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Malaysian, chinese male sub looking for a mistress/master, bi-sexual, high obedience, willing to try anything, masochist, prefer physical, accept online play

(I am new here, Idk wtf I am doing, please 🐻 with me)
(No Men, honestly not interested) 🥱



Hey! 😀 🏳️‍🌈
Thank you for clicking on my post, please read through the whole thing if you are contacting me... I would really appreciate that Here's a potato for you 🥔

Looking for AFAB, i really have no preference for gender identity and I have nothing against trans folks... I just have weird brain cells that I myself don't understand, it's a weird life. I am sorry if its yucky but I don't know how to explain it. Don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am sorry if I am. I have no preference for body size/shape etc. No preference for Masc/Fem Just be a honest person. 🥰

This is for IRL (In Real Life) relationship... If you are in Chicago! Amazing! If you are nearby and willing to meet, amazing! I am not really looking for "online only relationship". 🥰


🍄 # Who the heck is this person? 🍄

So, ummmm... Hi... I am Alex. 32 F.

• Sapiosexual (Brains and Intellectual connection is important to me) 🧠
• Demisexusl (Emotional connection is also extremely important to me, I am extremely empathic) 💙
• Nerdy! I guess that's self explanatory 🤓
• Ambivert? But more of an Introvert. I am shy and quiet untill I get comfortable with you and then you will have to order me to stop talking lol 😆
• I can spend everyday with you if you are one of my friend / loved ones... But strangers / casual friends... Meeting them drains me out and my social battery depletes really quickly. 😭
• Love Computers. Honestly, don't wanna brag but I am kinda good at them and everything computers just come to me easily. 🖥️
• Read a book, have a lazy weekend, spend cozy time, explore the city and earth over parties anyday! (I enjoy spending quality time, making memories, doing meaningful stuff over parties n clubbing... Crowds drain me) 📚

• Extremely brutally honest, honestly can't lie to save my life. 🤔
  
  
  🍄 # Day to day life 🍄
  
  Masc presenting, cis Female (Golden Retriever Masc according to Tiktok lol)

• Have my head in one or another project all the time.
• Programming, Art, Science, Maths 😭, Animation, Development...
• Games, Sports (Wanna join the Boxing club), Music (can't live without it), SPACE, History, Food, Mythology, Chess, Board Games, Books, DIY, Crafts etc.

• Sleeping 😴
  
  
  🍄 # The Kink side of life 🍄
  

• Sub Identifies as Natural Sub, don't do it for the heck of it and kicks or what not. Need BDSM in my life to be content.
• Been into it since I was a *** (stumbled on wrong websites lol) actively practicing it since 2017.
• Into Lifestyle BDSM. It's not a game for me. I love the lifestyle. I take it seriously.
• Masochist.
• I have too many kinks and kinks change as per person... Will not write them here as a shopping list. Can be discussed in private.
• I am willing to try everything once or thrice just to be sure if its for me or not unless it's an absolute hard limit.
• Limits are extremely important to be respected at all times and must not be broken. Unless discussed otherwise.
• Safe words and Aftercare is extremely important to me.

• SSC and everything sane that comes under the umbrella.
  
  
  🍄 # What I am looking for 🍄
  
  A Domme / A Mistress (or whichever salutations you prefer )
  

• Honest ❤️
• Trustworthy ❤️
• Strict ❤️
• Soft ❤️
• Caring ❤️
• Can be a Friend 😄
• Open to Dating ❤️
• An eventual partner ❤️
• Donut Bonus if there's Attraction 🧲
• Basically someone who is also looking to be a friend, domme and be a partner ❤️

• Someone who is NOT an Asshole and resort to ghosting, manipulation, , mind fuck, drama, non-sense dom bullshit etc. (been through that, just leave me alone.) 🤷
  
  I don't want to be a mindless robot sub/slave/pet/toy/girl etc. The one that you come to when you are bored, have nothing better to do and ignore otherwise. I have been with awful doms and dommes, Sadly, I now know exactly what I have to avoid... Even the ones who look like angels are just spineless demons in disguise. I hate that people take so much advantage on name of submission... Honestly, please spare me if you are gonna do that... Target someone else please. 🤷
  
  I am an intellectual I am an empath... When i give myself to someone, I give myself completely... I don't know how to do things the half way... Its all or nothing. I devote so much of myself to my doms that honestly for the right person it can be amazing. Lemme care for you and make your life easier and make you happy Tell you all about space and science and computers and whatever the heck is topic of the day...
  I can make you any art or videos you want My phone is full of memes and thoughtful videos... Let's be friends and explore this life together! ❤️
  
  Be someone who can care for me be my friend but at same time won't hesitate to put me in my place if I am out of line. ❤️
  
  Let's go on dates Lemme cherish you and treat you like royalty You know you deserve it ❤️
  
  Honestly, if we click... It can be amazing ❤️
  
  Let's take this slow and see if we click and if we like the idea of each other... Who knows... Maybe this can be start of something beautiful ❤️
  
  NOT looking for poly. Done with that bullshit. Got only d in that scenario multiple times. 🤷
  
  NOT looking for short term. 🤷
  
  
  🍄 # Read all that? 🍄
  
  Well! We are almost done
  Somethings to keep in mind...
  

• Tired of multiple platforms so, I will ask you to move to Dscrd once I feel comfortable.
• I will ask you to verify by my personal method (after a while)... All sfw. If you are not okay with verifying... Please don't reach out. Idk about you but I don't wanna be catfished. It's good for both of us to get this out of the way.
• I will reply to messages as I see them. I might not be able to reply instantly, please be patient.
• Don't expect me to sub for you in first 11 minutes. Or a week. I am gonna take this slow. If you can't take this slow. Don't bother contacting me.
• I am not a newbie. Just because you ars a dom doesn't mean you are automatically correct. Just makes you an asshole. If you have "I am a dom only I know better" ideology, please with all due respect fck off.
• My bullshit radar is actually pretty good. So, honestly don't bother.

• I was in an awful d/s relationship few months ago... My friends made me realise (after it ended) that it was actually hella bad one... So, I am healing and I might not be at my 100% right now. But I plan to give my all to you as much as I can.
  
  
  🍄 # How to reach out 🍄
  
  Send a chat request with these things included... So that I know you can give me courtesy of at least agreeing to my tiny request of being Dmed in a certain way... Which just adds to the fact that if you can do this I can also take in account that you might also follow my request to respect my limits...
  

• Your favorite planet/celestial body. Why did you choose that planet/celestial body?
• Your Age, Sex, Location.
• Why have you decided to message me?

• A little info about you You just read a whole essay about me, I want to know a bit of you too
  
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  That's all Only looking for IRL, or hybrid... As long as you are willing to meet a lot in real life. A LOT.
  Not just online.
  
  Please be around my age or age can be just a number.
  
  Have an amazing week!
  
  p.s. please only contact me if you are serious. 🍄

a bit of a sex and bdsm newbie, very much a masochist, also a bit of a brat. show me a good time?

Looking for someone to hold me in chastity and hurt me. I love feet, CBT, and overall cruelty. DMs open.

Ideally I would love to find a submissive female masochist who is also a swinger and at least bifriendly. I am open to ltr as well as short term. I have no problem with dating and earning submission. I don’t like being an internet Dom, and definitely not interested in pen pals.

Hello BDSM family , I am looking for a slave/ masochist to play with.. around Philly area and can drive .. ping me if you want to be tamed

My play partner pansexual sub masochistic brat experimental female 29 (turning 30) and I pleasure/service dom sadist experimental hedonist brat tamer male 36 (turning 37) I have some experience with threesomes and group but not with her or you yet.
Asked me to do my best to find someone interested in helping her explore her voyeurism kink and potentially if we tease, involve and tempt her right her first ffm experience.
Feel free to reach out and we can chat and you can ask any questions you might have.
Happy to meet and build comfort and trust through vanilla dates with the three of us first.

helloo, i’m b
just moved to the area from far away, needing new fwb, bdsm events/communities, etc

masochist sub puppyboy, slut masochist brat
bi, looking for fun

i love bondage, being overpowered, toys, teasing/, etc
when i know the dom i luv cnc, , , extreme rp, and more ><

Im looking to enjoy my day today with a submissive male who'd enjoy getting to know one another for a long term slave/master dynamic, someone masochistic and generous, like brats and good boys who kneel at my feet without questioning

My play partner pansexual sub masochistic brat experimental female 29 (turning 30) and I pleasure/service dom sadist experimental hedonist brat tamer male 36 (turning 37) I have some experience with threesomes and group but not with her or you yet.
Asked me to do my best to find someone interested in helping her explore her voyeurism kink and potentially if we tease, involve and tempt her right her first ffm experience.
Feel free to reach out and we can chat and you can ask any questions you might have.
Happy to meet and build comfort and trust through vanilla dates with the three of us first.

To get together with once or twice a month.

Submissive. Masochist. Slave. Brat.
I crave a real connection with a dominant who’s rough, sadistic, and unapologetically in control. If you're the type who doesn’t take crap and knows exactly how to own a submissive—mentally and physically—we might just click.
*** me. Break me. Own me.

I’m not here for games, endless chats, or long-distance fantasies. If you have no real intention of meeting, keep scrolling. I’m only interested in genuine dynamics, in-person, and something intense.

A few things you should know:

I get a lot of messages ✉️. If yours is just “hi,” I’m probably ignoring it. Be different. Be bold. Make me want to reply

No dick pics unless we’ve actually talked 🍆✖️—seriously, it’s not cute.

I’m submissive, not your submissive ⛓️. That title is earned, not assumed.

I don’t tolerate disrespect ❌. If you think submission means doormat, you’re in the wrong place.

I’m not into one-night stands or quick hook-ups 🚫. I want something deeper, darker, and all-consuming.

If you don’t have pics or won’t send one, don’t message me. I like to know who I’m talking to. 📸

I’m monogamous—I’m not looking to share or be shared. One Dom. One sub. That’s it. ❤️

Impress me. Seduce me. Dominate me.
Make me feel it.

Hi, Andrew here. I am a submissive or slave type oriented person. I love being in bondage, and am a masochist. Open to most kink related activities and would love to serve however is desired.

I am also into just regular fun if that is what you prefer. Meaning without the slave/masochist dynamics. Just hanging out naked and having some fun together. I am a nudist so love just hanging out naked for sure and completely open minded if you have kink preferences. All good.

If you are interested in a slave, submissive or toy to play with or just want to hang out naked and have regular fun, please write back. I can travel anywhere in Wisconsin, North eastern Iowa, Illinois and Eastern Minnesota a few days notice. Other places with more planning time.

If your goal is quick hookups, casual meetups, or free-flowing erotic content—I am not your playground. I will not be sending photos or videos for your entertainment. If that’s all you’re after… scroll on. [addition: this is a hard limit for me, anyone requesting photos will be blocked. I will choose when and at what stage i am happy to progress to sharing my irl life with an online dynamic, if this is not acceptable, then do not engage]

For those still reading: I am happy to engage in remote toy play, though I am not seeking in-person meetings in the near future. If the dynamic, relationship, or interactions ever reached a point where meeting in person or sharing media became relevant, that could be discussed—but only if I feel a genuine connection worth sharing.

I am a fully submissive woman with strong masochistic tendencies, craving the nuanced interplay of intellectual and physical dominance from a partner who may be a sadist, a Daddy, or a Sir/Master. I thrive in dynamic, mentally stimulating interactions where words, gestures, and intent carry weight, where obedience is never hollow, and commands are meaningful because they are earned and understood.

I am flirtatious, bright, and capable of filthy indulgence when the moment calls for it, yet I also carry a quiet need for care. I crave a Daddy who can guide, nurture, and attend to the subtler layers of a submissive’s mind and heart, helping me find comfort even in moments I struggle to reach it myself.

My submission is genuine—I to it. I carry a spark of oppositional defiance, but that fire exists to be challenged, directed, and ultimately consumed by a Sir or Master who truly understands the art of dominance beyond s***w orders. I also recognize that obedience cannot be inspired through ego alone, but through mastery, presence, and the ability to balance intellect and control.

If you can navigate that delicate interplay—acknowledging each person’s unique moods and needs as much as I do—then perhaps you are the one, or the ones, I am searching for. I am open to these roles being fulfilled by different individuals if no single person embodies them all, as long as each connection is respectful, attentive, and thoughtfully dominant.

A switch looking to gain further experience in either side of a dynamic. I can be a caring dom laced with sadistic desired or a masochistic sub for someone to use. Who wants to bite?

If I viewed your profile it’s most likely I’m into you but can’t message you cuz of how this app works so DM me!

I am a sadist who is looking for a consistent play partner! Ideally a person who is masochistic. Feel free to check out my profile and send me a message or spank me 😁

Looking for excessive masochist for play and possibly join polyfamily.
Prefer biofemale and/or trans.
Must be able to travel regularly to East Texas

Hey! I'm Isa, mostly a domme/mommy, but lately, I've been curious about exploring my sub side. I don't have much experience as a sub obviously, but I'm open to trying new things and discovering that side of me with the right person. I'm specifically looking for a soft, caring, and pleasure-focused dom/domme or switch (man or woman)! DISCLAIMER: I'm not a masochist or anything like that, so please don't send me any unsolicited messages with things you want to do to me. That's an instant turn-off, and I'll block you. I’m only looking for people with experience and with information in their bio. If your profile is empty and with no pics then I won’t respond to you. Anyway, if you're in Toronto, ON, or nearby, and between 23-35 years old, send me a message. I'd love to chat!

Also before you text me PLEASE read my bio, thank you!

would love to edge myself for an older guy, controlling me on video 😫

I'm looking for the ladies that prefer to be the masochist, the degradee, the rope bunny. I'm experienced and will not disappoint (not that it matters, you're here for the master). You will be the center of attention though.
Located in northeast Ohio

Masochist sub into impact play and bondage looking for NSA sessions or FWB who can indulge me, if you think it sounds fun, let's chat!
Ideal if you have a place because I have roommates and impact can be, well, loud.
There's a club I frequent in Toronto otherwise.

We live in Mebane NC. Me and Daddy are looking for a *** sub to join our family. If you're interested please message me. I am a little, brat, and masochist. Daddy is a pleasure Dom. Any questions feel free to ask.

Looking for a masochistic female toilet sub for wet and filthy good times, in-person (you host), or online (cybersex).

By "toilet sub", I mean exactly that - you must be into play that involves both #1 and #2 !!!! Plus anything else filthy we can get up to.

Also into fisting, squirting, deep-throat gagging, and spanking and bruising your ass and breasts.

BBW's and hairy women are prefered, but really, any females that share my kink are worthy of playing with. Looks and age are not important - the fetish always comes first !!!

I am looking for a strict, strong woman to keep me in line.
I have an atypical need for a woman's control, and I am naturally subservient.
I am a big masochist and go into subspace pretty fast.