Hi and thanks for reading.

Just a warning : might be a bit of a story :)

After getting divorced after a 10 year marriage I instantly rebounded into a four year relationship with a much younger woman who was a virgin (did not know this when I met her).

I obviously had to take control in the bedroom and as time went on our relationship naturally evolved into me being in charge and her being submissive. This was mostly in the bedroom but sometimes flowed into other areas of life outside of the bedroom.

This relationship ultimately didn’t work as we wanted different things from life and we were at different stages (obviously) and she wanted to move away to study. But this relationship has taught me that I would further like to expand and develop this style of relationship further. It felt natural to me and it felt good.

Therefore I am looking for a like minded female who would be interested in exploring this sort of relationship. Learning together would be ideal but perhaps you are more experienced and could show me exactly what you want from me.

If this is something that interests you then send me a message and we can talk about it, tell me what you are looking for etc.

I’m single, decent shape, none smoker, told I look young for my age. I am not looking for a quick fuck but rather something we could build on.

Check my profile for further info, I believe I have filled all the questions out.

I am based in South Yorkshire, UK. Happy to exchange pics or FaceTime or whatever to prove I’m legit.

BDSM Play Partner25 to 42 years ● 80km around UK, Doncaster one year ago

Hi! I've been into kink for nearly 5 years now with more or less all my experience coming online. I'm now at a point where I'd like to have something a little more real or at least committed! I understand meeting up right now would be very difficult and even scary for some people, but I'd like it to be clear that this would be the intention eventually ☺️

Vanilla stuff:
I'm an engineering student from England who also enjoys team sports, music, anime, and video games. These are the things I enjoy doing most, but I'm more than happy to talk about anything you enjoy too! I consider myself a good listener and if you're super excited and passionate about something then it will probably rub off on me too!

Appearance:
As a sub my appearance is something I'm slightly self conscious about 🥺 Whilst I've been called pretty or cute in the past, I think that my body is pretty masculine. I'm white (pale), with a broad 6'0 frame and average to athletic build depending on how active I am at the time. I have light brown hair and green eyes and some body hair. Because I'm pretty masculine, I do like the idea of a petite feminine domme. That's just a slight preference though! I'm happy to send a face pic straight away and more nsfw pics if I feel comfortable after a while.

Kinky stuffs:
So if it wasn't already clear, I'm a sub! 🤭 I also think I relate to some aspects of MDLB (and saying mommy!), although I don't see myself as a little because I'm not into age play or diapers etc. I also really like the idea of being made into a himbo!! Most importantly I love to give and receive affection! Cuddles and aftercare are the best!!! I'm also pretty into audio stuff and I think I have quite a nice voice and even nicer whimpers/moans 🥺

I did the big kink checklist thingy so you can get an idea of what I enjoy from that. I think generally it's most important to look at the topics to see how I feel. For example I'm not into restriction at all really. I also left out a couple things that either don't apply to me or I hadn't heard of. Generally the 'maybes' are things I haven't tried or soft limits.
I also have think I'm quite a good/creative writer so if you like to have roleplay sessions I can do that too! ☺️



You:
From you I'd appreciate if you could give an introduction to yourself! It doesn't have to be a lot (although I'd be happy to read it!), just perhaps your experience as a mommy/domme and why you liked my post ☺️ It would also be nice to have a physical description or even a picture if you're comfortable with that.

I want to be valued as a person and so in general conversation I won't always be subby or little/middle. I think it's important to be able to talk 'normally' and respectfully. It's important to me to have open conversation. That being said I will melt if you can just switch on your dominance on a whim and make me go all subby 🥺🥰 I also think a mommy that encourages me to study and be productive would be really nice, so if that's your thing... you get some bonus points!

I hope you didn't mind reading all that! If there's something you'd like to ask me feel free. I look forward to hearing from you soon! 😇

BDSM Play Partner18 to 30 years ● 75km around UK, Swansea 2 years ago

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