I love cuddling and hugging, but also bondage, both as top and bottom. I'm looking for friends with benefits, where the friends part is ESSENTIAL and the benefits part is essential. I don't want either of us to get hurt during play. I'm kind and empathic and I know how to listen. I'm also 73 y/o and have limitations that come with age (we'll talk). I'm not interested in a pen pal - I want a "real," in-person relationship, I am not "well off." If you are looking for a sugar daddy, I am not your guy. I live in a small apartment in Green Bay. "Age" IS more than just a number. And "distance" DOES matter. I am honest. I need you to be as well. Please don't say that I am "wonderful." I AM a nice person, but I am not "wonderful." In today's world, I think it'd be best if we at least mostly agreed politically. My religion is important to me too, but it's not what you might think. I'm far from "born again." I do CARE deeply, however, about many things, including the common good. I like ***, though I have none. To get to know each other, we ought meet in person sooner rather than later. I think this texting is silly. I don't know that you aren't really some ugly old man is Russia! We also very much need for both of us to always be safe. I'm not going to be graceful, or experienced. I haven't "been with" a woman in 35 years. I WILL be real though. Think about who/what you want, please. I'm surprised by how much space I'm being given here, lol. If I think of more, I'll add it later.
Hugs,
Michael

Kinky Date30 to 70 years ● 200km around USA Green Bay

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