Women seeking Men - Sub

If submissive dating is your thing, if you're sub-curious, or if you've been quietly searching for someone who truly understands the beauty of giving yourself over to trust and desire… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes submission in all its forms, of course, but also everything beyond it: BDSM, roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Strength in Submission — and a Real Community Behind It 

FET isn't a marketplace where subs get treated like products on a shelf. 

We're a respectful, global kinkster community where power exchange is celebrated with intelligence, warmth, and mutual consent. 

 - Some members find freedom in the act of surrendering control. 

 - Some crave the clarity, structure, and guidance of serving a dominant partner. 

 - Some are drawn to the devotion, the discipline, and the deep emotional trust submission builds. 

 

Whatever form your submission takes, you're valued here. 

This is fetish dating at its most empowering: respectful, intentional, and completely real. 

 

Women Seeking Men: Submissive Dating Connections 

This space is for women seeking men who understand that submission is a gift, not a given. 

 - Maybe you're a submissive woman looking for a dominant partner who earns your trust before your obedience. 

 - Maybe you're into service, protocol, or the emotional depth of a structured D/s relationship. 

 - Maybe mainstream dating has never had room for this side of you. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy ready for a space where submissive dating is built on respect, not entitlement. 

 

On FET, you'll find people who take power exchange seriously, because they know real dominance starts with earning it. 

 

Submissive Personals That Respect the Dynamic 

Mainstream apps don't know what to do with a sub who knows exactly what they want. 

That's why submissive personals flourish on FET. 

You can: 

 

 - Build a profile that expresses your submissive identity with nuance 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad spelling out the dynamic you're seeking 

 - Send a Spank to someone whose profile commands your attention 

 - Engage in direct, honest conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn and share experiences through the Forum 

 

Whether you want bedroom-only submission, a 24/7 dynamic, or something still forming in your mind, this is where you'll find others exploring the same spectrum. 

 

More Than Just Submissive Dating 

FET is one of the most supportive spaces online for submissives, but it was never designed to put you in a single box. 

FET is: 

 - Where subs are treated as full people, not roles to be filled. 

 - Where consent education is woven into the culture. 

 - Where exploring submission often leads to understanding yourself on a deeper level. 

 

Curious About D/s Dynamics or Service Submission? 

Some kinksters want bedroom-only power exchange. Others are drawn to lifestyle D/s with protocols, rituals, and deep structure. 

On FET, you navigate your own path: 

 - You choose how deep your submission goes. 

 - You negotiate every expectation before you kneel. 

 - You build the dynamic around what genuinely fulfills you. 

 

No one-size-fits-all collars here. Just kinksters building dynamics that work. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Respects Your Submission? 

Whether you're looking for submissive personals, women seeking men connections, or a community that values what you bring to a dynamic… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, build your profile, join the conversation, and meet kinksters who deserve your trust. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today. 

And what does the unowned sub need? She needs to hear and know your wildest, deepest, darkest fantasies, talk to her… she needs to know exactly what you desire, she hopes what she does instinctively is exactly what you want, she wants to give you absolute pleasure no matter the sacrifice on her end and to know that you adore her for it. She wants to be owned, she wants to be used for your pleasure, she wants to know that you crave how she feels to you, her touch, what her filthy little holes make you feel, and to know that she drives you wildly insane bringing out the beast in you. She wants that veracious, unrelenting hunger of yours to show, she needs it, she craves it, she loves it. 

This unowned sub is not promiscuous and vets her Dom By listening and observing. Tell me exactly what I can do for you. Be raw, be unforgiving, be honest and let go of all your inhibitions. The greatest Dom will still have some reserve… let go of that when you talk to me. Let me know what’s hidden inside of you so I can learn you before you take exactly what you need from me, that’s what I am here for… for your pleasure, for you to control, to be your good girl, for you to own me.

This is how I vet… I need to hear you and I need to see you. I won’t unread your messages, I won’t ignore you, I won’t block you, I won’t deny you access to me in anyway, I will always respond and give you the respect you deserve. Even if we are not a match I will be respectful to you.. I know your place and I know mine.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 550km around USA Chino Hills

I won't respond to you, if you are not local to me.
I visit Mexico during the winter... Canadian winters suck lol. I am able to work remotely. 🎉

Seeking service oriented boys for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also another service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my boy to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. CFnm. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented boy.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a boy for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal boys, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, male chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sex, long distance or sexting. Cock cages are hot but not necessary. Not interested in cbt or your cock.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 99 years ● 100km around Canada Pickering

Women seeking Men - Sub

If submissive dating is your thing, if you're sub-curious, or if you've been quietly searching for someone who truly understands the beauty of giving yourself over to trust and desire… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes submission in all its forms, of course, but also everything beyond it: BDSM, roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Strength in Submission — and a Real Community Behind It 

FET isn't a marketplace where subs get treated like products on a shelf. 

We're a respectful, global kinkster community where power exchange is celebrated with intelligence, warmth, and mutual consent. 

 - Some members find freedom in the act of surrendering control. 

 - Some crave the clarity, structure, and guidance of serving a dominant partner. 

 - Some are drawn to the devotion, the discipline, and the deep emotional trust submission builds. 

 

Whatever form your submission takes, you're valued here. 

This is fetish dating at its most empowering: respectful, intentional, and completely real. 

 

Women Seeking Men: Submissive Dating Connections 

This space is for women seeking men who understand that submission is a gift, not a given. 

 - Maybe you're a submissive woman looking for a dominant partner who earns your trust before your obedience. 

 - Maybe you're into service, protocol, or the emotional depth of a structured D/s relationship. 

 - Maybe mainstream dating has never had room for this side of you. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy ready for a space where submissive dating is built on respect, not entitlement. 

 

On FET, you'll find people who take power exchange seriously, because they know real dominance starts with earning it. 

 

Submissive Personals That Respect the Dynamic 

Mainstream apps don't know what to do with a sub who knows exactly what they want. 

That's why submissive personals flourish on FET. 

You can: 

 

 - Build a profile that expresses your submissive identity with nuance 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad spelling out the dynamic you're seeking 

 - Send a Spank to someone whose profile commands your attention 

 - Engage in direct, honest conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn and share experiences through the Forum 

 

Whether you want bedroom-only submission, a 24/7 dynamic, or something still forming in your mind, this is where you'll find others exploring the same spectrum. 

 

More Than Just Submissive Dating 

FET is one of the most supportive spaces online for submissives, but it was never designed to put you in a single box. 

FET is: 

 - Where subs are treated as full people, not roles to be filled. 

 - Where consent education is woven into the culture. 

 - Where exploring submission often leads to understanding yourself on a deeper level. 

 

Curious About D/s Dynamics or Service Submission? 

Some kinksters want bedroom-only power exchange. Others are drawn to lifestyle D/s with protocols, rituals, and deep structure. 

On FET, you navigate your own path: 

 - You choose how deep your submission goes. 

 - You negotiate every expectation before you kneel. 

 - You build the dynamic around what genuinely fulfills you. 

 

No one-size-fits-all collars here. Just kinksters building dynamics that work. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Respects Your Submission? 

Whether you're looking for submissive personals, women seeking men connections, or a community that values what you bring to a dynamic… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, build your profile, join the conversation, and meet kinksters who deserve your trust. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today.