Meet me in a public place wearing a skirt with no panties. After introductions and a drink, I'll want to verify you're an obedient little sub (we'll save the remote vibe/plug for the second date).
Dirty conversation is my favorite foreplay, especially when there's a chance you'll be overheard. I want to get you outside your comfort zone and help you explore your kinks without judgement.
Random hook-ups don't do it for me; not saying we won't end the night with you waking the neighbors, but I need to know we connect before I have my way with you.