Genuine bisexual guy. Clean, healthy and discreet with a passion for giving my partner/s pleasure. Have been told I’m very good at oral and very attentive (I love to hear you moan).

I am married but due to health effects after cancer/covid/and a back *** out sex life is minimal so I have been given permission but not a fully open relationship so must be discreet as my wife does not want to know and I have no intention to hurt/leave her.

Have been in a few threesomes/ moresomes but always with gay/bisexual men so would ideally like to meet a MF or FF couple or a mixed group for discreet fun and going to events/parties but MM couples and all singles are also welcome to contact me.

Reasonably comfortable nude though wouldn’t count myself as a naturist. Hoping to make some friends (hopefully with mutual benefits).

Always practice safe sex and would not do anything if not 100% healthy and expect the same in return.

Starting to explore my kinkier side (was spanked hard the other day and loved it) and hoping to go to some fetish events in the future.

If you want to know more then just ask, I’m easy going and none judgemental and happy to give most things a try. Would be nice to meet for a drink and see if we get on/where things lead or failing that let me know if your going to an event in Brighton/London and maybe we can meet there.

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BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 65 years ● 10km around UK Lewes

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