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SirAffection
Dominant’s Code Of Conduct

This is essentially what I live by as a Dominant so if you are looking to play with someone different please feel free to get in Contact with me any submissives

A DOMINANT’S CODE OF CONDUCT

Your Role
• Lead with clarity
• Discipline with purpose
• Protect their body, privacy, emotions, and boundaries
• Stay consistent—your word is law only if you keep it
• Maintain your own stability (sleep, mental health, routine, fitness)

Your Behaviour Standards
• Never punish from anger
• Never manipulate through guilt or ***
• Speak firmly but calmly
• Always check in after intense play or arguments
• Respect safe words
• Respect their autonomy outside the dynamic
• Be honest and transparent about expectations and intentions
• Keep confidentiality—everything shared stays protected

Your Dominance Principles
• Structure over chaos
• Guidance over control
• Confidence over ego
• Intentional discipline over impulsive reactions
• Ownership earned through trust, not intimidation

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 495km around Australia Southbank
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newsub36882
In chastity, plugged up, in need of a mistress

I desperately want a domme to control me, tell me what to do

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around UK Oxford
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OneEyedRambler
Let’s see who teases who first

Let’s be honest, I’m here because I like trouble.
The fun kind.
The kind that starts with a smirk and ends with, “oh… we probably shouldn’t, but we absolutely are.”

I’m a switch, which basically means I enjoy seeing how you react.
Do you blush when I flirt with you?
Do you smirk back?
Do you take control… or make me want to?

I’m looking for no pressure fun, lots of teasing, lots of curiosity, and someone who enjoys that slow build where we’re both pretending we’re not thinking about the exact same thing.
If it turns into something long term because we can’t stop thinking about each other?
Well… that’s a pretty great problem to have.

A few things I love:
• That playful “are you challenging me?” energy
• Flirty banter that gets a little too close
• Trying new kinks and seeing what buttons we push
• Cuddling that starts innocent and absolutely does not stay that way
• That delicious moment where neither of us wants to break the tension

I’m not here to rush anything… I just want to meet someone who can keep up, tease back, and lean into the chemistry instead of running from it.

If you like a little push and pull…
if you like someone who can switch from sweet to wicked with one look…
then you should probably message me.

Don’t worry… I’ll behave.
(At least until you convince me not to.)

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 495km around USA Spencer
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papi977
Service subs

I need a good obedient girl who enjoys following instructions and being told what to say and do, no matter how dirty or degrading it is.

I want to make you feel like you can shut off your brain with me, let me take control, and let me take you to new dark places within yourself, places you never knew you would love so much.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Long Beach
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roccit585
Bday fun

Today is my birthday! Would love to find someone new to talk to or spoil, love to spoil a girl who would be down to model for me.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Greece
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Splash3x
Good girls

I don’t chase bodies, I command minds.
Intelligence is my aphrodisiac, wit my battlefield, and control my art.
If you crave a presence that challenges, sharpens, and dominates with precision,
step closer… but only if you’re ready to surrender your thoughts before your flesh

BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around USA Dallas
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TasheemDaDream
Long term dom relationship

I have no prior experience so you can mold me exactly to your liking. I am looking for a long term relationship that asserts control and takes what she wants when she wants it. Gives me orders and calls me a good boy, showering me with praise and affection. I am a big boy, so you can get a little rough(i can take it). I can also offer up some resistance if you're looking for some primal prey(i love cnc). I want to be your perfect good boy that earns your praise. No experience Doms are welcome as well.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 30 years ● 200km around USA Mount Holly
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jayden__fn
Sub seeking female Dom

I’d do anything for you, and I’d submit fully, take control and use me how you please

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Whitby
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roccit585
Dates

Have a week off of work for my birthday,, looking to travel or chat with new people. Tell me a funny story or a crazy kink of yours! I'd love to get to know new people or possibly make new friends or more. Open to whatever comes my way, also if you got this far I hope you have a phenomenal day!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Greece
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spankerprince
Letting go control

Through this practice — through presence, discipline, and the depth of my dominance —
I awaken what lies beneath your layers.
Everything you do to control yourself and others —
the strategies, the tension, the carefully managed behavior —
I dissolve progressively and relentlessly, one layer at a time.

Steadily and deliberately,
I guide you into that space where you no longer need the roles that once protected you,
where the pretending dissolves,
and your true self steps forward —
open, ***, unfiltered.

And when your eyes meet mine in that moment,
I see something rare:
your essence calling to mine,
your vulnerability reflecting my own.

From that truth,
I gather you with tenderness,
hold you,
and protect the part of you
that is finally free to breathe.

The submissive identity fades,
and the princess emerges.

Now I know who you are.
And you know who I am.

Our connection lives beyond dominance and submission.
It lives in the recognition of two beings
who meet without masks.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 495km around Greece Raches
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spankerprince
Letting go control

Through this practice — through presence, discipline, and the depth of my dominance —
I awaken what lies beneath your layers.
Everything you do to control yourself and others —
the strategies, the tension, the carefully managed behavior —
I dissolve progressively and relentlessly, one layer at a time.

Steadily and deliberately,
I guide you into that space where you no longer need the roles that once protected you,
where the pretending dissolves,
and your true self steps forward —
open, ***, unfiltered.

And when your eyes meet mine in that moment,
I see something rare:
your essence calling to mine,
your vulnerability reflecting my own.

From that truth,
I gather you with tenderness,
hold you,
and protect the part of you
that is finally free to breathe.

The submissive identity fades,
and the princess emerges.

Now I know who you are.
And you know who I am.

Our connection lives beyond dominance and submission.
It lives in the recognition of two beings
who meet without masks.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 495km around Greece Raches
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puyallup92521
Sub looking to be controlled

Would like to meet somebody just to use me as their toy , I’m open

BDSM Play Partner ● 39 to 58 years ● 40km around USA Puyallup
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Mighv
Use me

Hi i am looking for an online domme would u be interested? Please i would love to please u Joi sph edge orgasm control kinks Limits are vomit i cant pay since i am student
Please i would be a good bitch

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Miami
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cj9969
In search of the exquisite balance between *** an

Females who enjoy dynamic, intense, and often sensation-heavy BDSM play, and who appreciate the controlled exploration of and euphoria.

Established partnerships who are looking to add a third person into their dynamic, where the interaction will involve elements of
and pleasure.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around UK Newby Wiske
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Rood17
I want to learn how to love and worship

I'm looking for a dominant woman to take control of my life. Even if it's a shorter term relationship, I just want to experience what it's like to love someone. I lived a very boring and hermit lifestyle for way too long and I'm looking for a purpose to make someone happy in any way I can. I want to indulge in their hobbies and fantasies and find something fun to do with them both inside and outside of the bedroom. I consider myself submissive at heart and look forward to learning how I can fulfill your dreams by becoming your perfect, emotionally caring, and romantic little slut.

Kinky Date ● 20 to 36 years ● 60km around USA Gig Harbor
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BigboyKk
Time of our lives

Make me do wtv you want or give me full control or do both 😛 I would love an older woman but im craving anything rn. Let me help you feel 20 again. Creativity and experience are very important.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Orlando
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bohnock64137
Full time bdsm submissive looking for controlling

Full time bdsm submissive looking for controlling mistress or master.
I just finished school and now looking for a place to live 24/7 and served. I'm willing to do anything and lose all control permanently.
My name is Josh and I'm fit and healthy.
I am willing to lose all control permanently , I will do anything in restraints or tight or sexy wear , I love to do house work from serving guests or you , cooking and cleaning, outdoor labour, sleep and be locked up for hour

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 60 years ● 500km around Australia Tugun
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boundbih
Looking for someone to control

I want to ignite a flame in your chest with my touch. Control you with a look. And conquer you with a command. Be my pet for a night. I’ll award your courage and obedience with passion and desire. Brats, Sissies, and puppies please come to the front.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 240km around USA Saint George
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InsatiableDom
Kinks n Fetishes

Hi I’m a fit confident Dom, who loves taking control once you’re ready for me to do so. Just spread, sprinkle or pour your imagination all over me. Tell me your limits, I’ll handle your sub kink or fetish. Whether you’re a newb or thrusting into your inner kink or fetish, I will do it your liking, may it be done well. So you can come again.

NSA ● 18 to 57 years ● 360km around Australia Sydney
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bloppingit
Virgin never been squirted on

Title says it all I want to know the taste of it also I want to get controlled

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around Canada Campbell River
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CuriousAboutBdsm1
Help me celebrate my birthday!

I would really like to explore swinging and bdsm. I would (preferably) like to have two or more women for my birthday to maybe shake me loose from my shell. I am definitely not averse to another man being there, as long as we don't interact. I am curious about bdsm. I would preferably find a woman that likes to be degraded, but that is not a must. Please help me celebrate my birthday. I cannot host at this time.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 64 years ● 490km around USA Huntsville
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