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As someone who has been in the Community since they where 21.
I have been on this learning and passion to understand how to be a great leader. Am I perfect? The answer is no I make mistakes and still today try to be humble enough to grow as a Dominate. As now I grow I have not mastered one single path alone but have much experience to look upon as a whole. I first began as a submissive to understand both sides of a coin one must study both sides of the lifestyle. In my own opinion it has made me a better Dominate. I am Heterosexual after being sexually d at a young age it has totally turned me off of socializing. I was sexually active up to that point and it took 5 years of being lead by some one with great values to teach me how to be trusting again. I Just came out and told my family less then a few years ago about my sexual after hiding it for almost 40 years. So I must get to know someone is the first step into what I am looking for. I am a Dominate not a person that will pay to play or give you . The community today is so lost in values its very Insulting. It is one thing If I want to do something nice for you. This attitude of pay me ore else is far from the true Values of why we are here. There is no greater disrespect then subbing from the bottom up. Discipline and respect should be what you truly seek as a submissive. The moment you lose these by being judgmental shallow and picky. Are you putting you best foot forward? Your to old for me or I have to be attracted to that person. I have heard it all but then they find that Finance Sugar daddy or momma but they lack the skills to be a Master/Dominate or they get hurt d and neglected. Truth is you should be careful there are a lot of pretenders calling them self Dominate or Mistress. I have a nice 12 inch thick strap on I love to use in multiple ways Filling Your holes prefer to use it leaving my hot cum for your face or body.....sound fun message me No MTF or Males Married is fine but I work alone Drop her off for the weekend and they must not interfere in Relationship or Dynamic. and Polly is ok, Females only. Relationship Dynamic . Impact Play, Orgasm Controle and Deny, Bondage, Ropes and d Orgasms, Masks, Nipple Pussy and Anal Thys Back and hand and feet Kneeling, Domestic Dutys mild/strong/Hardcore depending on your tolerance for . punishments may include Chasity Bet Anal Plugs and training Couch Time Corner Time Grounding of Favored Things. Kneeling based on tolerances punishment are based on the offences and fit the Brats Be Warned.

Hard Limits: play (everything to do with it), body hair (Dislike), breath play (everything to do with it), cutting (everything to do with it), gangbangs (everything to do with it), needle play (everything to do with it), pubic hair (Dislike),, strap-ons (Not on me), toilet (everything to do with it), toilet slave (everything to do with it), Uncontrolled (everything to do with it), waterbondage (everything to do with it), watersports (everything to do with it)
Rave Dm me in chat lets get to know one another.

You lie there naked, blindfold on. Arms cuffed to the top of the bed. Legs tied to the bottom corners. Just how you were instructed to do.
You can’t see a thing but hear the door open. Footsteps approach. You try to work out where they are going. Suddenly a hand begins to caress your left breast. Nipple gently pulled. A mouth sucks your other nipple.
A hand slides over your pussy gently rubbing you making you wet. The fingers slide all over pussy until they find your clit. They rub hard making you moan. You feel yourself starting to cum. You try to hold back as you haven’t been given permission to cum.
The mouth & hand leave your breasts as you try harder not to cum. You try but the fingers know how to make you cum. You breath out. You want to beg to cum but the instructions said you were not allowed to talk. You keep following the instructions but you have to give in and cum.
As you start you suddenly feel the flogger land across your breasts & the hand comes away from your clit.
The *** stops you Cumming but the need is still there.

“You will have to be punished for Cumming without permission.”

Looking for a Bi women who identifies as a sub/bottom who would like to explore a relationship in and out of the bedroom with a secure and experienced D/s couple.

Lookin for someone that is wanting a sub bottom nsa discreet fwb would be nice dress me tie me n use me

This could be…. Your choice here

I'm a bi sub/bottom in PNW US looking for an online or in-person dom to play with occasionally.

I'm very open/explorative kink-wise but mainly into petplay, sissy/crossdressing, chastity, and ***.

I'm a huge nerd, love video games, anime, music, and building/making stuff.

Looking for a bottom, bratty or submissive both are fun

I offer safe, sane and consensual sensation play from gentle massage to severe spanking. I am cis and straight. I am not a sadist, my sub's needs are there to be met. BUT, don't be fooled, I have hard hands and wicked tools at my disposal. I love role play, so feel free to live out your fantasy, reset your life goals or allow your stress to vanish. I can accomodate in my playroom or can travel. Some ask for personal play. I have an array of toys that guarantee a happy ending.

I would like to try Shibari (also often referred to as kinbaku) as bottom, or bunny

Imagine we meet, we talk, I tell you a little about myself, i rub your shoulders down and back (I’m good with my hands), as I’m standing in front of you I pull my shirt up revealing my belly 🙈 I tease you. I keep rubbing your shoulders and neck and grab at your head and hair. I ask for a drink and go to your fridge with something to pour into my belly button later. Something for you to lick out 🤤 I then ask you if you want to see how flexible I am and I just start working my magic before your eyes then asking you to touch my belly and rub it and slide your fingers in and out of my belly button. Poke my knot. Right to where you feel it meet at the bottom. You feel that? I do! Ohmygoodness it feels amazing! My toes are pointing. All I can do is shaky breath in and out. And start to squirm like crazi. My arms are behind me the entire time..my ribs show with each breath my hips squirm in place as if I’m poking my hips forward. Im looking back into your eyes nervously begging for you to just look at me acting a fool over you touching my navel and rubbing my Vline and hips. You see my body? It’s quivering because of you.

Hairy guys top friends with benefits interested in hairy guys bottom

Hello I’m 31 waiting for a partner or a dom, master, sir. I’m here to serve I’m a pup. I’m new to kink and want to do a lot. And learn about. Maybe be pushed to my limits.

iam a bottom guy wiling to take cock
spanking etc.
i am willing to take big and thick
k to go bare

Second type of relationship I am looking for is a woman submissive/bottom. The kinkier and dirtier the better. Open to all your desires, kinks, fetishes, even taboo. Nothing illegal though. I am very flexible and accommodating. We'll create a partnership around your interests, ***s, limits. I love to please and respect your wishes and boundaries. Safe, discreet, humor, passionate.

Within 75 miles or so from North Denver/Thornton Co.

Closet crossdresser since I was 11. Very submissive virgin bottom. Open for everything. For real no games or bullshit here. Horny all the time

I need someone that I can f**k, hard. I'm Top, and interested in a sub bottom female (AFAB) who is open to handling everything that I can give to her. If that's you, hit me up and prove it. I enjoy a great many other things that we can discuss privately.
Please be in good shape and articulate. Be able to host. Tomboys and MOC women are very welcome. No pillow princesses. No Men.

Hey Hey Hey how's it goin!

I'm a newbie, been a lurker for ages but desire to live life, not just observe it.

I'm submissive sexually, but I haven't met the right Woman to make me submissive outside of the bedroom. Could that be you? 😜

I am a slave with no limits

I have to be careful with words, so, iykyk…
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I’m looking for a bunny. Let’s chat here, find out if our interests and my skill level jive, I’ll supply pics of my work with my sub/bottom, vet each other, grab some coffee and chat there, get to know each other there, rinse and repeat until trust and comfort is achieved, aaaaaand… good times!
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Hope to hear from you all!

Generally I am a very normal guy by appearance extremely good at athletics art poetry cooking well educated hard worker job vehicle what you don’t see beneath all that are the very abstract and unusual curiosities and interests I have I am bi sexual i can be extremely dominant by nature I am relatively in shape and decently sized guy with that said there are occasions where I crave turning the control over as well whether that is to my girl and being dominated by my female partner or whether that is us sharing our experience with a 3rd person in a MMF situation where I can be masc dom or I can be verse and get into being sub bottom as well I can be open minded to very extreme kinks so don’t be afraid to ask even if I’m not I’m not very judgmental person at all I am very curious about exploring some in the area of being dominated by women in several ways if there are any girls into role play femdom or even just exploring the side of taking the control I’m not sure what I’m even here for right now I am not ruling out any possibility at this point so if you want to message me feel free lol

Hi! I’m looking for a caring dom around my age to bond with and see where things go. I am a sub, bottom, monogamous, love playing and can share more about myself with the right person.