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Louieee07
Ready,?

“Dominant. Calm. In control. Looking for a woman who knows she wants to submit and isn’t afraid to explore it fully. If you’re ready for something raw, real, and intense — reach out.”

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 20km around USA Buffalo
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jsa1955
Seeking a sub near flint,mi

IF your submissive and need to be spanked and restrained regularly as well as knowing how to give up control in bed contact me. I will treat you with love and give you the discipline you have been seeking.

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YELRAH
Hi am looking for a domme

Hello, Fellow Kinksters,
A little about me: I am 6'4" with a somewhat toned build, and I have red hair. I am also a very hard worker and a quick problem solver who strives to learn new methodologies for each subject I explore or new concept I encounter. My hobbies include chess, hiking (the harder the hike, the better), anime, and going to the gym.

A small biography: I got into BDSM at a very young age due to certain events. From then on, it has become an increasingly integral part of who I am. I just really love the idea of a woman having complete control over my body and even degrading me. The kinkier, the better—that’s how I see it. The very idea of a beautiful lady who has full control over me gets me super excited! I love surprises and not knowing what will happen during a session. I also enjoy taking a lady on a lovely date to a place she would never expect—surprises always seem to work out best.
I'm looking for a mistress/mommy who would be interested in letting me serve them or starting a relationship with me. I am quite experienced in BDSM, so I would prefer someone with experience, though inexperience is also welcome.

Thank you for considering my ad.
Yours Truly, YELRAH

BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around Australia North Booval
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Sam095
Never been dominated..

Looking for a woman to show me what I’ve been missing.

I want to give up control, or have it taken. To feel your authority, to submit to it.

Break me down, or build me up. Either way, just take me.

NSA ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Aurora
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yourworstslaveandrei
sub looking for a dom

I am a submissive seeking to be dominated, I can be your slave however you want me to
My kinks are , , I like being bullied and I would obey everything you say, I really love feet and spit (I could worship your feet and spit all day), I wouldn’t mind being punished for being bad,etc
I would love to find someone that wants to make me their slave and be in control of me, I also can’t do ***

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versatile_vows
Birthday

Anybody down to chat? Take it from there? My birthday is this weekend, and I’m tryna have some fun!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 155km around USA Carlsbad
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polo203279
Birthday fun

Haha it's my birthday any gals wanna get together and have some fun????

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Polo
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Newark NJ

I would love to meet a woman who wants to control all aspects of our relationship and my life.

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20mdatesandfun1234
20m switch looking for femdom

As I had to be the dom in most my relationships I could never be the submissive one always wanted to let someone take control instead I'm into many kinks like bondage,toy play,dildos,gags lots of different things I've been dying to try with someone if your looking for a d/s relationship or short term fun would love to chat and see how it goes x

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JayCee91
Seeking Trans

So I'm very new to this community and I'm looking for a trans woman (yes that's correct) to meet me and show me the ropes. I am dominant, I love control, but I also want to see what the other side is like. Preferably within driving distance. Will travel.

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KinkyStew
Birthday fun

Anyone like to take a subby guy for a spin on their birthday? hmu if I look like we could have some fun xD

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Portland
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Sub1668
🖤 New & Eager Submissive Seeking True Domme 🖤

I'm a naturally submissive male with no experience but a deep craving for strict, real female control.
I’m aroused by slapping, spitting, verbal , and mental domination.

I’m not here for
or scammers — only for a genuine Domme who enjoys training, owning, and using an obedient sub from scratch.

Ready to learn, obey, and be molded.
Make me yours — mind, body, and soul.

🔒 Your property in the making. DMs open. 🔒

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RobsJoint
Read this with your thighs clenched…

I’m the Daddy who ties you up, holds you still, and makes you come harder than you thought you could — then does it again because I decide when it ends.

If you’re aching to give up control to someone who actually knows how to use it, tell me your favourite way to be taken.

Don’t lurk. Don’t fantasise. Message me — and show me you’re ready.

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Mike19176
Looking for a dom

Sub here looking to give full control of my life
to a dom, I don't want any control of anything
want to have for permission for everything..

KISSES YOUR FEET hope to speak to you

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AdamAndBrett3Ways
Looking for women 27+ who like young fresh fit coc

I’m newly 18, which means I’m legal and ready for some cougars. I can be your slave/subboy or take control and fuck you as hard as I can. I prefer women in the LA or SoCal area, but online works too.

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mono9899
Female slave

Hi there what's up? I am a master who is looking for sub/slave who is loyal, obedient and willing to explore more and be trained to be a good girl for me, that's why I am looking for something long-term though. I am into total power exchange, , , sadism, wax play, and orgasm control and denial and overstimulation

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around Algeria Mohammadia
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Snathaniel26
Looking for the Brat Who Wants to Be Broken Sweetl

Soft dom with a filthy mouth, calm hands, and a rope kink I’m not trying to shake. I’m a switch who leans dominant — not here to control you with ***, but to ruin you with patience, pressure, and pleasure.

I’m looking for a brat with fire behind her eyes and softness beneath the surface. Someone who talks back just to be pinned down and teased for hours. Rope bunnies, praise addicts, service subs — if you’re curious, confident, and crave both connection and correction, you’ll feel at home here.

Expect overstimulation, denial, whispered instructions, and the kind of aftercare that hits harder than the scene. You keep the attitude — I’ll keep the rope tight.

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Hunter320
Control

Any girl just want to take control and make masturbait until I’m empty and sore

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Lockmeup-9016
I give up control

I want to meet a woman that is willing to take control of me and have care at the same time. I’m a blank canvas mold me into your perfect submissive.

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ObedientAnthony23
Opening myself up a little bit, looking for a domm

I’m looking for someone to take complete control and have their way with me. I’m an obedient slave that’s open for a laundry list of kinks. If that’s something you might be interested in please let me know I’d love to get to know you more.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Fords
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lucifer12
Daddy dom

Dom here, craving something casual and unapologetically wild. Into CNC, BDSM, DDLG, and dominating — the kinkier, the better. I love pushing boundaries, exploring taboo, and taking control.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Belfast
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Marsloves
23 | Fit | Dominant by Nature, Respectful by Choic

Looking for a submissive woman who knows what she wants—or wants to find out. I'm 23, in shape, confident, and ready to meet someone who's curious, eager to explore, and values trust as much as thrill.

I’m not here for games unless we both agree on the rules. I’m into building real chemistry first, then seeing how deep the rabbit hole goes—control, restraint, play, and pushing boundaries (safely, of course). Experimentation welcome, limits respected.

If you’re someone who wants to let go when you trust the grip, message me.

Kinky Date ● 20 to 33 years ● 130km around USA Colorado Springs
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lonelymale1975
Dominant Male in NY Seeking Submissive or Slave

50-year-old Dominant based on Long Island, NY. Chubby, assertive, experienced, and craving something real. I’m looking for a submissive or slave — female, plus-sized, obedient, and eager to serve.

You should crave control, ritual, structure, and the chance to fully surrender. I don’t want a brat playing games — I want a woman who aches to kneel, listen, serve, and be used with purpose.

I'm open to various dynamics — domestic servitude, sexual obedience, , body worship, discipline, training, and total power exchange (TPE) — depending on chemistry and compatibility. My style is firm, verbal, protective, and strict. I love ritual, obedience, and when it’s earned and deserved.

Bonus if you're a BBW or SSBBW. I have a deep love for curves, thick thighs, and soft flesh begging to be marked.

I offer structure, aftercare, clarity, and consistent use. I expect obedience, loyalty, and honesty in return.

Available for ongoing in-person connection — evenings or weekends. Local is best (Nassau/Suffolk). Let’s talk limits, desires, and what true submission means to you.

If you’ve been waiting to be claimed, used, and molded — I might be the one you’ve been needing.

BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 60 years ● 10km around USA Copiague
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lake-charles99152
t a thread on FetLife titled: “I need someone who

didn’t lock myself up. I want someone who will smile, take the key, and leave me aching. I’m obedient, eager, and very much in need of someone who loves mind games and control. If you’re wicked enough to trick me into it… you might just own me.”

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Lake Charles
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