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GentlemanLuke
Seeking an Online Sub

Looking for a loyal sub for an online dynamic.

A soft dom providing control through a gentler form of power exchange i'll support you in structure, obedience, discipline, scheduling and all in all be a better self. We'll explore together intellectually as well as intimately as we delve into your desires.

See my profile for more info.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around UK London
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CreativityPartner
Perth or visiting Perth

A creative girl with her own kinks and developed fetishes or roles or a submissive bunny, kitten or protocol sub will be great ⚜️
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 37 years ● 476km around Australia Perth
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raa_dahg
Wanted: Sub play partner

Looking for an obedient, submissive play partner. Discretion and privacy is paramount. Can host on weekends (green valley) LV, NV.
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 80 years ● 245km around USA Las Vegas
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concord35073
Cyber sub looking for dirty talk

Looking for someone who can put me in my place and tell me all the filthy things they’d do to me if they could. Love older guys, being a snow bunny and some of the more intense fantasies. Hit me up if that sounds like something you can handle.
BDSM Play Partner ● 34 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Concord
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AverageNerdy
Looking for Sub/Pet/Slave

Hey! 👋 I’m looking to meet a submissive woman who’s interested in chatting, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally lead. I’m also open to exploring the kinky side of things if we have good chemistry and both feel comfortable.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone who lives nearby or is willing to meet IRL. Don’t be shy—feel free to message me! 😊
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Travelers Rest
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SubmissiveYorkie
Inexperienced Sub looking for Domination

Hi, I’m new to this and have only experienced worshipping feet which I loved n has drawn me more into kinkier things. I’m looking for a dominant woman to take me under her wrings and explore my fantasies. I’d love to start with feet and nylon and then what ever my new owner suggegts
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 61 years ● 265km around UK Huddersfield
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subNdom168168
Anyone looking for young male sub

Looking for female dom to take control
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Oldham
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StrangeAndUnusual42
Looking for A sub sub for my girlie

Girlie gets turned on by the idea of having a slave or girl she could say 'hey, eat my pussy while my daddy watches ' or ' hey, watch me fuck him and play with yourself'.
420+++ preferred
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 220km around USA York Haven
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hot-springsDom
Pleasure Dom looking for my sub.

60 year old, white male looking for my sub. I love bratty girls.
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 67 years ● 25km around USA Hot Springs National Park
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Shadicore
Sub For Master/Mistress

Hoping to meet somone who will collar me permanently. We can do "almost" anything to within our limits, which for me isn't a lot. If you're male prefer you to be over 50, but try your luck anyway. Ladies, cis or trans (pre or post-op), just be dom, but will also peg/top as well.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 200km around USA Bronx
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Phosy
Looking for a fwb / dom :3

I’m a sub femboy into trying new things I’m more in the sub side so I’m open to many things. I do have a bit of big cock if that interests anyone ;3
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 27 years ● 180km around USA Temecula
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Tongue
Newbie sub looking for a mistress

A mistress who understands and accepts my boundaries and is looking to tame and train a newbie sub.
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 72 years ● 500km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne
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aurora68957
New Dom

I am a new dom looking for a expericed sub for fun.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 42 years ● 25km around USA Aurora
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redflagsandlongnites
S Oregon Dom ISO C@m Sl@t Sub.

Strong Daddy Dom has a position open for Submissive C#m Sl@t. Take it while you can, when you can any way you can... Happy wet dreams.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 60 years ● 480km around USA Grants Pass
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chicago9868500
Sub to use

Looking for longer pay, Guys into playing with a sub, open to group use, ***, free all weekend
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 52 years ● 200km around USA Chicago
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LadyAir
Plus size gal looking for playmate

Must be without 30 miles of me. If you ignore this and message me anyway I will just delete your message. Im a alt goth plus size gal who loves ***s. I do not want a one time deal. I am poly and have partners i dont just want sx I want to explore more bdsm/kink. I am a sub so dont be looking for me to be a Dom cause im not.

I have had a lot of not great interactions if this seems strict its me trying to weed the ones who dont fit.
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 53 years ● 40km around USA Dousman
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Snippee
Looking for an owner

I’m a sub looking for an owner who’d treat me like their little pet, and punish me when I do something wrong ;3

I love the idea of free use because why should I have a say in what happens to me? That should be my owners decision!

I’m still new to kink/bdsm and would love to learn more about myself and the community.

Things I’m REALLY into;
Petplay (obv)
Free use (obv)
All kinds of bondage/restraint
Breathplay
Edging

My few limits;

drinking ***
Deep cuts
Heavy impact
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Columbus
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kum4daddy
I need a newbie sub to teach and train.

Nothing turns me on more than curious innocence 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● MoSex Museum NYC in USA New York
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PeggMeGoodPls
I’m Very Submissive

I’m looking for a Femdom who loves to pegg and love Bi men. I’m very submissive and love for my dom to do exactly WHATEVER turns her on I need my dom to be satisfied at all times I want to be the best Sub you ever had, I’m packing 8 inches if you care for that.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 35 years ● 40km around USA Brooklyn
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amherst528197
I’m a sub who is really into bullying

I want to meet someone who can wedgie spank bully and put me in bondage if you think you can help hit me up
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Amherst
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Cilghal
Switchy Bratty Sub Looking For Domina/Domme

Looking to explore beyond my vanilla experience, and looking for the domme who can tame this brat and make all my dreams come true…
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 50 years ● 260km around USA Sioux Falls
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CryptKeeper80
Looking for sub to collar & join relationship

I’m looking for an adventurous woman who’s looking for a dom on the softer side with the fun of some rougher play. My sub will be part of most if not every session so if female on female isn’t something you’re comfortable with, I’m sorry but this isn’t for you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Davenport
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CryptKeeper80
Looking for a new sub own + add to the ***

I’m looking for an adventurous woman who’s looking for a dom on the softer side with the fun of rougher play. My sub would be part of most if not every session. If you’re not comfortable with female on female moments I’m sorry this isn’t for you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Davenport
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