I'm FUN, safe (D&D and drama-free), sane, and discreet, and I have 30+ years of experience in BDSM and D/s. I'm a 59-year-old male, a Dominant male, 5-9, and in shape mentally, physically, and spiritually. I'm a suit-wearing business professional who understands both the mental and physical aspects of both D/s and BDSM dynamics to his core and can provide you with what you may seek, what you may want, and what you may desire.

What I seek is connected, chemistry-filled, enduring, ongoing, and trust-based real-time exploration. Nothing beats real exploration and time together face-to-face.

What I crave, what I ultimately aspire to enjoy with you, is for us to feel that spark, that connection. Where control is taken and gladly ceded, where we can touch our spirit, our minds, and our bodies. Those connections that are felt with chemistry, connection, and time develop trust. I love doing those things, whether in vanilla or a BDSM context, that exercises the body, mind, and spirit.

I would sum myself up as a Dominant mentor and teacher who brings a deeper awareness of the very connected mental, physical, and spiritual context for D/s and BDSM to capture your mind, your spirit, and your body.

Regarding specific elements of the D/s dynamic, I adore, yes, love and even crave the tactile nature, the sensory feel, and the amazing mental/spiritual dynamic that only a connected D/s relationship can bring to the heart and soul.

If my words resonate with you, I look forward to hearing from you. I would enjoy learning what interests you about this dynamic, your experiences with it, what you wish to explore, and what else you would like to know about me. I look forward to exploring all this can and should be together.

BDSM Play Partner20 to 50 years ● 100km around USA, Mason Neck one week ago

About me:
21 years old, 169cm tall, 48kg. I have a relatively soft ENFP personality, enjoy sharing and communicating, and can be affectionate and clingy. Currently studying in university, I have a bit of a bratty side, enjoying teasing and playful banter, but I'm not unreasonable, and my usual demeanor is quite calm and not too boisterous. My interests are broad, I can't resist small s, and I'm especially fond of music and movies. I played in a band in high school and college as a keyboardist and drummer, I also enjoy writing stories and anything free-spirited and romantic. I'm willing to explore your interests, and we can ski, swim, workout, or take photos together (although I'm not a big fan of sports!). I'm extroverted, but not for the reasons you might think; I simply enjoy the company of friends and sharing experiences. I also enjoy sharing a book or a movie, spending a quiet afternoon together. I love food and can cook up a storm! I enjoy sharing, so you won't be bored, believing in the warmth and companionship of mutual relationships, I'm not just seeking attention but also aiming to bring happiness and enthusiasm to you.

I lean more towards being a sub or spankee, with very few dominant tendencies, and it's not just about physical
; I prefer emotional intensity, as long as it's built on understanding and connection.

Interests: spanking, bondage, ddlg,exhibitionism.

I'm not into extreme kinks, and I don't tolerate vulgar or insulting language. I prefer being submissive, especially under a firm hand, and I'm more inclined towards discipline and guidance...

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 55km around Australia, Chippendale 2 weeks ago

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