Hi, I'm a non-op transwoman in my forties, looking for new friends and playmates on the scene. I'm currently in a poly relationship with a Domme I care deeply about but I'd like to explore my kinks in ways that she's not able to help me with.

I'll say up front that I'm quite a bit overweight, but I am working on getting my weight down. Nor am I particularly femme right now, but again, this is something I plan on addressing once I get my weight down to a level that doesn't make me hate my own reflection. Basically, what I'm saying is you really need to not be focused on a person's appearance if you want to spend time with me in any way.

Mostly I'm looking for Tops, male or female, for no-strings, just-for-fun sex play with a rougher edge. Ideally I'd like to find someone I can grow to trust, someone I can gradually push my own boundaries with and have fun. I'm not looking for a 24/7 Top, but would be willing to entertain a possible LTR with a suitably compatible person. Given my comments above about my weight and appearance, I would also be happy to discuss an ongoing arrangement with Tops who are interested in helping me get into shape physically and aesthetically as part of regular play.

My main kinks and interests are sexual slavery, punishment play, impact play, play and play but I'm happy to explore new and interesting scenes with the right person/people. I also have a little experience with needle play (Topping and bottoming) and would possibly be interested in taking this further.

If you're interested in discussing a possible date, feel free to get in touch. What's the worst that can happen?

Kinky Date5km around UK Sheffield

Hello, I'm vamp searching for a woman who is dominant to establish a relationship. I am currently in an open relationship, so it's essential to find someone who is comfortable with that. I have a particular interest in risk play, which may involve knives, lighters, and flammable liquids. If you'd like to know more, feel free to ask. I'm married and seeking a poly partner, as my wife and I embrace a poly lifestyle. In this context, I prefer to be submissive, but only in the bedroom, where I enjoy being controlled. Outside of that, I am a caring male, assigned male at birth, identifying as non-binary, with plenty of affection to share. I enjoy a type of roleplay that incorporates risk and ; specifically, I like being restrained and covered in something flammable, as well as experiencing and anticipation. Watching the scenario unfold is part of my kink. I'm looking for someone who enjoys taking control of my mind, as the thrill of is a major turn-on for me. Please note that I have a disability; I'm often in a wheelchair, so it's important that my partner is understanding of that. I look forward to hearing from you.

I seek someone who can tie me up, apply a flammable substance, and playfully threaten to set me on fire while holding a lighter. The element of
intensifies my pleasure. During our sessions, I would like to be teased and edged, with the added thrill that if I climax, I would be set ablaze.

You get to choose the type of flammable liquid or firework, and I prefer not to know what's in store until I'm restrained. Each session should have a different flammable element for variety. Apart from that, my goal is to develop a relationship, whether it's open or D/s.

Kinky Date25 to 55 years ● 60km around UK Chester-le-Street

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