Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student in Boston looking to, hopefully, find a monogamous long-term relationship with a caring woman. Let's take a walk through the common, grab some lunch, or do your favorite activity.

About me:

5'10" Blond hair and blue eyes with a bit of a dad-bod (185 lbs). From the South End.

I'm really a big nerd and a homebody. I bring teddy-bear energy everywhere I go: incredibly huggable/snuggleable, calming and grounding, playful, amiable, very go with the flow. I enjoy a playful, affectionate dynamic.

I love Marvel, video games, and I recently joined a ttrpg group that I'm enjoying. My current read is the 4th book in the ACOTAR series, though I'm not very far in so no spoilers. I like to play video games; primarily Destiny 2, Borderlands, and Pokemon. Trying new restaurants is one of my fav activities. Hear me out, beach vacations >> exercise or tour-intensive vacations. I'm also an engineering major going into my final year of college, hoping to work at a medical device company when I graduate (fingers crossed); ask me which companies I'm looking at because they're really cool. I have two older s, two older brothers, two brother's in law, one in law, and three niblings; so family holidays are big, noisy, and amazing. I don’t have a car.

I would love to serve my woman for that sweet reward of the smile on her face and getting to know that I'm hers. I want to be the one who helps you decompress after a long day. Let me bring your morning coffee, do your laundry, keep you company while running errands, and be your excuse for an Irish goodbye.

STD-free. Occasional drinker. I've never smoked cigarettes and I stopped smoking weed this year.

About you:

Preferably 20-32 years old. No particular type with regard to appearance. I'm looking for someone more date-oriented, as I'm wanting to pursue a long-term relationship.

I'm especially attracted to nerds, gamers, introverts, and other homebodies. While I enjoy exploring, I love retreating back home together and enjoying each other's company. Having similar hobbies and/or hobbies that you enjoy bringing other people into is definitely a big plus. I tend to text a lot throughout the day, so it would be great to find somebody who likes frequent communication.

What I'm looking for in a relationship:

Take initiative and make first moves. Ask me out, take my hand, and kiss me first. I would love to feel pursued, but I'll be putting in an equal effort as well. Take me to a nice dinner and flirt with me until I'm flustered. I love cuddling together on the couch and letting you be the big spoon as you run your hands through my hair. Spoiling me would definitely be a bonus, but not required.

Caring and affectionate vibes are what I'm looking for.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in then send me a message, we can exchange photos, and see if meeting each other is in the cards for us.

Kinky Date18 to 40 years ● 55km around USA Boston

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