Don't be obsessed with looks it's shallow.

Please don't reach out, meet-up, lead me on, than ghost and block for no reason. It's not mature, or necessary we are both adults so let's handle it like ones. Don't like me? That's completely fine but literally tell me! Seriously...

Okay anyway hi!! Hope i didn't scare you off...

I’m brand new to the BDSM and DD/lg world, but I’m already hooked on the idea of having a Dom who’s strong, steady, and knows exactly how to take care of me—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

I’ll admit, I’m a little shy as I step into this new world, but the excitement of exploring it with the right Dom makes my heart race. I’m eager, curious, and ready to let someone take the lead—gently guiding me as I learn, but always with care and attention. The thought of being spoiled and cherished while learning the ropes of this lifestyle makes me feel both nervous and thrilled all at once.

I’m 4'11, 130lbs, but I’m not skinny or "slender" I am curvy, soft, feminine, and unapologetically confident in my own skin. I know my body isn’t everyone’s ideal, and that’s fine with me. I take my health seriously, weigh myself daily, and take pride in being strong, healthy, and comfortable with the way I look.
I’m sweet, playful, and love a Dom who’s not afraid to set rules, offer affection, and hold space for me to grow. I’m drawn to structure and love being spoiled with attention, praise, and a little discipline when it’s earned.

Please be honest with me about who you are and what you’re really looking for. I get attached easily, and my heart is soft—I’m not built for games or mixed signals. I want something real and safe, with someone who’s just as eager to build something deep and lasting as I am.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 58 years ● 320km around USA Bellingham

✨ Hiiiii~ I’m Lily! A giggly, bratty, spoiled Princess Little with a big heart, sticky fingers (from too many snacks), and a head full of daydreams. My Little age is 1–7, and my big age is 32. I’m a 24/7 lifestyle Little, living happily in Montana with my amazing Daddy, who is also my best friend, my Switchy/Middly/Caregiver partner in all things silly and serious. 💗

Together, Daddy and I are searching for something truly rare and meaningful: a Bi or Pan male who wants to be an equal part of a throuple. Not a “guest star” or occasional fling, but a full partner in love, laughter, snuggles, structure, and maybe a little discipline when needed... 🍼🍭

We know it’s a long shot here (we’ve looked for a long time), but if you’re someone who values communication, devotion, shared power exchange, and tender chaos—if you want to help build a home filled with cartoons, cuddles, deep chats, and chosen family—you might just be our missing piece.

✨ A bit about us: We’re both Pan, Poly, Pagan, introverted, and delightfully nerdy. Star Trek, Star Wars, and D&D nights are our love language. We have cats, dogs, crafts galore (I sew and crochet, he ***ts), and a house full of love. 💕

We live the lifestyle fully, believe deeply in trust and communication, and dream of a relationship that nurtures all of us—emotionally, romantically, and yes, playfully too.

Bonus points if you love stuffies, aftercare snuggles, enforcing bedtime, or helping a Little pick out her next coloring book. 🧸💕

If your heart fluttered reading this... don’t be shy. Come say hi.

But be gentle. I bite... only sometimes. 💌
Xoxo,
Lily

BDSM/Fetish Family500km around USA Shelby

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