Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student in Boston looking to, hopefully, find a monogamous long-term relationship with a caring woman. Let's take a walk through the common, grab some lunch, or do your favorite activity.

About me:

5'10" Blond hair and blue eyes with a bit of a dad-bod (185 lbs). From the South End.

I'm really a big nerd and a homebody. I bring teddy-bear energy everywhere I go: incredibly huggable/snuggleable, calming and grounding, playful, amiable, very go with the flow. I enjoy a playful, affectionate dynamic.

I love Marvel, video games, and I recently joined a ttrpg group that I'm enjoying. My current read is the 4th book in the ACOTAR series, though I'm not very far in so no spoilers. I like to play video games; primarily Destiny 2, Borderlands, and Pokemon. Trying new restaurants is one of my fav activities. Hear me out, beach vacations >> exercise or tour-intensive vacations. I'm also an engineering major going into my final year of college, hoping to work at a medical device company when I graduate (fingers crossed); ask me which companies I'm looking at because they're really cool. I have two older s, two older brothers, two brother's in law, one in law, and three niblings; so family holidays are big, noisy, and amazing. I don’t have a car.

I would love to serve my woman for that sweet reward of the smile on her face and getting to know that I'm hers. I want to be the one who helps you decompress after a long day. Let me bring your morning coffee, do your laundry, keep you company while running errands, and be your excuse for an Irish goodbye.

STD-free. Occasional drinker. I've never smoked cigarettes and I stopped smoking weed this year.

About you:

Preferably 20-32 years old. No particular type with regard to appearance. I'm looking for someone more date-oriented, as I'm wanting to pursue a long-term relationship.

I'm especially attracted to nerds, gamers, introverts, and other homebodies. While I enjoy exploring, I love retreating back home together and enjoying each other's company. Having similar hobbies and/or hobbies that you enjoy bringing other people into is definitely a big plus. I tend to text a lot throughout the day, so it would be great to find somebody who likes frequent communication.

What I'm looking for in a relationship:

Take initiative and make first moves. Ask me out, take my hand, and kiss me first. I would love to feel pursued, but I'll be putting in an equal effort as well. Take me to a nice dinner and flirt with me until I'm flustered. I love cuddling together on the couch and letting you be the big spoon as you run your hands through my hair. Spoiling me would definitely be a bonus, but not required.

Caring and affectionate vibes are what I'm looking for.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in then send me a message, we can exchange photos, and see if meeting each other is in the cards for us.

Kinky Date18 to 40 years ● 55km around USA Boston

I'm an educated professional with a fast paced crazy job during the day and a Dungeons and Dragons, Pokemon collecting, video game playing nerd at night!

I'm only looking for friends first. I'm monogamous and don't do casual sex.

What gets my attention is: brains, humor, and heart-those get me every time!

Most common responses to the most common messages:

1) I'm not interested in your genital pics.

2) I'm not looking to come over tonight and have sex with you.

3) I'm doing great thanks!

4) My parents are the ones who did the making me look cute thing.

5) No I don't want to read your weird sex fanfic you randomly sent me a total stranger.

6) I make enough I don't need to be in your camgirl side hustle, paid for sex, feet pics, used underwear and or any other fetish you're trying to pay me for.

7) No I'm not sending you *** either.

8) Great you're a Dom/me that doesn't mean you're mine. Don't act like it or you'll see my final form (insert dragon Ball Z 2 hour montage of getting to level 5000).

Kink wise:
Rough CNC? You got it. A proper bare-bottom spanking followed by rough or sensual sex? I got that covered. Fucking my ass while you're whispering sweet words in my ear? I might have done it once or twice. Spanking my clit, torturing my pussy, flirting ineffectively, or simply watching a good movie together? That's amazing. Making me and you cum multiple times? That's written with bold letters in my resume. Learning your likes and dislikes? Oh yeah!

Totally awesome things I can talk about all day:

Pokemon cards (especially vintage) I'm a total nerd who does have a pretty sweet collection. If you're looking for something for yours hit me up! Maybe I can help. I have extensive cards from base, jungle, fossil, base 2, and team rocket.

Guessing several people screamed and ran but hey if you're still here I'm also into DnD (not the kinky type ... Though hey I do love role-playing) video games ( currently loving Dune: Awakening), horse back riding (hoping to get back into it now that I'm closer to places that have them), and fishing!

I'm stable in my life, own my home, car, good job, mentally not nutters, and know what I want and what I don't.

I get along best with people over 35 normally but sometimes late twenties have the old soul vibe too! Extroverted people who are happy to do most the talking and dominate leaning tendencies to the front please and thank you!

I'm more a quiet reserved introvert who likes to go with the flow. I have to be in charge at work so off the clock I love being around people who naturally enjoy leading so I don't have to.

BDSM Play Partner35 to 65 years ● 150km around USA San Francisco

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