I love cuddling and hugging, but also bondage, both as top and bottom. I am not so much into dominance or submission (power exchange) as I am into the play of bondgae and what one can administer as delicious "" after the "victim" has been rendered . Struggle excites me, and I think the women should "win" sometimes. After all, women have always had "magical" powers over men when needed. I'm looking for Friends with Benefits, where the friends part is essential, and is as, or more, important than the benefits part, which I also seek with you. I don't want either of us to get actually hurt during play. I'm kind and I'm empathic and I know how to listen. I'm also 73 years old and have limitations that come with age (we need to talk). I'm not interested in a "pen pal" - I want a "real," in-person relationship. I am not "well off." If you are looking for a sugar daddy, I am not your guy. I live in a small apartment in Green Bay. "Age" IS more than just a number. And "distance" DOES matter. I am honest. I need you to be as well. Please don't say that I am "wonderful." I AM a nice person, but I am not "wonderful." In today's world, I think it'd be best if we at least mostly agreed politically. I am pretty liberal (socially, religiously, and politically). My religion is important to me too, but it's not what you might think. I'm far from "born again." I do CARE, and deeply, however, and about many things, including the common good. And again, I need you to as well. I like kids, though I have none. To get to know each other, we ought meet in person sooner rather than later. I think this texting is silly. I don't know that you aren't really some ugly old troll in Russia! We also very much need for both of us to always be safe. Communication, safe words, and STD testing are important. It's been a long time. I'm not going to be graceful, or experienced. I will get better though, and in a way that you help dictate. I haven't "been with" a woman in 35 years. I WILL be real though. Think about who/what you want, please. About the "Friends with Benefits:" In my mind, "Friends" can be very close, very deep, and very "long term." I feel that I have much to offer as a friend. But I think I would fall short as a husband. Thus I hesitate to offer marriage. I am just too old and too poor. I'm surprised by how much space I'm being given here, lol. If I think of more, I'll add it later.
Hugs,
Michael

Kinky Date30 to 70 years ● 200km around USA Green Bay

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