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kingdingaling199069
Dominant, Not Delicate – Apply Within 😈

Looking for someone who knows the difference between “Daddy” and just a guy with a beard and opinions.

I’m a very dominant man who doesn’t shy away from taking control—in the bedroom, the playlist, or the group text. I don’t do “maybe.” I do yes, no, and on your knees.

Kinks? Oh, I got ‘em. Rope? Yep. Choking? Love it (within safe, sane, consensual limits, of course—I’m not a monster). You into power play, obedience, brat-taming, and being told exactly what to do? Good. You’ll thrive under pressure—my pressure.

I’ve got a commanding voice, calloused hands, and no problem grabbing the reins (or a handful of hair). Aftercare? You better like snacks, praise, and strong arms that don’t let go easy.

Must love music, mischief, and making bad decisions I fully orchestrate.

Apply now. Safe words welcome. Submissions required

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 175km around USA Blackwater
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dom-master1234
Master Looking for a Slave

I am a dominant master. I am looking for a slave who wants to submit to me. I am very controlling. I love inflicting ***.

I last very long in bed. (45 mins).

If you submit to me, I will pleasure you until your head explodes. (Or until I explode on your face).

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 40 years ● 15km around Philippines East EDSA
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djams1881
I am all yours

A fun friend and playmate that likes to be in control

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Manassas
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ManSub34
Looking for Training

I am new to BDSM and being a sub.
I am 20 years old, muscular physique and have always wanted to be trained as a sub and learn my place in this world at your feet.
I would love to give you complete control both in the bedroom and out and give you whatever you want no matter where we are whether in a relationship or as a one-time thing

BDSM Play Partner ● 25km around UK Birmingham
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Kmack
Anticipation

Escape the reality. Immerse into what s. The of letting go, loosing control, naked. A break of the cycle, a moment of being taken. Blindfolded In a room with little noise and just a robe, a sense of my eyes glaring, undressing your internal rhythm as you try to control your breath. A snap of a wooden dowel across a leather seat has your anticipation heightened. What will become of me? Will it hurt? Forget it, unwind into your deeper self, a desire to be taken over. The ropes on the robe become unhinged breaking the bind of cloth to your skin and a cool breeze sets on your skin as the robe opens. A cold hand brushes inside across your shoulder and neck down your chest as you tighten up. You hear a slight foot pattern and a brush off your arm as I circle you contemplating my next move, breathing you in, consuming you. I reach around from behind and uncover your risen chest sensitive to the robe as it drops and collects on your feet at the floor. Anticipation is risen, bare skinned, naked but not alone. The wooden dowel lightly presses your neck and moves downward with a slight tickle when it comes to a stop across both cheeks. “Please kneel” You hear. What will happen next?

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Greenville
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Sirduck01
Looking for a sub

I’m looking for a play partner. Are you in need of a spanking? Looking to be controlled? Or do you just want to hang out, cuddle, watch a horror movie? I’m in need of some kinky friends, and hopefully find an additional play partner. I am married, but we are ENM/open and date separately!

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Saint Paul
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b1rdsongs
submissive pet LF owner / mistress / play-partner

Hi there. I’m a submissive boy with the heart of a puppy, looking for a strong, dominant woman who knows what she wants—or is excited to explore and learn together. I crave structure, guidance, and being molded into exactly what you need. I won’t be able to host, but I’m eager to be brought everywhere with you. Leash me up and take me for a stroll. ☺️

Whether you’re an experienced domme or just discovering your dominant side, I’m here to serve, obey, and be trained—collar, leash and cuffs ready. I love rope, restraint, rituals, and being put in my place by someone who takes control with confidence.

If you’re a kinky, caring, and a commanding owner who enjoys obedience, and connection, message me. 🫶🏾

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Riverview
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forceU2cum22
Submissive

Looking for submissive female. You will be trained, controlled and ***d to cum. Message me for details.

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 175km around USA Altus
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Jmaybe2
Just looking for a bratty FWB

Looking for a bratty sub who knows how to push buttons just enough to earn the consequences. This isn’t about control for the sake of it — it’s about the tension, the teasing, and the satisfaction of watching a smart mouth slowly learn its place.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA San Antonio
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Itishw16
Dommy mommy

I need a dommy mommy that is looking for a sub to control and punish and peg.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around USA Spring Lake
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seekingAnOwner
Obedient sub seeks Mistress

I crave structure, take over the control, put me in my place, own me.
If you are interested DM me, I'm happy to provide pictures.

I'm into: chastity, denial, spanking, ***, 24/7 dynamic or just sessions.
I'm also open and interested in other approaches.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 46 years ● 500km around Hungary Budapest
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kalamazoo827263
“Submissive Soul. Dominant Tastes. Let’s Rewrite

I'm not just looking for someone to tie me up—I’m looking for someone who can hold space while I fall apart and rebuild in their arms. Someone unafraid of depth, intensity, and the shadows we carry. You’re equal parts dominant and divine, grounded and intuitive. You crave connection that burns through surface layers and touches soul.

You understand power exchange isn’t just play—it’s prayer when done right. You know what it means to nurture a little side without controlling it, to push limits without betraying trust. You’re sensual, creative, emotionally intelligent, and just a little wicked. You value honesty over comfort, presence over performance.

You might be:

A rigger who finds poetry in rope and stillness in surrender.

A caregiver-Dom who can hold softness in one hand and control in the other.

A lover of contrast—rough and gentle, primal and sacred.


Above all, you’re not looking to conquer me—you want to witness me, unwrap me, worship me, challenge me, and meet me in places words can’t touch

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Kalamazoo
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Thepromisedone
Looking for my forever girl

Hi. I'm looking for a mate who is genuine, kind, patient, and is naturally submissive. Somebody who's willing to give up control and is willing to be trained, molded, and is seeking guidance. I live a life of structure, discipline, order and respect. Also, I want a mate who shares my interest inside and outside the bedroom.

Kinky Date ● 25 to 35 years ● 25km around USA Natchez
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bigdom89
Control me right, and I’ll make obedience your fav

I’m craving someone who leads with confidence and listens with care. Dominant or switch — doesn’t matter, as long as you understand the rhythm of control, consent, and connection.

I’m into dynamics that build slowly, burn deeply, and respect boundaries without losing the filth. If your style includes mental foreplay, teasing discipline, rope, rough play, and solid aftercare — we’ll get along just fine.

Not here for cold commands, no-negotiation nonsense, or the “hi” brigade. If you know how to own a scene and treat a sub like a treasure and a toy? Let’s talk.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around UK South Lanarkshire
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brisbane10624
Looking for Real Chemistry & Filthy Fun Northside

Looking to meet confident, open-minded women or couples who love exploring kink with someone who knows how to listen, tease, and play with purpose.

I’m into D/s, voyeurism, slow-building tension, filthy talk, praise, and “rules” that are made to be broken. I love the dynamic of being invited in—watching her fall apart under his hands, or being the one to make her squirm while he watches. I’m not here to take over—I’m here to amplify what you already have.

If you’re into connection, playful control, and nights where we all leave aching and grinning, slide into my DMs but bring more than just “hey.”

Let’s make something hot happen.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around Australia Brisbane
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EricthePegged
Pegging Partner

Hi!

Looking for a Domme who is into pegging. Bonus points for bondage and ***.

Ideally seeking a dynmic. Connection is key. Someone who's chill outside of kink, but loves to be in control in kink. Nature and various nerdy stuff are my main interests. Metalhead, too. 🤟

BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 52 years ● 100km around USA Schaumburg
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HazeyMan
This is my first one aha

I would like to meet or talk or ft anyone around Leicester that has a big heart, comfortable to be around and who makes me happy, then in the bedroom I turn from an absolute gentleman to a beast within seconds, I actually love being a dom and barking orders and being in control (obvs safe words) so if your into being a sub to someone tall dark and mysterious then let me know

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Leicester
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sexcswitch
Need a dom to control me

Dom online to send photos to

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Crowley
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TheArchitect
Loving, tender little needed for Daddy

Are you a tender-hearted little who feels safest when someone else is in control? Do you long for a Daddy who gives you structure, praise, rules, and all the affection you secretly crave?

I’m a mature Daddy Dom — calm, confident, and consistent. I take care of what’s mine. If you’re a good girl, I’ll spoil you. If you’re a brat… well, I know just how to handle that too.

I want a little who:
🍼 Feels safest with rules, routines, and daily check-ins
🎀 Loves being called “good girl” (or punished when she’s not)
🍓 Has a stuffie collection, bedtime rituals, and a playful heart
💋 Wants real connection — not just play, but purpose

You’ll get from me:
👅 Firm but fair discipline
🫶 Warm aftercare, loving attention
📋 Daily structure and rituals tailored to you
❤️‍🔥 A Daddy who means it when he says, “You’re mine.”

If you’re ready to submit, surrender, and feel seen — send Daddy a message and tell me what kind of rules help you feel safe.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 26 years ● 125km around Canada Sutton West
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yourworstslaveandrei
I will obey and serve you

I am a submissive seeking to be dominated , I can be your slave however you want me to
My kinks are , , I like being bullied and I would obey everything you say, I really love feet and spit (I could worship your feet and spit all day), I wouldn’t mind being punished for being bad and etc
I would love to worship you and let you have control over me, I can do calls (also video if you do too) and text

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Romania Bacău
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Gooner139
Interested in hypnosis and mind control

Have you ever wondered,really wondered,what it feels like to become so relaxed and trusting that you give your mind willingly to be led into deep relaxing and enhanced levels of arousal and orgasm

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 175km around UK Southend-on-Sea
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kysub1982
Looking to be controlled

What I am looking for is someone to control what attire I wear (womens). I want to be required to send proof and at some point they would get stuff for me to wear or lock on. What do you get in return is unlimited use of me and to humiliate me. Looking for asap

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Cecilia
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