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In2DeepNow
Exploring Kinks

I’m a slightly geeky, quietly intense guy with a growing appetite for kink and a genuine drive to learn, experiment, and get better at the things that make pulse rates jump. I’m looking to connect with both newcomers dipping their toes into the world of kink and experienced players who enjoy teaching, sharing, or getting creative with someone eager, respectful, and open-minded.

What I’m into (and always expanding):

Power exchange dynamics

Impact (from teasing taps to deeper thuds)

Breathplay elements & controlled intensity

Sensation mixes

Roleplay with a darker, playful twist

Creative restraints

Exploration of the “dangerous underside” safely, consensually, and with clear communication

NSA ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around UK Dudley
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Alex095173
Looking for Obedient Subs to Explore & Play

I’m a confident, grounded Dom who enjoys leading with intention. I value trust, communication, and mutual desire control is earned, not taken. I enjoy teasing, testing limits with consent, and guiding a submissive who wants to explore safely and deeply. If you’re curious, open-minded, and value connection as much as power exchange, we’ll get along just fine.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 5km around Canada Etobicoke
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Shane6041
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I can be dominant and sub. When I am dominant, I like to take control and take what I want when I want if safe word isn't used. My favorite is to hold subs by their throat as I am cumming.so I can keep them still. I become aggressive when I am finally cumming.

Being submissive, I am a perfect little sub that'll be obedient and follow orders without argue. A perfect subject that'll lay a head on your lap to relax or sit and watch you do things until you require help. I always ask for permission just for the enlightenment of being told what I can or can't do unless told I don't need to ask.

Only thing I will not do is anything with bodily waste or gross fluids.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 20 to 38 years ● 50km around USA Salem
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GavinTee
Sub seeking Dom

I’m a loyal submissive boy looking to be owned. I love being degraded, humiliated, and losing all control. Let me be your good boy

Kinky Date ● 18 to 46 years ● 25km around USA Colorado Springs
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Joe_Rumble
Seeking experienced Dom/Mommy

I’m looking to be trained, educated, disciplined, and rewarded in the art of orgasum control by an experienced mommy type.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 115km around USA Bowling Green
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mastersadist70
This weekend

Looking for a straight woman. Sub/slave for some fun this weekend. Prefer someone who leans more towards the slave side where I like to have complete control. Hit me up if your interested.

BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 55 years ● 210km around USA Nobleboro
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Mist52
Need to give up control for the first time

I would like to meet a caring and patient person who doesn’t mind someone with no experience that will show and teach me everything I don’t know:)

Kinky Date ● 18 to 26 years ● 120km around UK South Ayrshire
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TwinkInABearSuit
Obedient sub seeking control & structure

Looking for someone who wants to be worshipped properly, obeyed, listened to, and pleased with slow, undivided attention. Your comfort, your pleasure, your rules.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around Australia Mosman
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bumblebrutis
Any older women wanna own me?

Been a dream since I was young to be controlled by a dominant women

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around USA New Castle
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abcdom
Slutty sub seeking owner

Looking to completely give up control to someone out there.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
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TomWhttt
Come Willing. Leave Owned

Seeking One to Train

I am not looking for someone already shaped. I’m interested in the woman who knows she has more in her — the one who feels the pull of surrender but hasn’t yet found someone she can trust to guide it.

If you are undisciplined but willing.
If you crave direction, structure, and the steady weight of someone who leads.
If you understand that obedience is not weakness, but a choice of clarity — then you may be the one I train.

I value:
• Emotional maturity
• Accountability
• Desire for growth
• The ability to listen and respond, not perform

This is not for the casual, the curious, or the chaotic.
This is for a woman who wants to be shaped, not entertained.

You will learn:
• How to hold your place
• How to express desire without losing control to it
• How to serve without losing your identity, but instead deepening it

You do not need to be ready.
You only need to be willing.

If you recognise yourself in this, introduce yourself properly:
Age, location, experience (if any), and what draws you to being a pet.

I’ll decide the rest.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 53 years ● 270km around UK Bristol
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Benjaminsibmits
I’ll submit if you can make me

A strong dominant woman who wants to control me but also a genuine relationship

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 25km around USA Hollywood
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BigDJayy
Birthday Fun

Looking for someone to come over and celebrate my bday today!!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Conroe
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switchingbuttplug
Looking to be dominated

New to the scene and want someone to take control

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around USA Paoli
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Kajirus
Looking for Dominatrix

I’m looking to connect with someone who understands the depth and intensity that comes with genuine power exchange. Someone who enjoys taking control — not just in action, but in presence, confidence, and energy.

I value guidance, structure, and clear boundaries. The idea of giving up control to someone who knows how to lead with intention and awareness deeply resonates with me. I’m drawn to dynamics where trust, respect, and communication are at the core — where both sides can explore freely without judgment or pressure.

I’m seeking something meaningful, not rushed — a connection that evolves naturally into mutual understanding and balanced dominance and submission.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 70 years ● 150km around UK Warrington
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reccemk
I want to be submissive/ also into controlling I h

I’m new to this, I’ve always dreamed of being submissive and doing whatever my mistress asks me to do, unfortunately near came across some to fulfill my dream, on the other hand I’ve always wanted to fully dominate and be in control of every little move that my girl does, I want to try and experience both! If I sound like your type of guy msg me, I’m a fast learner!

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Reading
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skordaddy69
Nsa

I want someone who wants to be controlled in everyway someone willing to submit wants to be cared for wants to submit there body

NSA ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Mackinaw City
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It’s my birthday

11/08 is my birthday , help me celebrate with some fun and adventurous activities!!!!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Orlando
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Fir,hung,clean,safe,goodman,naughty boy

Let’s go! Somethings are beyond words but the mind devours our self control in order to enjoy the moment with another

Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 105km around Canada Burnaby
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