Women seeking Men - Sub

If submissive dating is your thing, if you're sub-curious, or if you've been quietly searching for someone who truly understands the beauty of giving yourself over to trust and desire… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes submission in all its forms, of course, but also everything beyond it: BDSM, roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Strength in Submission — and a Real Community Behind It 

FET isn't a marketplace where subs get treated like products on a shelf. 

We're a respectful, global kinkster community where power exchange is celebrated with intelligence, warmth, and mutual consent. 

 - Some members find freedom in the act of surrendering control. 

 - Some crave the clarity, structure, and guidance of serving a dominant partner. 

 - Some are drawn to the devotion, the discipline, and the deep emotional trust submission builds. 

 

Whatever form your submission takes, you're valued here. 

This is fetish dating at its most empowering: respectful, intentional, and completely real. 

 

Women Seeking Men: Submissive Dating Connections 

This space is for women seeking men who understand that submission is a gift, not a given. 

 - Maybe you're a submissive woman looking for a dominant partner who earns your trust before your obedience. 

 - Maybe you're into service, protocol, or the emotional depth of a structured D/s relationship. 

 - Maybe mainstream dating has never had room for this side of you. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy ready for a space where submissive dating is built on respect, not entitlement. 

 

On FET, you'll find people who take power exchange seriously, because they know real dominance starts with earning it. 

 

Submissive Personals That Respect the Dynamic 

Mainstream apps don't know what to do with a sub who knows exactly what they want. 

That's why submissive personals flourish on FET. 

You can: 

 

 - Build a profile that expresses your submissive identity with nuance 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad spelling out the dynamic you're seeking 

 - Send a Spank to someone whose profile commands your attention 

 - Engage in direct, honest conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn and share experiences through the Forum 

 

Whether you want bedroom-only submission, a 24/7 dynamic, or something still forming in your mind, this is where you'll find others exploring the same spectrum. 

 

More Than Just Submissive Dating 

FET is one of the most supportive spaces online for submissives, but it was never designed to put you in a single box. 

FET is: 

 - Where subs are treated as full people, not roles to be filled. 

 - Where consent education is woven into the culture. 

 - Where exploring submission often leads to understanding yourself on a deeper level. 

 

Curious About D/s Dynamics or Service Submission? 

Some kinksters want bedroom-only power exchange. Others are drawn to lifestyle D/s with protocols, rituals, and deep structure. 

On FET, you navigate your own path: 

 - You choose how deep your submission goes. 

 - You negotiate every expectation before you kneel. 

 - You build the dynamic around what genuinely fulfills you. 

 

No one-size-fits-all collars here. Just kinksters building dynamics that work. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Respects Your Submission? 

Whether you're looking for submissive personals, women seeking men connections, or a community that values what you bring to a dynamic… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, build your profile, join the conversation, and meet kinksters who deserve your trust. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today. 

Jan 2026
I am in Mexico 🎉 WARM weather and wonderful people!
Looking for kinky friends and a non-sexual service sub and sharing ideas!
Open to coffee dates with anyone 😊

I will not respond to you if you are: not local to me, send a dick pic or looking for cyber.
Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense ... just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Weekday afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. You must be 35 years old or older. Not 20, not 28, 34, not 34 3/4 lol

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc. I am open to any age, as long as mature. I know it's a smaller community here 😊

Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. A cookie or fancy dinner lol. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only. You will not submit to or in the presence of my husband.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner50km around Mexico Mérida

So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so **
and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

BDSM/Fetish Family5km around USA Seattle

Women seeking Men - Sub

If submissive dating is your thing, if you're sub-curious, or if you've been quietly searching for someone who truly understands the beauty of giving yourself over to trust and desire… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes submission in all its forms, of course, but also everything beyond it: BDSM, roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Strength in Submission — and a Real Community Behind It 

FET isn't a marketplace where subs get treated like products on a shelf. 

We're a respectful, global kinkster community where power exchange is celebrated with intelligence, warmth, and mutual consent. 

 - Some members find freedom in the act of surrendering control. 

 - Some crave the clarity, structure, and guidance of serving a dominant partner. 

 - Some are drawn to the devotion, the discipline, and the deep emotional trust submission builds. 

 

Whatever form your submission takes, you're valued here. 

This is fetish dating at its most empowering: respectful, intentional, and completely real. 

 

Women Seeking Men: Submissive Dating Connections 

This space is for women seeking men who understand that submission is a gift, not a given. 

 - Maybe you're a submissive woman looking for a dominant partner who earns your trust before your obedience. 

 - Maybe you're into service, protocol, or the emotional depth of a structured D/s relationship. 

 - Maybe mainstream dating has never had room for this side of you. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy ready for a space where submissive dating is built on respect, not entitlement. 

 

On FET, you'll find people who take power exchange seriously, because they know real dominance starts with earning it. 

 

Submissive Personals That Respect the Dynamic 

Mainstream apps don't know what to do with a sub who knows exactly what they want. 

That's why submissive personals flourish on FET. 

You can: 

 

 - Build a profile that expresses your submissive identity with nuance 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad spelling out the dynamic you're seeking 

 - Send a Spank to someone whose profile commands your attention 

 - Engage in direct, honest conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn and share experiences through the Forum 

 

Whether you want bedroom-only submission, a 24/7 dynamic, or something still forming in your mind, this is where you'll find others exploring the same spectrum. 

 

More Than Just Submissive Dating 

FET is one of the most supportive spaces online for submissives, but it was never designed to put you in a single box. 

FET is: 

 - Where subs are treated as full people, not roles to be filled. 

 - Where consent education is woven into the culture. 

 - Where exploring submission often leads to understanding yourself on a deeper level. 

 

Curious About D/s Dynamics or Service Submission? 

Some kinksters want bedroom-only power exchange. Others are drawn to lifestyle D/s with protocols, rituals, and deep structure. 

On FET, you navigate your own path: 

 - You choose how deep your submission goes. 

 - You negotiate every expectation before you kneel. 

 - You build the dynamic around what genuinely fulfills you. 

 

No one-size-fits-all collars here. Just kinksters building dynamics that work. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Respects Your Submission? 

Whether you're looking for submissive personals, women seeking men connections, or a community that values what you bring to a dynamic… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, build your profile, join the conversation, and meet kinksters who deserve your trust. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today.