Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom and sometime daddy dominant.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship.I'm looking for a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. It is important to be able to communicate openly and candidly in order to achieve a mutually loving, fulfilling and enduring friendship or relationship.
You may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 63 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

I do not see the spanks. So if you want to reach out, please send a message and I will definitely respond.**

I identify as a Pleasure sadist but also a dominant who has multiple facets. I am primal yet sensual, Sadistic yet nurturing like a Daddy .
I am straight.

I do not ee spanks so please send a message instead.
I am looking for a submissive.with whom I connect , whose needs, wants match mine .
It is the chemistry that will have a bearing on how we play and progress forward.
I have found out that communication , consent and respect are important in establishing any kind of rapport or dynamic.

My kinky experience and skills:

  • Various forms of sensory experience to include either lighter forms of touch, or impact (stingy or thuddy, often complementary), with or without some forms of sensory deprivation such as blindfolds.

  • Sensual encounters: massages for instance

  • Restraint in various forms,

  • Impact only sessions,

  • Orgasm/squirt sessions,

  • Teasing and edging to include a variety of depths/s***ds/angles,

  • Yoni massage

    I am an adept of RACK, consent, respect and communication.

    I am also very comfortable in cuckold/Hotwife dynamic. I love to create an atmosphere, a setting where all are happy to be involved or not in case of the cuck.

    If any of the above resonates with you, please get in touch! Who knows, we may be a match.
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    Feel free to ask for more details if any of the above resonates with what you're looking for.

    In the vanilla world, I am educated, interested in movies, reading, current affairs, History, music, sports , cooking , Scandinavian TV Series or Nordic Noir.

    I am unable to see the pics of those who sent me a spank or a flirt. if interested just drop me aline and we will take it from there.
    I CAN NOT SEE WHO SEND ME A SPANK!
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    *** cruelty.

BDSM Play Partner25 to 60 years ● 100km around UK Stoke-on-Trent

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