Hello, I am an intelligent, articulate late fifties British Male, living on the North London/ Hertfordshire border, looking for a curvy, busty woman with whom to indulge my love of big breast play.

I am - of course, happy to indulge your fantasies and kinks in return, and hopefully we will both obtain mutual gratification and fulfilment together.

My love for big breasts was forged in my ***s, thanks to one particular experience, and has stayed with me for over 40 years now.

I enjoy teasing, squeezing and groping a large pair of soft breasts through clothing, feeling your nipples stiffen in response. I love playing with nipples, pulling, and teasing them as they grow, and throb under my touch. I have given many Ladies nipple orgasms over the years, and firmly believe that anyone is capable of having one. Breast fucking, tit fucking, mammary intercourse, paizuri, tit wanking - all pretty much the same thing (well, except tit wanking - if you want to be pedantic…!) Do you enjoy having your breasts slapped ?, nipples clamped?, oiled, lubed toyed - and orgasmed over ?

If you’ve never tried these things, maybe it’s high time you did ?

I would very much like to chat with you about the possibilities - and have may (true) stories to tell about my own experiences, and of course, I would love to hear yours also !

So if you are just looking for mutual satisfaction- with no complications, or perhaps good wine, lunch, and naughty chat, which might lead on to something more, please feel free to drop me a line. I would love to hear from you.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Bushey Heath

My name is Skit, I'm 19 years old, and I'm planning to move to Melbourne next year with a friend for my studies. I'm mostly interested in non-sexual connections since I am a virgin and have experienced some sexual trauma, which means I need to build complete trust with someone before anything sexual can happen. I'm totally open to discussing our hopes for the future (including what sexual things we want in the future), but I want to clarify that I'm not into sexting or sharing sexual pictures.

I identify as aromantic, which means I don't experience romantic attraction, but that does not mean I can't love you. I am trans female-to-male pre-transition, and I am hoping to get top surgery soon. I value honesty and communication above all else, so if you have any questions, please feel free to ask and I'll do the same!

I'm searching for someone who desires a genuine connection with me. Ideally, I'd like someone close to my age to late 20's, but I can be flexible if you are the one.

I would love to eventually live as a 24/7 baby, although I understand that might not be feasible with my current life situation. I'm looking to gradually ease into this lifestyle and become less and less independent over time. I want to remain fully non-sexual until I feel completely comfortable with you in real life and have been fully introduced to the ABDL community. Once I trust you completely, I'd be open to slowly incorporating some sexual elements into our dynamic. I'm very open-minded, so please be honest if you are looking for something specific. I'd love to sit down and discuss everything before we take any sexual steps forward.

Im looking to have someone take complete control over pretty much anything, and slowly introduce me into this lifestyle and other kinks. I also love the thought of getting "groomed" so going from a friendly stranger to friends then slowly getting more and more intimate.

My limits include , intentional , impact play, any kind of calls, pretty much anything in my mouth (due to sensory issues), and likely more that I haven't realised yet. When you reach out to me please share a little about yourself, what you expect/are looking for and any questions you might have

BDSM Play Partner19 to 28 years ● 300km around Australia Melbourne

18 year old trans male (FTM) (pre-op atm however i do want top surgery) from australia looking for someone who is into the idea of having a stay at home adult baby to care for and look after. This would be completely platonic for me as i am aro-ace but i am ok bit nsfw elements and am very open-minded, i would be ok with sexual things happening eventually but only IRL and not over messages. this would however all be irl not rp or erp i am not interested in any of that. i want this to be a lifestyle for me.

i am looking for someone who loves the idea of forcing me back into diapers and s me to "be a baby". this would be done by mittens that lock around the wrists so i cant pick up things properly, a lockable diaper cover so i need to rely on you for everything, boots that have spikes on the bottom so that i cant walk and have to crawl everywhere, instead of having a "normal" bedroom i would have a nursery with everything a baby would have like a crib, changing table, rocking chair etc, have rules that i have to follow that a baby would have, be d to sleep in a crib, watch cartoons, play with baby toys, things like that.

i love the idea of having no control just like a baby and having to be completely reliant on someone else for everything, i want to lose all control over everything including my bladder and bowels the thought of having to rely on you for everything and have to wait for you to be ready like you decide that my diaper isnt wet enough to change or you strap me into an adult baby bouncer that i cant get out of and i just have to bounce there waiting for you ly.

id prefer someone who is possessive and/or protective, strict but doting and would love to spoil me at any given time, will treat me just like a baby no matter what and is ok with the idea of having me as a 24/7 stay at home little. if this sounds interesting or something you would like please send me a friend request on discord to littlebby. i am very open minded so feel free to ask any questions or anything like that, or if you like something that isnt here. My only limits are striclty sexual stuff, i dont want this to be about sex i want to be
d to be a baby, ***, id be ok with spankings if it was a last resort, choking, feminisation, misgendering, mean yelling and hard degrading. If you enjoy something that i havent listed and isnt in my limits tell me about it id probably be willing to give it a go.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years Australia Colac

Jan 2026
I am in Mexico 🎉 WARM weather and wonderful people!
Looking for kinky friends and a non-sexual service sub and sharing ideas!
Open to coffee dates with anyone 😊

I will not respond to you if you are: not local to me, send a dick pic or looking for cyber.
Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense ... just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Weekday afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. You must be 35 years old or older. Not 20, not 28, 34, not 34 3/4 lol

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc. I am open to any age, as long as mature. I know it's a smaller community here 😊

Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. A cookie or fancy dinner lol. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only. You will not submit to or in the presence of my husband.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner50km around Mexico Mérida

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 59, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless
s and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 62 years ● 100km around UK Wolverhampton

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