Hi, I'm looking for someone that I can get to know and make happy.

I know everyone's time is precious and I want to make their time fun enjoyable and relaxed.

I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn would be helpful, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or she has one less thing to do around the house. I have had experience with ass play and loved it so would definitely like if she wishes to explore this more.

I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. She liked me to cook for her, she would play and me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.

I am only looking for in person meetings but happy to chat online for bit exchange phots and information to allow you to decide if I'm right for you, preferably around east midlands, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection.

I do have some limits but these are more or less the same as most people's, like no
, ***,kids, permanent marks, there are few more but nothing to extreme. I do like to experiment and try new things so I will try most things once unless is against my limits. I am straight but not against having other males in the room or play, this will probably take a bit of time to build up to as never done it before.

If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.

I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she dose not know im looking for a mistress to please, she has no interest in any kinks but i need to release the feeling to please someone.

Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I am also only interested in a female mistress. I would like a friend, someone when we are not playing, we can have a conversation, maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, want to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.

BDSM Play Partner100km around UK Nuthall
Club Buddy18 to 45 years ● 500km around Australia Adelaide

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this somewhat long post. I am attempting to establish minimum compatibility prior to spending an extensive amount of time chatting. your honesty with yourself, who you are, and what you want is paramount.
My ultimate goal is to find a partner in life with whom I can be Myself without . My descriptions and requirements below are in many cases goals, though they need to be acceptable to you as anything said or written is considered an acknowledgement and soft-commitment; honesty and transparency are important to Me.
Obviously, there will be discussions surrounding basic life goals and desires as well as the items below, so don't get scared away thinking you and your feelings are not being considered. Part of being a Daddy is concern for My girl and her well being.
you will use My use of capitalization in written communications.
The lists below are in no particular order, hence bullets, not numbers, mostly just a stream of consciousness.
I very much look forward to starting a dialogue with you, so reach out soon.
About Me
I am an Owner/Daddy who has had one submissive 30 years ago and the same one again recently for a total of about 2 years. That relationship is completely over now.
The hiatus between was when I pushed the kinkier side of Me down and lived a vanilla life. I am at the point I no longer want to ignore my kinks and fetishes and I would like to have another sub/slave with a cervix to join Me.
• I have a low body count and prefer you to have the same, if possible, though this is not a hard requirement. Corrupting you is one of my fetishes.
• I want to create a relationship of trust and safety where we both can express our desires without judgement.
• Assuming compatibility, marriage is possible/probable though regardless you will be collared.
• I have an extensive list of kinks and fetishes, some of which may be considered extreme.
• I have sadistic tendencies.
• I am well educated.
• I have a felony conviction for negligent homicide as part of a traffic collision. No
or alcohol were involved.
• I am white.
• I have a penis about 80% of average.
• I am currently overweight (200 lb), though I am working to improve Myself. My goal is 150 to 160 lb.
• My known limits are no or play.
About you
• you may have from previous relationship(s).
• you are open to being pregnant (once again) as I would like to have a child. This is not a hard requirement as long as you are accept another carrying the child.
• your commitment to me will be unshakeable regardless of our activities.
• you will put Me before yourself.
• you will never lie or deceive Me in any way as this would erode and/or threaten the safe environment.
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have my kinks and fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• you understand that I will most likely be open to or already have any fetish or kink you desire.
• your kinks/fetishes may concern or scare you because you
the repercussions (not a requirement) as getting you to do those things is part of my desire. The safe environment I am seeking to build should help assuage many of your concerns.
o you will perform My fetishes and kinks even when they are not fully your own.
o you will be having sex with women. Whether you enjoy it to start is not relevant, though you will be expected to obey and participate enthusiastically.
• you will be expected to address Me as Sir at most times. Other pet names are acceptable as long as they are respectful.
• you will be collared once compatibility and long-term commitment has been established.
• you have masochistic tendencies.
• you swallow.
• you may be given an SLRN (this can be discussed).
• you will keep a tidy house and provide healthy meals (similar to TradWife).
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• Preferably, you are similar to Me in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.

BDSM Play Partner25 to 50 years ● 5km around USA Westmont

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