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I want to find someone to help me learn what it means to be submissive, I’m open to almost anything except , , and vomit.

I want to meet some that is submissive and wants to have fun

Looking for submissive female for mutual bdsm and bondage

Looking for a sensually dominant woman who has experience with submissive men and with humiliating little dicks. Would love to try my first experience with small penis ***.

I have been out of the scene for three years, before that I was a Dom for over 25 years.
I miss meeting like minded people and hope to find friends to return to the lifestyle and also hope to meet a part time or full time submissive maybe even a kajira.

Is it possible to find a submissive woman that can put up with my high... drive? Im willing to explore most kinks. Only very few are 100% no go's. Casual or LTR eithers fine.

I just want someone to make me submissive 🗿

I’m looking for a good submissive size queen that can take 9 inches long and very thick. Shoot me a message if you think you can handle that and let’s talk.

I'm a submissive seeking a goddess to serve text me 6037078511

Looking for a submissive play partner for serious Kinky fun! Chat me up and let’s see how much fun we can have together!
Yours in Kink
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Looking for submissive play partner for Kinky fun! Chat me up, let’s see how much fun we can have! Yours in Kink!
Seam head

Hi, I’m looking to find someone would is looking for a submissive. I am looking to explore my submissive side and all the kinks associated. I am open to different types of dynamics. I value communication and trust.

I'm looking for a Dom who thrives on control, structure, and strength. I want a Fitness Dom who will push me past my excuses, keep me accountable, and demand both obedience and progress.

You:
• Confident, strict, and consistent
• Passionate about fitness, training, and discipline
• Enjoy mixing physical goals with power exchange

Me:
• Submissive, eager to please, and open to structure
• Ready to be challenged physically and mentally
• Seeking accountability, guidance, and firm correction when needed

This dynamic is about discipline, fitness, and obedience. Whether it’s workouts, routines, or lifestyle training, I’m ready to serve and grow under the control of a strong Dom who expects results.

Let’s discuss limits, goals, and expectations to build a healthy and intense D/s connection.

Fit 20M looking for an older dominant woman to teach me how to be a good submissive slut.

I’m new in the scene and looking to explore my submissive side. Open to connections that could build to develop a really strong domme/sub dynamic. Teach me, shape me into your perfect sub.

I'm older but new to this lifestyle, and I'm looking for a great friend with benefits who has a submissive mindset. I want to build a real, lasting friendship with someone I can text, engage in sexting, exchange pictures, and be creative with. I'm looking for inspiration for my writing and desire a strong connection that goes beyond just sex.

I like a dominant couple that's open minded to teaching me new things

Hi, I’m J. I’m new to the lifestyle and am looking for someone submissive to help me explore. I would love to get to know you and see where things go.

I love giving or getting a good spanking. If I’m receiving, straps and belts are my absolute favorite, but I take what I’m given. I believe all discipline should be on the bare ass.

If I am being the dominant, I am open to what the submissive is looking for.

I also find mouth soaping to be incredibly hot!

Looking for a submissive lady that won’t say no

I know that it’s quite the long shot, but hey, you miss 100% of the shots you never take.

I’m looking for my kinky soulmate. The woman who is my exact kink counterpart; I truly believe that she is out there. I want to find that woman who has me checking my phone every hour with excitement and anticipation to read her reply. The woman who can’t keep her hands off of me or mine off her. Ive been searching for her for years now and I know she’s there. I would prefer that she’s close to my location for convenience sake but am open to online to start!

A little bit about me and my kinky self:
I discovered my first kink when I was a 13 year old boy and saw my first bondage porno. It had aroused me in such powerful ways that I didn’t even understand. From then on I spent my age years researching the lifestyle and community, developing new and different kinks the more knowledgeable I became about the lifestyle and community and all the different assortment of kinks and methods of self sexual exploration.
I’ve been in the community since I was in my first ever BDSM relationship at 19 years old. I had confessed my desires to my girlfriend at the time. At first she was skeptical but after having read the story I wrote about one of my fantasies, her pussy was soaked and she quickly found out that she was born to be a submissive little cumslut who loved following my every demand or instruction to a tee; because she knew what came with that. We spent 4 years together and over the course of that time we experimented with many different D/S role dynamics. We found our two favorite dynamics were DDLG and Master/slave. Unfortunately, we broke up after 4 years together.
We have been broken up for 7 years now and I have been in 3 different BDSM relationships since then. None of them lasted much longer than a year but during the time I spent with them, they went from completely unaware and unknowledgeable of kink & BDSM to fully trained submissives who almost become a different person when they become aroused.

My list of kinks is far too long to list every single one of them but I’ll list some of my main ones.
-Bondage -praise- /degredation-cock worship(obviously receiving)- deepthroating (again-obviously receiving)- orgasm play(control, denial, edging, ***d orgasm/pleasure overload etc.)- rituals(what type varies by submissive archetype) -anal play (both giving and receiving)-training- exhibitionism- squirting-
There are plenty more that I’m sure I’m forgetting, but you kind of get the point.
If we are in a romantic relationship outside of our BDSM relationship then please understand that I will love you and treat you like you are the center of my world, and our BDSM/kink lifestyle can most definitely be separated from our “normal”/conventional romantic relationship if that’s what you would want. I am monogamous, and do not wish to seek out other partners when I am in a committed or romantic relationship. Once exclusivity is declared between us, it will remain that way until we break up and part ways.
I also would like to put out that there that while I heavily lean towards Dom, I do identify as somewhat of a switch as well(in case you are one to occasionally crave the urge to grab me by the groin and tell me what’s going to happen next.)
I love love love writing you dirty stories about the fantasies in my head, and I promise you’ll love reading them. Once you read one, even if it’s just a long, dirty message; you’ll be able to see it so vividly in your head that you’ll actually feel like you’re there; it’ll make you tingle all over and unable to stop thinking about it until you get to experience it for real. I would share a short snippet from one of my many stories in the ad but it’s already super long to begin with so if you want a lick of that dirty smut/erotica material; just send me a message and I’ll send it over to ya😏😘

As far as my non kink parts I am 29 years old, 6 feet tall and 190 lbs. I’m no runway model but I’m decently handsome lol and have a fit, muscular build. I’m not shredded and all veiny or anything but I’m definitely built as I used to be a college athlete and still actively work out and lift weights.
I absolutely love fishing and being outdoors with my two dogs, watching Sunday football while playing football. I coach kids in the sport I played growing up and playing in college- bonus points to anyone who can guess what sport that is- and no, it’s not football.
I game occasionally (ps5) and sometimes go through spurts where I game quite frequently. I love spending time with the ones I love-especially my girlfriend when I have one.
While I am looking for something real and long term that eventually turns to a real life, in person relationship; I am okay with other arrangements such as an online situation, or strictly NSA situations where outside of kink/bdsm, we have no ties or obligation to one another. If I’m missing a situation that you would be interested in pursuing don’t hesitate to message me if you like what you’ve read so far and think we might click; I’m open to consider ALMOST any sort of situation or arrangement.
I am strictly heterosexual, so if you and your hubby want to play, just know I will not have any sort of physical interaction with him(I’d like to avoid couples for the most part pretty much but willing to consider certain arrangements regarding that). ABSOLUTELY NO MEN, nothing against gay people, just not my thing; so don’t ask!
The most recent results from bdsmtest.com is:
== Results from bdsmtest.==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Rigger
100% Degrader
96% Dominant
96% Voyeur
84% Switch
77% Experimentalist
75% Brat tamer
75% Owner
73% Primal (Hunter)
63% Non-monogamist
58% Exhibitionist
43% Sadist
30% Daddy/Mommy
17% Vanilla
6% Ageplayer

I can’t wait to hear from you!