Hello, I'm vamp searching for a woman who is dominant to establish a relationship. I am currently in an open relationship, so it's essential to find someone who is comfortable with that. I have a particular interest in risk play, which may involve knives, lighters, and flammable liquids. If you'd like to know more, feel free to ask. I'm married and seeking a poly partner, as my wife and I embrace a poly lifestyle. In this context, I prefer to be submissive, but only in the bedroom, where I enjoy being controlled. Outside of that, I am a caring male, assigned male at birth, identifying as non-binary, with plenty of affection to share. I enjoy a type of roleplay that incorporates risk and ; specifically, I like being restrained and covered in something flammable, as well as experiencing and anticipation. Watching the scenario unfold is part of my kink. I'm looking for someone who enjoys taking control of my mind, as the thrill of is a major turn-on for me. Please note that I have a disability; I'm often in a wheelchair, so it's important that my partner is understanding of that. I look forward to hearing from you.

I seek someone who can tie me up, apply a flammable substance, and playfully threaten to set me on fire while holding a lighter. The element of
intensifies my pleasure. During our sessions, I would like to be teased and edged, with the added thrill that if I climax, I would be set ablaze.

You get to choose the type of flammable liquid or firework, and I prefer not to know what's in store until I'm restrained. Each session should have a different flammable element for variety. Apart from that, my goal is to develop a relationship, whether it's open or D/s.

Kinky Date25 to 55 years ● 60km around UK Chester-le-Street

Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom and sometime daddy dominant.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship. Ideally, I'd like to meet a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. She may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 63 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

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