A little about myself, I am an educated professional and I love my job. I do work quite a bit. However, I have always kept my BDSM life solely in the bedroom. I am looking to blur those lines a bit. I want something discreet, as in no one would be able to tell without us letting them in on it. But I want to develop a master/slave relationship. I still want to do normal couple things as well. such as traveling, dates, and so on. however even in these normalcies I would want subtle touches of our kink relationship.

Some of my hobbies are traveling, cooking, video games, biking, and fishing. I consider myself attractive, body type between dad bod and average. I stay active and eat fairly healthy.

Specifics of what I am thinking this will look like: I would like our roles to be 24/7 most of the time. We would take days off from the dynamic so that we don't burn out. I would want to slowly incorporating more rules to be followed. I have plenty in mind but I consider myself creative so more will continue to be added or changed. Some would be sch restrictions, rules for daily tasks such as being bound and gagged in certain ways, cleaning bound, plugged, edged, and collared. I am certainly a sadist, so if you are not happy being uncomfortable and in this may not be the dynamic for you. You would be bound in some way the majority of the time, however the severity of the restraints would change throughout the day. Sleeping bound in light restraints. Orgasms would be completely controlled. I want to train you and make you the perfect slave. I want to be realistic in this, and it would be a slow gradual process.

I am open to doing some distance at first, as I don't think distance should be an obstacle for the right fit. So conversations for relocation should remain on the table. I look forward to chatting and making some connections.

If any of this appeals to you, send me a message and we can go into more detail and see if its a match

Kinky Date20 to 40 years ● 50km around USA Virginia Beach

I won't respond to you, if you are not local to me.
I visit Mexico during the winter... Canadian winters suck lol. I am able to work remotely. 🎉

Seeking service oriented boys for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also another service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my boy to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. CFnm. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented boy.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a boy for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal boys, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, male chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sex, long distance or sexting. Cock cages are hot but not necessary. Not interested in cbt or your cock.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 99 years ● 100km around Canada Pickering
NSA18 to 80 years ● 550km around Spain Murcia

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