I'm looking for a relationship first. It just so happens that vanilla sex makes me immediately irritated lol

I want to make it very clear I am looking for someone between the ages of 30 and 37 I am looking for someone who is significantly taller than me I'm not trying to be an asshole but my preferences are my preferences. Also if you're conservative please get the fuck away for me I am a woman of color and an immigrant who has no desire to try and justify my existence. I am a hard-core liberal and massive on human rights and you are allowed to have your opinions but my moral and ethical standpoint contradicts yours and I'm not putting up with that.

I would like to treat this like a normal date and relationship that just happens to be between two depraved people 😂

My type is definitely a tall dark and thic I got something about big shoulders big hands and a beard lol looks are not as important despite a definite need between two people for physical attraction but personality will always went out I don't care if you're the most good looking guy on the planet if you're an asshole I'm gonna tell you you're an asshole.

I like live music I love unique places to eat I love live music I love comedy shows I love getting to walk around the city at night which is not something I can safely do on my own and usually I don't feel super safe if it's just me and my friends which sucks cause it's a good time.

I am sober and have been so for a long time I do not drink but I definitely smoke weed I use a lot of tinctures that I put in mocktails so I don't mind going out to bars and things like that I actually very much enjoy it as it's not some thing that is difficult for me anymore. But I do love a good museum date with some edibles.

I'm definitely a little old fashion even though I'm pretty headstrong. I have never really been spoiled by a partner but secretly love it. It doesn't necessarily have to be some thing that involves *** open the door for me pull out my chair. My love languages are definitely words of affirmation big time that gives me reassurance that I definitely need as well as acts of service and physical touch. I do need to be super clear that when I say physical touch I don't mean my fucking vagina I mean like hold my hand 😂

This is super long and if you actually read this immediate bonus points, but again I need to make it clear I will be treated with respect I might be submissive but I don't give a fuck who you are if you are disrespectful to me I will take it above and beyond. I try to be kind but I'm not nice. I don't move maliciously until you do and I guarantee I'm gonna do it bigger and better. Be respectful or get absolutely wrecked. If you approach me in a way that I find disrespectful better believe I will escalate it.

Kinky Date30 to 37 years ● 75km around USA, Worcester 2 months ago

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