Hi, I'm a non-op transwoman in my forties, looking for new friends and playmates on the scene. I'm currently in a poly relationship with a Domme I care deeply about but I'd like to explore my kinks in ways that she's not able to help me with.

I'll say up front that I'm quite a bit overweight, but I am working on getting my weight down. Nor am I particularly femme right now, but again, this is something I plan on addressing once I get my weight down to a level that doesn't make me hate my own reflection. Basically, what I'm saying is you really need to not be focused on a person's appearance if you want to spend time with me in any way.

Mostly I'm looking for Tops, male or female, for no-strings, just-for-fun sex play with a rougher edge. Ideally I'd like to find someone I can grow to trust, someone I can gradually push my own boundaries with and have fun. I'm not looking for a 24/7 Top, but would be willing to entertain a possible LTR with a suitably compatible person. Given my comments above about my weight and appearance, I would also be happy to discuss an ongoing arrangement with Tops who are interested in helping me get into shape physically and aesthetically as part of regular play.

My main kinks and interests are sexual slavery, punishment play, impact play, play and play but I'm happy to explore new and interesting scenes with the right person/people. I also have a little experience with needle play (Topping and bottoming) and would possibly be interested in taking this further.

If you're interested in discussing a possible date, feel free to get in touch. What's the worst that can happen?

Kinky Date5km around UK Sheffield

Not interested in random sex, camming, vids or pics, or sexts with strangers. No, I am not going to tell a total stranger about my sex life, fantasies, or turn-ons just because you said hi. Not looking for couples, married or separated guys, service subs, frequent travelers, etc... Just skip me because you won't like my replies. This is a FETISH site, not a random hookup site. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE!!! Looking for LOCAL SINGLE NYC guys/stags for long term

If you have nothing about you written in your profile, or you only say "Hi" in your message, I probably won't chat with you. I don't want to work to find out what you are into and looking for when I am transparent about what I want.

I'm a vixen. I need a STAG who can take as much as I can give, and who can give me as much as I can take. I need an excited STAG. (not someone who is just "ok" with it) I need balance. I need perverted and I need sexy. I need primal, I need hedonistic. I need well endowed, and experienced. I need horny and open-minded and non-judgmental. I need a guy with an oral fixation. I need a cute guy with a nice body who lives a pretty healthy lifestyle (but not a gym rat) to DATE. Manhattan locale would be ideal, non smoker, *** lover. Please be between 38-48. Stag Vixen relationships: metro.co.uk/2018/06/04/stag-vixen-sex-super-popular-different-cuckolding-7603612/

I need someone affectionate who would enjoy travel, good food, and doing "couple" things together. (Netflix and chill?). I need attractive/cute but no specific look, so all races are welcome. I am looking for a real relationship with someone I feel a connection with. I think intelligence is very sexy so I also need smart, I need clever and I need tactful. I need COMPLETE sentences. I need a sweet talker, a guy who can use both heads. I need good conversation, and I need presentable. If you like to watch and think it would be hot to watch your girl with another guy, even better! Stags are encouraged to PM. Not a domme, so not looking for submissive men or cucks. Plenty of domme here you can contact and offer services to.

Single, Non-smokers only please

Kinky Date38 to 48 years ● 5km around USA New York

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