About me
submissive female, 28 years in the LS. 66 years old. mildly disabled, height 4'11, a BBW. Also i am an INFJ, if you happen to know what that means, and if you are into astrology, i am a solid Cancer, July 2nd.

About You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 28 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.







BDSM and me
You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, cordially respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.

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