, rope harnesses etc. Between the various tasks you appoint me, am hoping to give oral for hours, to get bent over and taken as it pleases (love being topped by women too!), perhaps I will simply do some stretches in my down time or play with my own ropes, fuck your neighbour chat with random people online (I would love to live stream something like this!), watching porn and playing with myself, and so on. Maybe you bring me to a party (and after!!), or any other event, to a location or an activity, for drinks at your local or for a walk in the city center. Perhaps you want to take me shopping for a specific outfit you want me to wear, or toys that you'd like to use with me. There's also version of this that turns me on more than I care to admit - We pretend that neither of you knows that I am sleeping with one (or both, or all..) of you, so essentially roleplaying you cheating on each other with me. This could play out in many dynamics, perhaps one of you is into cnc and ***s their self on me, while the other one is really into big asses and gets seduced by me, perhaps we are found out by one of you walking in on us in the middle of it, or as a result of "risky" sex, or whatever else, this could include for example cuckold type play etc...

BDSM Play Partner18 to 79 years ● 140km around Netherlands 's-Hertogenbosch

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