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How to Deal with a BDSM Breakup

A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers

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What is Gooning?

You may have recently heard of gooning, but what exactly is involved in this mastubatory method? Victoria Blisse discusses this trending topic and

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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on

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Risk Aware Consensual Kink | SSC vs RACK Explained

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Many kinksters keep their play within the realm of SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual). But there comes a time when an intermediate or advanced player's practice can enter RACK (Risk Aware Consensual

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BDSM Legal Issues: Know Your Rights!

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As bondage and BDSM lovers, sometimes we enjoy inflicting pain or being on the receiving end of a good beating or spanking. But as consenting adults, how can we avoid possible BDSM legal problems or

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BDSM Safety: 5 Ways to Enjoy Safer Kinky Sex

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Talking about BDSM safety can be a turn-off, but you owe it to both you and your partner or fuck buddy to have the chat. Especially kink play can be harder and rougher, adding potentially more risk

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Sex: How Do You Define A Fetish?

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When does 'regular' sex or sexual desire become a fetish? One Fetish.com member argues that the line between a little kink in the bedroom (or bathroom) and calling it a fetish is blurring. So, how do

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The History of Japanese Bondage

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Japanese bondage is a historical erotic art which set down roots in the West in the mid-1990s. Quickly adopted by BDSM enthusiasts, we give you a brief history of this ancient rope bondage and its

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What Makes A Perfect Dominant: How To Be A Good Dom

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In part one, we explained how self-control and curiosity were important qualities for dominants. And, in part two of how to be a good dom, we examine the other attributes a kinky dom needs to have to

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Ponyplay | A Guide to Training the Ponyboy

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Ever heard of ponyboys and ponygirls? They get turned on by taking the submissive role of a horse. Follow our training tips and you'll give your ponyboy (or girl) the ride of their life (and you,

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