Hi there, may i extend a warm welcome and thankyou for taking the time to look at my profile and pictures.

Dominance isn’t about sex.
Dominance is being there for your sub.
Dominance is working through their meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting your sub especially when they won’t accept themself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love them.
Dominance is tucking your sub in at night.
Dominance is telling your sub no.
Dominance is quieting their demons.
Dominance is being their bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off your subs anger and frustration when you do things for their own good.
Dominance is encouraging them.
Dominance is comforting them in the middle of the night when they've had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding.
Dominance is building your sub.
Dominance is love.

ON TH FLIP SIDE
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for your Dom/Domme.
Submission is about being that consistent person.
Submission is building your Dom/Domme up and letting them know their loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the pharmacy when you're Dom/Domme is under the weather.
Submission is helping them get ready for work when their is running late.
Submission is letting them lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what you're Dom/Domme deserves.
Submission is having their back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for them in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways
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Here is a little about me, i love the outdoors and nature enjoying the tranquil surroundings and watching nice sunsets, im equally as happy at home snuggling with a good book or film of which i have a broad taste as i do with music. Talking of taste i love Italian and Indian food (to be honest just food in general lol). I discovered kink a number of years ago and I've learnt alot during those years, i love pretty things in life and this filters into my kink and I love experiencing new things. I am a very caring soul and willing to be guided through my kinks with a like minded individual. It would be lovely to have a lasting relationship with the right person but i understand this takes time to develop. Having a connection with someone is really what im seeking. If you like what you're read or my pictures send a message

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Submissive
96% Boy/Girl
95% Degradee
91% Rope bunny
78% Experimentalist
77% Exhibitionist
77% Brat
75% Masochist
73% Ageplayer
70% Voyeur
62% Slave
60% Non-monogamist
44% Vanilla
23% Primal (Prey)
15% Pet
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
0% Switch

Kinky Date30 to 50 years ● 150km around UK, Blackburn 6 months ago

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IN OTHER WORDS IF YOU DONT READ MY INFO AND THEN ASK THE QUESTIONS THAT ARE ALREADY ANSWERED I HAVE NO INTEREST IN TALKING TO YOU

Hey everyone, i am Genderfluid Bondage Submissive/Pup looking for owner(s) and handler(s), my experience so far has not been so stable in the mono relations so i wouldnt mind trying Poly
I dont know what else to really to write being that i suck with this dating stuff

Mainly i am here to get to know people and find people that i can possibly get into a serious relationship with as their mate and pet maybe slave.

One idea i really like is always on a leash and silent and even with my pup hood on with a dog muzzle sorta thing and i have a fantasy to maybe even go as far as getting an ear tattoo or ear tag for that perfect someone or couple to rub in the mornings to remind me i belong to them. (And i am actually afraid of needles or generally anything that penetrates skin) i also fantasize about a nearly 24/7 in depth role as a pup (learn to track hunt do show and agility)... but i do understand that it is not 100% possible as life is a thing.

I am really weird in alot of ways, and many have said they like that about me. willing to try new things and some crazy things. but i am really touchy on trust and honesty, meaning they are EXTREMELY important to me and it does sometime take a while for me to get comfortable with anyone. i try not to hide things. but i also have a tendancy to say exactly whats on my mind with no filter or hesitation. so meeting as friends and doing vanilla people stuff (lol) is a good start like going for a drive exploring, coffee, helping you do things like work or beating that over powered boss on your video game

I do live in Aldergrove quite a ways from main roads or malls and do not go out much currently (at least until i can pass my damn roadtest) but i can host.



== Results from ==
99% Bondage receiver
87% Pet
85% Submissive
68% Primal (Prey)
65% Experimentalist
65% Masochist
62% Slave
57% Non-monogamist
57% Exhibitionist
56% receiver
53% Brat
53% girl/boy
39% Vanilla
31% Switch
24% Voyeur
24% Ageplayer
18% Sadist
17% Dominant
17% Bondage giver
13% Primal (Hunter)
12% Owner
11% Brat tamer
9% Master/Mistress
6%
giver
6% All-Rounder
5% Daddy/Mommy

Kinky Date25 to 45 years ● 50km around Canada, Langley one year ago

What is in surrender for me as a dominant?

in that moment she fully surrenders and is fully in her sub space I feel its the greatest gift she can give me, as in that moment I know she has fully let herself go into her body & soul trusting me to allow herself to leave her head & any s & hurts she may have. In that moment I feel like I am her superman there to protect the world more than that her world, in that moment I feel I have an unbreakable strength yet still feel the love & compassion to serve & protect & meet her needs. The way she looks at me & I look at her what the rest of the world thinks & what is happening doesn't matter, just that moment just us, her superman and her being my world to protect.

I like the anticipation and build up over the days before we get together also whilst we talk about some of the fun stuff we can do when we get together, and I love taking the time to care for her afterwards also, even just lying together resting with her head on my chest and her body held tight in my arms feeling proud of the good girl she has been.

Life is too short to hide from all the pleasures in life for the
of what could go wrong...

"So Understand Don't waste your time searching for those wasted years,
Face up Make your Stand and realise you're living in the golden years"
(Adrian Smith - Iron Maiden)

I give honesty and expect it in return, this is a must for me, without honesty there is no trust without trust there is no relationship. That little girl inside her that she may have built barriers and walls around to "protect her" and limit her growth into who she really could be, I will break through these walls, and make sure she feels wanted, desired, loved, safe and protected not just the girl on the outside. I am on a journey of growth and she will grow to out of her own choice as she knows we will grow apart if she doesn't. Whilst her body maybe restrained at times her spirit is still free. Her inner slut and whore will be revealed to me, fully surrendered in the moment.

I have been playing with a few sub's over the last 10 years or more & now looking to train my own sub,.

Who am I?

I am a dominant man based in the centre of England hence the name Midlands Dom. I am evolving out of a box that no longer fits me and never will again. I am a dominant man and I am more than that, I am a Daddy and a coach/mentor though not for everyone. I don't fit in a pure dominant box, or a pure daddy box or a pure master box as there is part of all of them within me which will vary according to who I am with and what her needs and desires are. I am on a journey through life mind, body and soul I approach my friendships from a place of love as I desire to see the very best for everyone even when it does not include me. I came here through my personal development journey because some of my needs and experiences on this journey can not be fulfilled and satisfied down the traditional relationship path.

What first made me curious about kink?

The lyrics to a song when I was a ager - Guns N Roses "Pretty Tied Up"

"I know this chick she lives down on Melrose
She ain't satisfied without some

Friday night is goin' up inside her...again
Well crack the whip
'Cause that bitch is just insane
I'm serious
She's pretty tied up hangin' upside down
She's pretty tied up an you can ride her
She's pretty tied up hangin' upside down
I can't tell you she's the right one"

I wondered if women were actually liked that or if it was completely made up!



**At this time I have no interest in knife play, scat or * sports at this time pretty much all other things negotiable.


So who are you and what is it you seek in a dominant man? and why is that important to you?


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
90% Daddy/Mommy
89% Dominant
83% Master/Mistress
76% Degrader
76% Owner
59% Voyeur
58% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
53% Non-monogamist
50% Exhibitionist
48% Primal (Hunter)
47% Ageplayer
42% Vanilla
25% Switch

Kinky Date18 to 35 years ● 100km around UK, Stratford-on-Avon 2 years ago

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