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Quiet Control. Patient Tension.

I’m interested in someone curious, self-aware, and unhurried. Someone who appreciates subtle power, emotional safety, and tension that builds rather than explodes.
You don’t need to be loud to be interesting—you notice moments, pauses, and presence. You’re open to being guided by someone calm enough to wait and attentive enough to listen.
If psychological connection, trust, and deliberate pacing matter to you, we’ll likely understand each other.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 30 to 45 years ● 35km around USA Coventry
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Churley
Say What You Want—Then Show Me

I’m not here to play innocent, and I’m definitely not here for boring.
I like desire that’s spoken out loud, boundaries that are clear, and tension you can feel before a single touch happens. I flirt with intent. I tease on purpose.
I’m comfortable with craving, and turned on by mutual hunger. I appreciate control, surrender, and the delicious space where power shifts back and forth.
If you’re curious, open-minded, and not afraid of wanting more than “just chatting,” we’ll probably get along dangerously well. I’m not promising anything—but I am inviting you to find out.
Message me if you: • like tension that borders on reckless
• enjoy direct words and lingering thoughts
• want someone who knows what they’re doing—and why
Fair warning: once the spark hits, I don’t do half-measures.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 35km around USA Joplin
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new-york44658
dominant and unapologetically kinky

I am kinky confident and naturally dominant. I love submissive energy and mutual chemistry built on trust and desire. If you enjoy giving control and know what you want we will probably get along very well

Kinky Date ● 21 to 35 years ● 5km around USA New York
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MNGamer123
Chastity

Looking for long term key holder! Honest fun strict app controlled via QIUI

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 225km around USA Saint Cloud
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fort-worth44009
Need a sub to use

Looking for cyber fun to exchange pics videos and control you . What you wear what you send me and how to touch yourself . I’m a pleasure dom that loves to hear your moans in every way. If you have Snapchat even better message me and let’s starts our journey

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Fort Worth
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playwithme121
Slave needed

I am seeking a slave who wants to submit, serve and obey. A slave who needs to be controlled, punished, praised and rewarded.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 500km around UK Manchester
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hastings357370
Looking for a dominant goddess

Hey guys looking for a femdom someone to take control that’s into edging ballbusting cbt orgasm control and much more I don’t really have any limits

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Australia Goranba
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geoxtc
In need of a BaeCation for the new year

ISO single female or lesbian couple looking to add some spice to their holiday season. I’d love to take care you orally before moving on. Looking for multiple rounds so please have a high sex drive and enough stamina to stay in the game. I enjoy choking, hair pulling, power control, cnc, breeding and overall hot passionate sex as well as other kinks on my profile. If this sounds like something you’d be interested in experiencing then please reach out I’ll be in touch with you shortly. I’m a small business owner so I am a busy guy but I’ll make time for this. I need it as much as you want it.

NSA ● 18 to 61 years ● Colette New Orleans in USA Mount Pleasant
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daphne62254
Looking for slave/sub

Are you ready to do as I say? Let’s get started, I will let you set your limits but other than that I am in control. You will do as I say when I say it.

NSA ● 18 to 35 years ● 475km around USA Tuscaloosa
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Jake010284
I’m 18 (m4f) I need someone to be in control of me

Need a mommy to share pics with and someone that will tell me exactly what they want

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Minot
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Deeovereaat
Fun

Desire is easy. Control is earned.
I’m selective, grounded, and attentive to boundaries. I enjoy women who are bold about what they want and comfortable letting someone set the pace.
If that balance excites you, comment or message.

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ogdenson
Dom | Structured Power | Retro Domestic Fantasy

I’m a Dom drawn to order, authority, and deliberate imbalance.
Mid-century domestic aesthetics (house dresses, aprons) paired with negotiated discipline and clear expectations.

I explore consensual gender-role and *** fantasies as roleplay only. This is about power, ritual, and control within agreed boundaries… not real-world beliefs.

I’m interested in a submissive partner who understands layered dynamics:
submissive with me, dominant with women, capable of confidence, discretion, and clear communication. Everyone involved is informed, consenting, and adult.

I value patience, vetting, and negotiation.
I’m not impulsive. I’m intentional.

If you understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and you’re drawn to structured power done thoughtfully, we may align.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 160km around USA Ogden
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Andrew1313
Remote control bullet

Someone who loves being pleasured in public

Kinky Date ● 31 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Universal City
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MasterBigfoot
Looking for a playmate/ practice partner

I'm looking for someone who wants to be tied up so I can work on some of my shibari practice. Let me know if this interests you. I enjoy controlling orgasms blindfolds, gags, hoods, bondage, obedience, etc. This can go as far as you want it to or not. Just let me know what you want

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Los Angeles
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lexington40643
First time meeting

I would love for any woman who would l enjoy a disabled mate they can easily take control.


Interested woman need only reply asking for my 📲

Kinky Date ● 18 to 45 years ● 25km around USA Gaston
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dannygaertner
Ladies take control of a manly man

I want a strong and caring woman to make me submit and let me worship her. I need tenderness yet firmness and all things in between. In exchange I’ll worship the ground you walk on and you from your feet to the hair on your head

Kinky Date ● 20 to 52 years ● 60km around Australia Lake Haven
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LittleDeviousDilly
Someone control me!!!

I’m an extremely nasty needy little slut that’s kinda new to all this kinky stuff, does any dominant mommy want a big messy sub little to control or tend to🤭. I’m looking for a long term relationship but hookups are always welcome!!

Kinky Date ● 20 to 37 years ● 470km around USA Eagle
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canton11826
CNC NE Ohio and Columbus

Calm, controlled Dom seeking an adult submissive for negotiated CNC and ***d roleplay fantasies.

Consent is discussed in advance. Limits are explicit. Safewords are real. Aftercare is mandatory.
Beginners welcome and guided with patience and structure.

I lead quietly and firmly. The darkness works because you know you are safe to let go.
Sessions or ongoing.

Message only if you understand that CNC is built on trust, communication, and accountability.

NSA ● 18 to 52 years ● 165km around USA Akron
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Ethan0411
Sissy baby looking for nanny

Hey I’m a relatively new sissy abdl, I am looking for a woman who wants to take full control over me for a set time keep me in diapers and dresses, as well as bottle feed or breast feed me. Open for punishment/anything you want

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 37 years ● 250km around USA Lake Park
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SubMarky
Looking for a online or irl dominant woman

Want to find someone who is not afraid to take control and use me to their own desires and pleasures. Degrade me, cuck me, humiliate me, etc. But want someone as serious about the dynamic as I am.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Denver
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SubMarky
Looking for a online or irl dominant woman

Looking for someone not afraid to take control. Degrade me, cuck me, use me to your desires

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Denver
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