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Sissy slut

Dying to be used and controlled as a sissy slut. Need to please.

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Canton
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In2DeepNow
Exploring Kinks

I’m a slightly geeky, quietly intense guy with a growing appetite for kink and a genuine drive to learn, experiment, and get better at the things that make pulse rates jump. I’m looking to connect with both newcomers dipping their toes into the world of kink and experienced players who enjoy teaching, sharing, or getting creative with someone eager, respectful, and open-minded.

What I’m into (and always expanding):

Power exchange dynamics

Impact (from teasing taps to deeper thuds)

Breathplay elements & controlled intensity

Sensation mixes

Roleplay with a darker, playful twist

Creative restraints

Exploration of the “dangerous underside” safely, consensually, and with clear communication

NSA ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around UK Dudley
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Alex095173
Looking for Obedient Subs to Explore & Play

I take control and guide those who dare to submit. I love teasing, testing limits, and seeing just how far you’ll go to please me. Only those ready to follow, obey, and surrender fully need apply

Do you think you can handle the challenge? Can you earn my attention… and maybe a little more? I reward obedience and punish hesitation.

If you’re daring, curious, and ready to be led… message me.
Your next lesson begins the moment you do

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 5km around Canada Etobicoke
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Shane6041
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I can be dominant and sub. When I am dominant, I like to take control and take what I want when I want if safe word isn't used. My favorite is to hold subs by their throat as I am cumming.so I can keep them still. I become aggressive when I am finally cumming.

Being submissive, I am a perfect little sub that'll be obedient and follow orders without argue. A perfect subject that'll lay a head on your lap to relax or sit and watch you do things until you require help. I always ask for permission just for the enlightenment of being told what I can or can't do unless told I don't need to ask.

Only thing I will not do is anything with bodily waste or gross fluids.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 20 to 38 years ● 50km around USA Salem
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Lovense play? I just put my big Hush 2 plug 😜

Anyone want to Control each others toys? Or you can just control mine, and watch me 💦 for you live without even touching my 🍆
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NSA ● 18 to 78 years ● 500km around USA Henrico
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Gavinissubby
Sub seeking Dom

I’m a loyal submissive boy looking to be owned. I love being degraded, humiliated, and losing all control. Let me be your good boy

Kinky Date ● 18 to 46 years ● 25km around USA Colorado Springs
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mastersadist70
This weekend

Looking for a straight woman. Sub/slave for some fun this weekend. Prefer someone who leans more towards the slave side where I like to have complete control. Can't me up if your interested. Maine only.

BDSM Play Partner ● 34 to 55 years ● 165km around USA Nobleboro
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Mist52
Need to give up control for the first time

I would like to meet a caring and patient person who doesn’t mind someone with no experience that will show and teach me everything I don’t know:)

Kinky Date ● 18 to 26 years ● 120km around UK South Ayrshire
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TwinkInABearSuit
Obedient sub seeking control & structure

Looking for someone who wants to be worshipped properly, obeyed, listened to, and pleased with slow, undivided attention. Your comfort, your pleasure, your rules.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around Australia Mosman
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Looking for sex this weekend.

Looking to lose my first time during my birthday weekend. I can host at my place.

NSA ● 18 to 34 years ● 25km around USA Lancaster
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TasheemDaDream
Long term dom relationship

I have no prior experience so you can mold me exactly to your liking. I am looking for a long term girlfriend that asserts control and takes what she wants when she wants it. Gives me orders and calls me a good boy, showering me with praise and affection. I am a big boy, so you can get a little rough(i can take it). I can also offer up some resistance if you're looking for some brat/primal prey(i love cnc). I want to be your perfect good boy that earns your praise. No experience Doms are welcome as well.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 31 years ● 165km around USA Mount Holly
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AnxiousSub
show me a good time

looking for a dom or a switch wanting to explore their dominant side and take control of a sub

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Birth roll play

Powerful. Intense.. Contractions ripping through your body. You grip the sheets. Screaming. Aching. The overwhelming. The pleasure even more so. You need to push. You have to push. You need to get this out. You must get it out. Feel the burning. The stretching. The aching. The orgsm building. you hold it in. Let it build. Soon your body will you to push it out. But not yet. Right now we let it build. Powerful. Intense. Orgassmic

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Mentone
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bumblebrutis
Any older women wanna own me?

Been a dream since I was young to be controlled by a dominant women

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around USA New Castle
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CtrlandCrave
Indy Dom looking for slutty sub

I’m a Dominant in Indianapolis looking for a submissive partner to explore a D/s dynamic with. I enjoy bondage, impact play, sensation, control, and being in charge.

I love the idea of someone who enjoys being restrained, teased, used for pleasure, or turned into my “desk toy” while I work. If you like shibari, toys, orgasm control, or being turned into a beautiful, squirming bit of décor… we will get along.

Everything is consensual, negotiated, and safe. I value communication, boundaries, and aftercare, and I’m not into rushing anything. Chemistry matters.

If you’re kinky, curious, or experienced and want to explore something sensual, rough, or playful, message me with what you’re into and what you’re curious about.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 36 years ● 80km around USA Indianapolis
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abcdom
Slutty sub seeking owner

Looking to completely give up control to someone out there.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
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TomWhttt
Come Willing. Leave Owned

Seeking One to Train

I am not looking for someone already shaped. I’m interested in the woman who knows she has more in her — the one who feels the pull of surrender but hasn’t yet found someone she can trust to guide it.

If you are undisciplined but willing.
If you crave direction, structure, and the steady weight of someone who leads.
If you understand that obedience is not weakness, but a choice of clarity — then you may be the one I train.

I value:
• Emotional maturity
• Accountability
• Desire for growth
• The ability to listen and respond, not perform

This is not for the casual, the curious, or the chaotic.
This is for a woman who wants to be shaped, not entertained.

You will learn:
• How to hold your place
• How to express desire without losing control to it
• How to serve without losing your identity, but instead deepening it

You do not need to be ready.
You only need to be willing.

If you recognise yourself in this, introduce yourself properly:
Age, location, experience (if any), and what draws you to being a pet.

I’ll decide the rest.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 53 years ● 270km around UK Bristol
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pressedon
Another year around the sun.

🎼🎶🎵it's my birthday and I'll goon if I want to, would you like to give me something to goon to?🎼🎵🎶

Are any of you lovely ladies willing to help the birthday boy out and drain these heavy balls for me?

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 480km around USA Scottsdale
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Happy birthday to me dec 21

It will be my birthday on December 21 and I want to have a great time

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around Canada Kitchener
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Benjaminsibmits
I’ll submit if you can make me

A strong dominant woman who wants to control me but also a genuine relationship

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 25km around USA Hollywood
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BigDJayy
Birthday Fun

Looking for someone to come over and celebrate my bday today!!

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Looking to be dominated

New to the scene and want someone to take control

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around USA Paoli
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