Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, San Jose 2 weeks ago

I’ve been extremely fortunate to have met a number of women over this past year. Some have been one night stands, a few turned into multiple dates, and others had turned into something much more.

These experiences have shown me what I’m really looking for and I’m hoping to find someone who’s desire resonates in kind.

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First and foremost, I’m divorced and I’m a dad. Me and my kids are a package deal. I don’t have them full time, but I’m always DAD and I give them my attention and affection in abundance when they need me. They don’t need a mom, the one they have is kinda awesome. Just be a dope ass friend to them, they will appreciate it. If this is a dealbreaker, thanks for stopping by.

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Ok, with that out the way…

I am manifesting a relationship built on open communication, honesty, love, kindness, humility, passion, lust, and shared kinks.

I had someone who I wanted to build this with, unfortunately, things moved so quickly and I went about it the wrong way and things fell apart. Hoping to do it better this time around. I want us to take our time and build a bond where we KNOW we have found our safe space.

I love my life, my career, and social circle. I’m going to find someone who complements my life and I will do the same for her.

I’m not hard to please. Send me music, memes, food and nudes. Come to the gym with me. Let’s be that hot couple that everyone notices. Smell nice, I do. Give me your time, attention and affection. I’ll treat you like a QUEEN and will make sure you are seen, heard, understood, and respected.

As for our sexual compatibility, I’m envisioning a relationship that STARTS with us exploring, acclimating, and elevating our sensuality together, exclusively. Once we are both mutually ready, we would invite other couples, or an agreed upon third, and eventually, could lead to encouraged solo play. I don’t want you to be a whore, I want you to be MY whore. I would want you to experience the touch of others, knowing that YOU know YOU belong to ME and they are just an instrument WE use to bring you pleasure, just as YOU would want that for ME. We lust and share OURSELVES with others, but we only LOVE on each other…

I’m in no rush. I plan to be very selective as I want this to be a long term thing. I WON’T settle for someone unless she is patient, charismatic, sexy, open-minded, kinky, and submissive.

I hope this has caught your interest. I can’t wait to meet you.

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Me: Asian/Black, 5’11”, Fit, Tatted, Kinky.
I’m witty, charismatic, and kind.

You: 24-36, sexy, submissive, HWP.

I live alone in San Jose.

*I’m not actually looking for a wife. We don’t need a contract that ***s us to be together. I will CHOOSE you daily. Please reciprocate.

Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA, San Jose 2 weeks ago

Hello!

About me (not kinky):

I'm a 29 year old based in central Massachusetts who's hobbies include road biking, manga and anime, rock climbing (new for me and excited to explore it with someone!) literature, horror movies, art (creating and appreciating), and video games. In my professional life I work in health care. What I think I'd want someone reading my personal to know about me is that I'd describe myself as someone for whom emotional and intellectual connection and compatibility are both very important. I've spent a long time trying to decide if I lean more introvert or extrovert and I think I've finally decided I'm somewhere in the middle. I think I am a patient and empathetic person, and I really value empathy in the people I meet.

About me (Kinky edition):

I am new to the scene. I've attended a few munches over the years but life circumstance has kept me out of really exploring kink for a long time, but now I'm looking to see if I can't develop this side of myself. At this point I'd describe myself as a switch. There's a few different aspects of kink that I think draw me in in particular: the hedonistic side of things - I want to have vivid sensory experiences with kink. The honesty - I feel like two people getting kinky with each other are doing their best to approach each other openly and honestly without judgment about their desires, and I'm drawn to that openness. And the tasks - I'm a detail oriented person, I like to tinker and fiddle, and I feel like kink gives me an opportunity to express that side of myself in the bedroom.

What am I looking for?

First and foremost I don't feel I'm at a place in my life where right now I'm looking for my long term life partner. If that is what you are seeking I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I'm looking for a more casual connection that has the space in it to explore and let us both grow in understanding our kinky sides. I would still very much like to have an emotional connection, to get along outside of the bedroom and spend quality time together. What I would imagine this would look like is messaging and chatting first, just to see if it feels like we have any conversational chemistry, and then from there seeing if we feel like we are comfortable meeting for some casual non-kinky dates and seeing if that chemistry holds up in person.


Thank you for taking the time to read all this. If it peaks your interest please shoot me a message, and if not I hope you find someone who does tick your boxes.

Kinky Date22 to 39 years ● 100km around USA, Worcester 06.05.2024 - 01.06.2024

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