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Dom male seeks submissive male or female to train

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steamchimp
Drink and chat

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Looking for sub 805

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Seeking a submissive

Dom seeking sub, preferably in North London. Happy to teach and introduce you to kink if you’re new.
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LittleSpace4me
Submissive Little in need of structure

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Looking for kinky fun and games

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MichaelHaire
Looking for a Dominant mistress!

So I’m new to this BDSM thing, but decided to try something new. Im a very submissive person in general, so I’m looking for someone who would be willing to make me their pet/slave and whatnot. Send me a message if interested.
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Feeling submissive

A dom man or woman preferably a mistress
I wanna be tied up and ***d feminisation
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Hello my name is nicole I am a very kinky experienced mature many would say old cd/tv who loves all elements of bdsm and most kinky sexual play. I am genuine and discreet, I always meet when I agree to do so. Please feel free to ask me any questions they will be replied to honestly and if after reading my profile you think I might be worth considering for meeting please contact me, I am flexible as regards to availability. I hope to hear from you
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Dom4you2023
Looking for beginner sub who would enjoyeverything

Looking for submissive who is beginner or experienced for many years ,who would enjoy being spanked hard,who would like rough sex while getting hair pulled , being restrained. She would also enjoy sexual massage.
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SubTransLady
Seeking new dominants

I am looking for new dominant playmates for meets. I am polyamorous and very submissive. More details on my profile. If you like what you see please find me on Kik under the name PoliteTransLady. Thanks!
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Dom4you2023
Looking for my submissive mate

Looking for a submissive brat in Central Alberta,Canada area to have fun with. I am ready willing and able to explore other kinky activities. Sub should enjoy being restrained, being chocked,me pulling her hair, ,being spanked,. I'm still learning as I go. Very interested in testing boundaries both for myself and my sub.
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Sub needed

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Hurley12011
Sir/Daddy looking for sub/little

Hello fellow kinksters,
I am Alex, 23 years old and living in the Lancashire, Preston area.
I would say that I have dabbled into the kink lifestyle for the past 5 years- as a Dominant for submissives, as well as a Daddy Dom for those littles.
My favourite kinks include orgasm control, denial, overstimulation, impact play, bondage as well as cock warming.
Outside of kink I enjoy personal development and working my way up into a professional career. I am currently in training as a student paramedic- So yes, I am dashing in a uniform ladies.
In my free time I enjoy the arts of binge-watching tv shows on various platforms, online gaming, trying new cuisines and not to forget spending time with ***s.
What am I looking for? I am preferably looking for long term commitment with a partner who is involved in kink, it be submissive or a little. (Female only)
However, I am not opposed to meeting kinksters and meeting new playmates. Let’s connect on here, I would love to hear from you!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 30 years ● 50km around UK Chorley
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eugene364
New to this 😈

Very new
I know I'm very submissive and I want a be dominated and be told to do things that are new and exciting I want to try everything
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Looking for a forest play partner for regular mee

Looking for a submissive girl for a long term relationship with kinky forest play about 5 miles out of Carmarthen
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Looking for a sub

Looking for a submissive to get to know so message me and let's see where it goes
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