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Are you really dominant

Queen35976 posted a topic in Kink Academy

Explain what a dominant man mean to you or some characteristic traits of a dominant man ...

July 27
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The Battle Between My Dominant Mind and My Submissive Heart

MutaGioia posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions

The Battle Between My Dominant Mind and My Submissive Heart I would like to share something personal and ask whether anyone else has experienced something similar. Do you know why I keep running awa ...

Yesterday at 12:31 PM
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Submissive straight, dominant gay

SoftboyMerlin posted a topic in Gay BDSM & Kink

I heard from multiple women, that they tend to be submissive with men but dominant with women. I used to think that thats just because of internalized patriarchy. Thats until I realized that It’s the ...

October 7, 2025
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Dominant

Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }

Master/Mistress

A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.