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Gohan28
Birthday

Someone for chat, its my birthday

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Caerus80
Discrete Exploration

I’m looking to explore new kinks and fetishes. Without boring details, I’ve always hit a wall in relationships trying to introduce new play. I’m breaking free from a cycle where things were tightly controlled, so I’m not looking for being dominated or degraded. Primal sounds good. I could use an experienced woman to learn from. Even simple risky location or exhibitionism would be fine. Just something new.

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clarksville474246
Don't make me beg .......

I would love to find a dom female who enjoys being worshipped and gets excited about taking complete control to the point she wants to peg while forcing my face into the sheets to make me hers...

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 69 years ● 85km around USA Bowling Green
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Looking for mistress

Looking for someone to take full control into me being a slave, or key holder. Willing to do what needs to be done to prove my worth

NSA ● 18 to 34 years ● 80km around USA Apple Valley
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bend472877
Let me watch you orgasm in public

Looking for a good girl who is obedient who will let me control her in public setting. I get to hold the remote while you go about your day outside going grocery shopping, going to the salon, you name it.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 48 years ● 500km around USA Bend
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MadeByShaye
It’s time

Confident Dominant seeking a partner who craves structure, direction, and intentional control. I lead calmly, clearly, and with purpose. If you want discipline, edge, and real connection built on consent and trust—step forward and tell me what you’re ready to surrender.

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Sylensius
Accepting female slave applications, online

Must have daddy issues, willing to take orders, give up control over your own pleasure, enjoy being degraded/praised and always looking to please. We can discuss specifics if you strike my interest.

NSA ● 18 to 34 years ● 500km around USA Aiea
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massiveencounter88
Is it did I like the IKEA of a girl not being fait

Lately I’ve been very unsure how to feel about my new new turtle my imagination as marrying, loving having kids with this woman so much. With my strange king, I want her tossed between people before me. I’ve never really had fantasies about with two girls and stuff like that. I have had dreams with the guys what Work was going to town on my life now. Keep in mind I’m single and have been for five years, but I’m looking all around where I can find somebody doesn’t wanna be faithful now would require me to stay faithful. I would no big deal. This is what I want. It’s that I don’t quite understand. Just like earlier man coming inside of a a wife without birth control can anybody tell me where to find a girl like this because believe me I’ve gone through some searching in dark places

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Kannapolis
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Chappy-6055
Unleas Your Desire. Embrace Control

I'm looking for a grounded, intentional, and captivating. Someone who naturally commands attention through their energy. I'm someone who brings a lot of warmth and depth into the connections i make. I'm naturally charismatic, but i also have that quiet, observant side that makes people feel seen and understood and i pay attention to the little details.

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PlumberGuy82
Tomorrow is my birthday. Any northeast Georgia lad

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Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around USA Bowersville
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WillyG0420
Looking for fun and a mistress.

I’m looking for a female who thinks they can control me. I’m looking for someone who will take control and make me there bitch!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 55 years ● 50km around Canada Valemount
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youfeelingknotty
Id like to be used and ***d by multiple women.

I have always liked the videos of multiple women being ***istic on one man. I like that they feed off each other energy and push each other further.
Normally, I am very dominant and in control, but for once, I want to be used like a toy.

Do any women have experience or interest in brutalizeling and abusing a man for your own desires?

NSA ● 18 to 40 years ● 85km around USA Neenah
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Poseidon8
Daddy Dom Searches for Dynamic Partner

I’m a confident Daddy Dom looking for a woman who gets that delicious pull between obedience and mischief. Someone who loves surrendering to a firm but playful hand—and enjoys pushing just enough to earn the kind of attention she’s craving.

My dynamic leans into power exchange, outfit control, permission structures, protocol, and the slow burn of anticipation. I like shaping the rhythm between us: when you tease, when you wait, when you melt. I want a partner who enjoys being guided, claimed in a way that feels safe, and encouraged toward her better—yet more wicked—self.

I’m also building my skills with ropes, and I’m looking for a partner who’s excited to explore that with me. Someone curious, responsive, and willing to learn each other's patterns and reactions as we go.

I’m after a hybrid dynamic—real connection with a charge underneath it, where we can laugh, flirt, negotiate, and still have that unmistakable shift in energy when roles fall into place.

If you’re a woman who craves structure, thrives on playfulness, and loves knowing exactly who’s in control when the moment calls for it, message me.
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Biscuits_lightfoot
M4F lady to eat out til shaking

Honestly it's been a while since I've had the pleasure to eat a pleasant woman out to the point of her colvulsing. Seeing as it's one of my favorite activities on the planet to perform I would very much like to change this fact of my current predicament. I can host and have a service dog that is SUPER sweet. Can be a one time thing or repeat activity. You can control the situation from the dom sub dynamic however you like. There are a couple of photos on my profile so if you have any interest feel free to DM me ladies ^_^. I appreciate the consideration!!!

Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 200km around USA Baton Rouge
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Bored controller

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Alex0982
New here and ready to misbehave

Just landed on FetLife and already craving the kind of energy that hits hard, lingers long, and leaves us both wanting more.
I’m here for kink, heat, tension, and unapologetic desire—the kind you feel in your body before you even process it. 😈

I’m into exploring fantasies, power dynamics, and that electric pull when two people click. Whether it’s teasing that gets a little torturous 😏, surrender that feels delicious, or control that makes your breath catch… I’m down to build something that hits exactly where we need it.

I like partners who communicate, negotiate, and then let things get beautifully messy once the consent is locked in. If you want someone who’s hungry, curious, and ready to play when the chemistry hits? You’re speaking my language. 🔗🔥

If you’re itching for trouble, or just want to see what kind of tension we can stir up… slide into my DMs.
Let’s build something wicked together. 😈

Kinky Date ● 21 to 37 years ● 80km around USA Goodyear
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anvilman89
Looking for long term fwb

I’m looking for a partner or fwb, slave, or sub, man or woman or a couple. Prefer local don’t bother if you’re not within 30 min give or take, preferably and primarily looking for someone that I can be myself with, hang out and do normal things like watch movies, play video games, be creative. And also have time when we want to play, which my availability is pretty open!

One thing I really appreciate and want to practice is rope, but I’d like a sub or even a slave, I am more of a pleasure dom, that being said I like giving punishment if you want it, I like being in control if that’s what you like also, I enjoy giving impact, and zappy toys, edging, cbt, much much more.

Communication is key, as well as connection we must have both, tell me your interests, hobbies, turn ons.

Let’s meet for coffee and chat, see how we get along!

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Oakendom
Online play toy

Im a Dom looking for a switch or just a curious lady that wants to control a mans pleasure. Im looking for somebody that wants to edge, control and give JOI to control/deny an orgasm.

Will happily accomodate older ladies that like or want to experience taking charge of a younger man😈

Giving up control of my pleasure.... make me beg!

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austin70503
Just looking for birthday fun

Turning a year older and looking to get some from someone anonymous. No strings. Just good old fashion safe fun. Two girls would be great but really not that picky. Only girls need apply.

NSA ● 18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Austin
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PussyDevourer
LICKaLotAPuss

Want sumone to cum sit on my face and
Explode all down my gullet,as I make u shake uncontrollably with Multiple Orgasms at once. AND if. It's not as good as advertised then lock them thighs around my Head n take control n show me how to do it!!!

Munch Buddy ● 20 to 50 years ● 100km around USA Old Town
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basedworld
Looking for femdom play and exploration <3

It’s my duty to serve, and I’m looking for a confident and dominant woman who will allow me to do just that. I want to give up control to you. I am attentive, willing, obedient, and focused on you. Let me know what kind of dynamic you enjoy and I’ll show you just how eager I am to please! ;)

If you think I’d look cute serving you, please let me know, all I wanna do is be your good boy
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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 35km around USA Northridge
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Looking for a tasty dom

Soft dom, that loves to take control. Bonus points for trimmed bush

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 45 years ● 25km around USA New York
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