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Leather Family | What Exactly is the BDSM 'Old Guard'?

Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance

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The Best Female Masturbation Techniques and Positions

This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female

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Exploring Anal Masturbation, Fingering, and Anal Orgasm

Butt stuff is brilliant and pegging is fun, but sometimes you want to experience that same booty-loving pleasure alone. So, how do you get down with

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Struggling for bondage ideas? Searching for fetish or BDSM advice? Let our BDSM guides and how-to's shine a kinky light.

BDSM Knife Play | Testing Your Edges

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For kinksters who want to explore BDSM knife play, safety is absolutely crucial - and any exploration needs to be safe, sane and consensual. We asked Cameryn Moore for her recommendations for

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Edging & Edge Play

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to explain things for you. This month, we look at the difference between edging and edge

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Take My Breath Away | A Breath Play Guide

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Breath play - or erotic asphyxiation - can literally take your breath away, but what is it? What are some important safety matters to consider? We asked kinky author Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her

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A Guide to Choke Play & Orgasm Control

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Can cutting off oxygen-rich blood to the brain really make your orgasms better?! We’ve asked author Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her personal experiences with us on choke play, asphyxiation, and orgasm

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What Goes Up Must Come Down | Subspace And Subdrop

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Subspace and subdrop are different for everyone. Some people never get there no matter how hard they try, and others seem to fall into it the moment they’re bound or gagged. We all have our own

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How does BDSM Sex and Spirituality Go Together?

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How do sex and spirituality go together? If Victoria Blisse received a pound every time someone asked how she can be a Christian and write erotica too, she'll respond,  'I'd be very rich indeed.' Her

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How Kinksters Benefit from Being Part of the BDSM Community

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New to kink? Wonder just how other fetishists find each other? Or perhaps you've been isolated and need a hand up? Fetish writer, Kayla Lords helps you find your way! Read on to find out more about

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5 BDSM Lifestyle Tips to Make the Kink Community Amazing

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Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro in the kink scene, it's always good to check in with how you're interacting with the community. We have some quick BDSM lifestyle tips to keep your kink life

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Demystifying Fetishes ​|​ Pansexuality Explained

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Heterosexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian, trans, we're all familiar with these terms - but what about pansexual? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr takes a look.

 
Finding a place for pansexuality

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Sexual Torture Tips | Six Easy Ways to Play

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Safety in BDSM is a big deal, and sexual torture doesn't have to hurt in the wrong way. Writer, Abi Brown gives you six tips you can start using right away to play

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15 Strange Fetishes Explained

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You may think that you're slightly perverted if you're attracted to leather or rubber and enjoy being tied up by someone dressed as a nun. However, you're an absolute saint when compared to people

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5 Basic Bondage Ties You Need to Know

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We want you to get knotty! Whether you're new to ropes or a seasoned pro, catching up on the BDSM basics is always good. Here are the top five bondage ties you should know – and some devilish bondage

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How to Introduce Bondage Into Your Sex Life

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Are you curious about bondage, but in doubt about what it exactly is all about? And how do you introduce it to your partner? Those dipping their toes into bondage for the first time will have many

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Demystifying Fetishes | ABDL (or Adult Baby Diaper Fetish)

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We explore the world of ABDL- commonly known as adult diaper fetish. Amma and DippedUpMama open up and share their fond memories in the scene and some reasons why ABDL appealed to

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Talk About My Tights Fetish?

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Whatever your kink or fetish, sometimes it can be hard to gauge how an established (or potentially new) partner might react when introducing kink to the relationship. This week, our Molly hands out

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should I Take My Cuckold Fantasy Further?

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Stuck on how to take cuckolding to the next level? This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly helps out one of our members who'd like to take his cuckold fantasy from bedroom role play with his

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Am I Alone with My Blood Play Fantasies?

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This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives one of our members looking to explore their blood play fantasies some guidance on how to live them out. Plus, some advice on finding someone to enjoy

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Bondage Ideas for Bedroom Bondage Fun

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If you're starting your journey into bondage or looking to introduce it into your relationship(s), our BDSM advice columnist Molly, gives one of our members looking for some bedroom bondage ideas,

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The Submissives' Guide to Taking a BDSM Beating

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Over the years, BDSM has helped our writer, Abi Brown to develop a few useful techniques for processing discomfort. Here, she shares the submissives' guide to taking a

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What's the Secret to Nailing a Great Profile Picture?

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Taking and choosing a good dating profile picture can be just as challenging as writing out a slick dating profile. This week, one Fetish.com member asks our Molly for tips on how to take the best

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BDSM Safety Etiquette ​|​ Rules That Are Sometimes Broken

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Most of us are probably familiar with the fetish play etiquette term ‘Safe, Sane and Consensual’ when it comes to BDSM safety. Even so, rules are sometimes broken, says writer Abi

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BDSM Sex Tips | Help! I'm A Domme Stuck In A Rut

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a Domme looking for advice on

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Fetish and BDSM Explained | What's the Difference?

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Bondage, BDSM versus Fetish, D/s - all this can be quite confusing once you decide to dig deeper into the scene. But hey, don't worry about all that, here are the differences between fetish and BDSM

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Figging | How To Ginger Up Your Partner

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Fed up with punishing your sub/slave with a simple whipping? Let’s spice things up a bit, in every sense of the word. Next time you're at the supermarket, pick up some ginger and try the ancient

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What You Need to Know About Kinky Safe Sex Practices

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We all know how important safe sex practices are, and for Condom Week, we want to make sure you’re wrapping it up properly. Kinky safe sex practices come with a few extra challenges of its own, so

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