Joined site March 14, 2021 If your interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.

Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people safety in this lifestyle.

I have been out of the lifestyle for about 10 years raising an 8 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal que.

I am not into knife play or **.
Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n
clamps.etc. No ddlg

Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.

100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0% /Girl
0% Switch

BDSM Play Partner32 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Beaver

Hi to everyone,
I have been divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a sometime daddy dominant. Additionally, I have successfully mentored several novice subs.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, given that there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship. Ideally, I'd like to meet a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas where we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared kinks. She may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

Kinky Date18 to 63 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

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