Groups

This is a group for those that are into chastity. If you are the chased or the holder please come join. I'll work on a better description lol

Not all dominance is loud. This group explores softer forms of power exchange — where control is calm, presence is powerful, and care goes hand in hand with authority. Ideal for gentle Doms, firm subs, and anyone into quiet intensity.

All new kinksters must be approved. Due to nature of this kink we must be careful on advise for this subject

A place for subs in the near the 314 to make themselves known and available to femdoms for their pleasure.

A group for all those into BDSM living in the UK

Living the lifestyle full-time? This group dives into 24/7 power exchange — from protocols and rituals to balance, boundaries, and emotional care. Whether you're living it, dreaming of it, or curious about what it takes, you're welcome here.

From silky scarves to full rope suspension — if tying up or being tied down excites you, this is your place. Share techniques, tools, fantasies, and safety tips with fellow bondage enthusiasts.

Power exchange is one thing — relationships are another. This group is all about navigating love, connection, and long-term dynamics within the world of BDSM. From contracts to communication, poly setups to vanilla blends — let's talk about what makes it work.

No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.

Life gets heavy — let’s talk about it. This group is a safe, non-judgmental space to share how you're feeling, what you're struggling with, or what’s helping you cope. No therapy, no pressure — just support from those who get it.

This group is for neurodivergent fetishists — whether you're autistic, ADHD, or identify in another way. Talk sensory needs, communication styles, and how your brain shapes your play. All brains welcome, no masking needed.

Because not every laugh has to be Gen Z-approved. This group is for classic jokes, cheeky one-liners, and memes that might make you groan — or snort your coffee. Come for the cringe, stay for the community.

Whether you're deep into RPGs, MMO raids, or cozy games — this group is your respawn point. Talk games, share recs, or geek out over your current obsession. Looking to focus on one title? Start a thread and find your fellow fans.

For those who love to watch – or be watched. Whether you're into discreet ***king or putting on a show, this group is your safe space to explore the thrill of exposure and observation.

From ANR to Hucows everything about lactation

Textures that tease. Whether you're drawn to the sleek shine of latex, the classic dominance of leather, or the sensual touch of lace — this group is for fashion fetishists who know that what you wear can say everything.

NEW OWNER MESSAGE: If you are in the UK and have pretty feet, step up to the altar. Disrespect will not be tolerated here, Women are to be approached with respect, reverence and humility. Whether you're into toes, soles, arches, or ankles — this is the place for foot-focused fun. Share your passion, post your pics, or simply connect with fellow foot admirers. All Genders welcome, female/femme feet to the front! Play Safe. Don't be an A hole, Stay weird and wonderful.

A respectful space for men who love to surrender — and those curious about it. Share your experiences, explore your desires, and connect over the unique pleasures of submission, service, and control play.

A gentle corner for all who embrace age regression, caregiver dynamics, and nurturing roles. Whether you're a little, middle, or caregiver — this is your space to talk about routines, rules, plushies, and care rituals. Respect and consent come first. Please do not attempt to use this safe space for random invitations to message with members you don't know.

From spicy fiction to personal blogs, educational reads to protocol-heavy novels — this group is for all things written in the world of BDSM. Share your favorites, discover new titles, or post your own stories.

For those who enjoy pegging and talking about strap on play

This is the local group for Chicago. Meet other fetishists in your area, plan meetups, or just exchange tips and stories with like-minded folks nearby. Respectful, inclusive, and real — just like your community should be.

For lovers of the thud, the sting, and everything in between. Whether you enjoy giving or receiving, this group is your spot to explore spanking, flogging, caning, paddles, and more — with skill, consent, and a good dose of aftercare.

Step into the scene. Whether you're into teacher-student, mythical creatures, medical play, or total power exchange — this group is your playground for storytelling, characters, and shared imagination. No fantasy is too wild when it's consensual.