Kissing seems like a big deal to us when we're teenagers, but as we grow older, it can start to lose a little of its mystique. It's a great shame because it's a wonderful way to build intimacy between partners, and without it, sex can start to feel a little impersonal.
In a fetish context, there are plenty of ways to make kissing a part of your dynamic. Kissing someone who is tied up can add to the sensual feeling of helplessness, for example, while kissing a blindfolded person all over their body will keep them wanting more and make them unsure what to expect. It can also form an important part of aftercare, helping you to reconnect with your partner on a cosier level after an encounter that may have been quite emotionally intense.
Warm and intimate, cuddles really do make everything better. They're also great before or after sex or even during. They show how much you want to be with the other person and enjoy being so close to them. Many face to face sex positions incorporate cuddling as it offers lots of skin on skin touching, bringing a greater intimacy to love making. Cuddles aren't just all about soppy romance either. They are a wonderful way to get close to your partner, show intimacy and cuddles that turn into sex are definitely the best ones ever!
Everyone has different erogenous zones, but the lips are pretty much universal. They're intimate, they're sensitive, and they're the site of many of our greatest romantic and erotic pleasures. The lips are not talked about as much or as often as legs, butts or tits, but it's well worth making an effort not to ignore them entirely.
Some people say that the reason people are so attracted to lips is that they look a little like labia - and that lipstick is so popular precisely because it enhances that effect. Whether this is true or not, there's no denying that many people are attracted to partners who play up this facial feature.