I am completely new to sex and practicing proper kink. Willing to move to be with someone who i feel good pleasing but currently any movement can only be on a temporary basis and not become my fixed dwelling until my lovable but beloved rescue dog passes from old age or another cause unless i can get her trained to trust humans other than my parents once This mostly hunges on me building a strong reliable relationship to a mistress i wish to serve somewhere i can get to reasonably with me having to borrow a person able to drive as i cannot or mostly likely public transport.

This will of course have to be strongly discussed in detail with my chosen Minstress so that i am able to care for the *** i brought into my life and please my chosen Mistress despite these limitations.

In return i have a large amount of free time to serve and please my chosen mistress as she wills me to. I would like to work towards a 24/7 relationship in the coming future (i know i am not ready to even try to fully train for that responsibility/position at the moment) or to be collared at least but only if i earn it in my mistress's eyes of course and it is her wish.

Currently known hard limits are castration and anything related to urine, faecal matter and other men's semen as well as anything that scars permanently as well as body modification and full public nudity. Soft limits i am unclear of apart from public crossdressing, mixing kink life with the general vanilla public.

Other basic details can be found on my profile.

BDSM Play Partner22 to 44 years ● 75km around UK, Luton 3 years ago

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