When reaching out to me if you do not include your age with your location city & state in the message it will be ignored.

I am seeking a male sub/switch who is between the ages of 28-60. Absolutely NO EXCEPTIONS to that age range, so don't even ask.

Looking for someone who can fully to commit to a minimum of 2+ sessions per month and medium online interaction between sessions such as kinky calls and messaging.

Where most people are only vetting for similar kinks and STI free, I'm vetting for compatibility, longevity, and overall satisfaction of the dynamic as well. This means I have an extremely thorough vetting process and do not do casual encounters. If you are looking for immediate play or one time interactions do not respond to this posting.

I’m seeking a cisgender male sub/switch between the age of 28-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. Must be drama and drug free and have a current full 10 test STI panel within 90 days or less. I’m not looking for a one time use sub/switch, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2+ times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs/switches new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.

The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:

Transparency and honesty
Commitment to our dynamic
Consent
Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

About me:

Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my play partner is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my partners better off than the way I found them.

I offer my partners:

Friendship
Emotional Support
Positive Guidance
Healthy Habits & Routines
Physical Intimacy
Safe Kink Exploration
Aftercare
Transparency & Honesty
Respect
Consent
Commitment
Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

BDSM Play Partner28 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Dallas

I am a CIS man looking for a CIS woman that would be interested in a dinner date that may lead to more:

I am not looking for something "tonight", this would be a planned outing in the near future.

We would start the evening with a public meet up, this could be dinner at a restaurant, coffee at a cafe, or something similar. Where we could get to know each other and discuss desires and limits.

If everything goes well and you choose to join me at a hotel for the rest of the evening. We could rent a movie and continue a more private discussion of kink. Verbal (possibly written) consent would be required before any play would begin.

I typically enjoy giving pleasure more than being the receiver. I enjoy giving massages (standard or tantric): shoulders, back, and feet are where I am most capable. I have large firm hands that like to explore and tease. I am dominant but am more than willing to listen to input and/or follow commands if you are able to depict your preferences/needs. If you choose to leave me in control, I promise not to disappoint.

Most, if not all, things kink about me can be found on my profile. Any/all questions and concerns are welcome, my DM's are open.

Requirements:
(I will reciprocate all)
-At least 2 non filtered photos before meeting (Face/full body preferred, nothing explicit just nobody enjoys being catfished)
-A recent STD test with negative results
-Your own form of transportation (In the event you choose to leave at any point)
-A list of allergies (if applicable)
-An open mind

Additional notes:
-Penetrative intercourse is not a requirement, but would be preferable. (I will supply my own preferred latex condoms)
-If you have your own toys/tools that you would like to bring, that is more than welcome.(As long as they are clean/sanitary)
-I have a small collection of brand new toys/tools that I will bring that you could choose to keep if we utilize them. (or will be disposed of)
-I am by no means a professional, I will be very forward and honest with any discussed experiences.
-I hope not to upset or offend anyone, I am just trying to be clear with my intentions and expectations.
-If you've read this far you can pick the dessert after dinner!
-Whoever may read this, I hope you have a great day!

Kinky Date18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Grand Rapids

Have you ever been undone by pleasure? Not just teased but taken apart, slowly, deliberately, until your body forgets how to behave and your brain’s just static and stars?

That’s my playground.

I’m not a service top. I don’t just perform, I participate. I lean in. I listen. I take control, mostly of your pleasure, sometimes of your sanity. Edging, denial, overstim, the kind of orgasm control that leaves you breathless and maybe a little bit wrecked (in the best way). It’s not about ***, not exactly. It’s about what happens when pleasure tips over into something else...something messy, electric, and a little bit mad.

I want to know you. Not just your kinks, though yes, those too, but the stuff underneath. What you crave. What you flinch from. What makes you twitch. I want to map your reactions like a cartographer with a wicked grin and a stopwatch.

Ideally? You’re up for regular meets. Rhythm matters. Chemistry deepens. But if you’re just curious...if you want to try it once, see what all the fuss is about I’m not going to say no. I’m not here to gatekeep intensity.

I get off on watching you fall apart. On being the reason your legs don’t work properly afterwards. On turning you into a puddle of post-play bliss and nonsense words. Sure, I take my own pleasure too, but usually after I’ve wrung you out like a soaked towel and left you smiling at the ceiling.

And yes, overstim is real. It can hurt. That edge where pleasure turns sharp? That’s where I live. I don’t call myself a sadist, but I won’t lie there’s a streak. A glint. A thrill in watching you twitch and gasp and beg for more or less or both.

I travel. I bring toys. I bring focus. I bring the kind of energy that doesn’t ask, it takes, gently but firmly, with a smirk and a safe word.

If you’re curious, message me. If you’re ready, even better.

Let’s make your knees forget how to function.

BDSM Play Partner26 to 50 years ● 115km around UK Crewe and Nantwich

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